Hey kiddos

I'm your Radqueer Dad 👨 (it/its)

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hey! I'm Dad. If there's anything you want to tell me, my asks are open💖 (This is kind of a role-play/advice blog)

Don't hate on any of your siblings, and we won't have any issues. But you can vent to me about the siblings who are mean to you.

Open to systems and individuals of all kinds.

If you want to get to know your dad, my other radqueer blog is @newradqueerexperiment .

I love you, and I am proud of you for being Who You Are.

( I do respond to the darker ask, such as transdead, transharmful, and transharmed. They will be tagged whenever they come up. I suggested that if you're sensitive to these subjects, block the tags. I also tag with adjacent topics.)

Hate mail = #angry kiddo

[your-radqueer-dad]

This is what I think of your blog /pos

Just wanted to say something cool to someone else Quinn sees as a caretaker when regressed -Quinn

Hey Quinn! Thank you for the picture and the compliment! I try to keep this a very positive space💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

i'm not radqueer personally, but i do like some transid labels, either way, hi dad

Hey! Anyone's welcome here, kiddo💕 I hope you're having a great day💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

Okay ! So the term is 'transcountry' . I made it cause we have a lot of countryhumans fictives who identify as a country (it's odd but that's what happens when you get hyperfixated on history and countryhumans really young -) and don't really do so with the body being human . So ! We made the term to give them something (it can be used by any though !!!) -🌠🌟

That's the flag !!!! ^w^

That's amazing!!💕✨️💖💕 I've never heard of this before, this is so interesting💕✨️💖✨️ and the flags look wonderful✨️💖💕✨️🌈🍓

[warmth-incarcerated]

I will ALWAYS remember I made and coined this term ... I miss my old account HORRIBLY

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi dad, Im the one that talked about getting called a troll. Im doing a lot better now. I was very much in my feelings when I first sent you an ask. I am a bit disappointed that I was told to be quiet about my personal experience by other trans men and mascs just because transphobs might use it. But they make up things and would use transness against the community regardless. :( I was especially disappointed since it was supposed to be a safe space to vent and get advice. I just like being a very effeminate transman but transphbia or not thats still who I am :( it just made me sad to see all the uproar and push back on me speaking out over me personally missing having a larger chest

That's valid! not every trans man has difficulties with their chest, and sometimes it takes going through a surgery to realize that🫂

No trans experience is universal, like: some trans men never medically transition and they're still men! And some trans men regret top surgery.

Anyone trying to use how bigots will react as a reason to justify their own bigotry needs to do some work to figure out what they're scared of.

The point of transness is to be authentically yourself. I feel sorry for those who hate on those who just regret one or more part of their transition. Because infighting does not help our cause, and is giving fuel to the bigots exactly like; they're afraid of.

All this to say: you're not broken and you're not alone.

[your-radqueer-dad]

What's the black and pink flag in ur banner :3c

It's the Queer Anarchist flag🖤🩷

[your-radqueer-dad]

you are a disgusting enabler allowing even more disgusting people to engage in harmful ideas. think of the actual children who will see this sort of content and think that its okay be to raped or molested or abused. think of the real material harm it does to be a privileged white person pretending to be black, when you will never experience what black people go through. imagine somebody has nazi ideals, but because they're "transnazi" you expect people to forgive their abhorrent world views. i hope all of you radqueers get outed irl and your real life relationships crumble because they find out how disgusting you all are. you all stand up for genuinely unjustifiable beliefs.

You seem to have misunderstand a lot about what's going on here...

I tell individuals to listen to their bodies on their journey of euphoria, and I personally am a no-contact supporter.

And something that's been explained to me recently so I understand how you would be confused by it is: transnazis are not those who have Nazi ideals, those are just Nazis! they are individuals who most commonly believe they wore Nazi in the in their past life. They don't have the beliefs, they have memories.

