His Secrets Obsession
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The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use TodayâŠTo Unlock His Undying Devotion
You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend? The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only: His girlfriend. Youâre so glad she found him, but honestly? You are so insanely jealous. Itâs hard to stop watching them. The way heâs so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly itâs like theyâre one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesnât treat you like that. Itâs not that your guy isnât wonderful. Of course heâs wonderful. Itâs more⊠How he treats you. He treats you like someone heâs gotten used to. You know he doesnât wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you. But you bet thatâs what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes. The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.
So you ask herâhalf-joking, half-hopingâif he has any brothers. She just laughs. âNah, thatâs not what you need.â She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no oneâs listening. âWant to hear a secret?â You nod eagerly. She whispers, âOur relationship was just like everyone elseâs before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. Itâs from this relationship coach named James Bauer. Itâs, like, the key to unlocking men.â You nod even more vigorously, but sheâs stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. âSo, do you want to know what it is?â âYeah!â you say. âIf it will help me and my guy read each otherâs minds, like you two just did.â âOkay, then listen closelyâŠâ
Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.
Itâs not their fault. Theyâre just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.) If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you donât. Itâs such an obvious explanation and yet⊠Itâs dead wrong. That woman? Sheâs no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.) But what she does have is a very special understanding of men. She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her⊠But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes. The truth is this:
Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.
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When a man feels like a hero in a womanâs eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her. He canât help it. Most women donât have that effect on him. When heâs around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like heâs always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him. He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him. And heâs always going to have a place in his life for those women. So, how do you make a man feel like a hero? It sounds kind of silly. Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car? No. Itâs a lot simpler than that. To make your man feel like a hero, thereâs one easy thing you can do starting right now:
You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.
Did he offer to get you a drink? Thank him. Did he clear the dishes off the table? Thank him. Did he drive you to a meeting? Thank him. Heâs a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that. Has your man ârescued youââmetaphorically speakingâany time in the last week? Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board. Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision. We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.
But the more you appreciate himâŠThe more he appreciates YOU.
Now, thatâs not how most people think. Most women think they can earn a manâs appreciation by doing lots of things for him. Theyâve got it backwards. The best way to earn a manâs appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little. It triggers his âHero Instinct.â
(You can learn more about the Hero Instinct in Jamesâ video here.)
But thatâs just the beginning.
Thereâs so much more you can do to trigger his hero instinct. There are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and little requests you can use to trigger his hero instinct 100 times more powerfully than just saying thanks. And because no man can resist a woman who makes him feel like a hero, itâs worth learning a few of these emotional trigger points.
Want to take your relationship skills to the next level with men? Then learn more about how you can master this powerful technique (from the man who invented it) in this short video.