Race is a social construct, just like gender. The mind can't control what it resonates with! What you can control is how you behave with it. Most individuals who are transrace have done more research into that race's history and culture than most individuals of the race. Because they want to respect it in the glory it has.

I know you've probably already blocked me, this is more to let everyone know: We're not broken, we just exist differently than you.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Can I just get some comfort that me and my cisdad will be ok :( things have been hard and itjist want comfort from another dad

Hey kiddo, I'm sure everything's going to be okay🫂 it's hard on everyone right now but we'll pull through it🫂💕💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

I wanna dress like I want but I gotta go to work and i hate it

Hey kiddo! sorry you have to do that but when you get home, you'll have more money to get things to make you euphoric! It sucks but it's a fair trade💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi I'm new here but I wanted to know if theres other kiddos who are rq and chrono adults but wanna be kids all the time? Im not transage I dont think but I feel like I should be, and Im also sad cause Im a selfshipper so a lotta people dont understand the things I want 🥺

Hey kiddo! As a chrono adult who trans30, you could be a general transkid but it's on you how you identify💕💖

Any other kiddos who feel this way? How do you describe it?

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hey Dad, we've never talked before but I want someone to talk to or just get this off my chest :( I tried talking to other trans men/mascs about my regrets in my transition and I got called a troll and was left feeling worse and regretting opening up about it when I just wanted advice

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Sorry it took me so long to get to this💔 yeah you can talk to me you can send an ask or a DM about it. It sucks that people keep insisting you're a troll, just because you took a step (that you might have thought you wanted at the time) and realized it didn't do what you expected. That doesn't make you a troll or any less Who You Are 🫂

[your-radqueer-dad]

DAD I FINALLY GOT A GOOD SCORE ON MY MATH TEST IM GETTING BETTER FINALLY!!!!!!

(im sorry if this is a dumb ask i have no one to share this with cause no one ik irl cares)

I'm so proud of you!! You're putting in the effort and getting results! I'm so happy for you!!💖💕✨️💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

I AM OFFICALLY ONE DAY ON T!!!!!!!!

Hell yeah!! proud of you, kiddo!!💖💕💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

Just stepping in to ask for a hug, this week has been rough and hard on us and I need one is all

I hope y'all are having a better week, kiddos.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Seven forgot to tell you, but we got a walker :) works better for us than a caine would ^_^

-Romance 🎙🎀

That's awesome! I'm so happy for y'all💖💕

[your-radqueer-dad]

Thank you dad. :)

You're so sweet, like genuinely you're awesome. The kiddos in our system really care about you, yknow? If you ever feel down, just remember there's at LEAST twenty different alters willing to commit murder for you in our system alone

-🍔n7

I appreciate that kiddos✨️💕💖 tell me if you get your cane💕💖✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hey dad, um we haven't spoken before, just want to get something off my chest

We're cis chronically ill, suffering from a shit ton of pain and an inability to stand or walk for long - however it's chalked up to just our weight and we're too embarrassed to ask for a walking cane

I feel bad for the littles in our system, I'm THEIR dad, I shouldn't be this...pathetic. Too scared to ask for a walking cane despite needing it

Our bio parents keep telling us to be more active, and we try, but our body literally cannot work like it should and an hour worth of walking or whatever causes extreme fatigue and pain. It's like this no matter what our weight

Anyways sorry for just dumping all of that, I hope you have a great day

-🍔n7

Y'all don't need to apologize. You're in an awful situation, I have a sibling who has asthma and is overweight, has been their entire life, but they are very healthy! They can be really active if they get the proper nutrients.

I'm sorry that they're not seeing you. If you say, "Can you get me a cane so I can be active?" Walmart has canes that can support 300 lb for $15 in my state. It's going to be scary, but it's an extremely reasonable request.

If they say, "You won't need it if you just exercise!" Say, "but I need it so I can exercise." Because that is the facts, we don't know how you will feel if you exercise but you need help to exercise.

You're the reasonable group here.