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“Nadie se va sin pagar”

“That would be the perfect approximation to a lifestyle, you will probably never have. You didn't even face the past. Left it behind you like worthless trash. What a disgrace. Sometimes it happens that there is same blood flowing through veins but nothing more. There is no ressemblance. No connection. Two family members and not. Perfect strangers.

You claim to be strong and independent. But you forgot who was there for you, who brought you to that point.

You claim that everything is because of your strength and good will, which could be now the case, but the bitter truth is, that you got to this point only because of our blessed-hearted grandmother, whom you didn't even show the gratitude. May she rest in peace and wake over our souls.

I won't go any further because I won't allow myself to spread negativity.

Only she knows what damage had been caused to this family.”

My grandmother taught me that no matter what family would always go first. Who would have thought that exactly "family" would break her heart on Christmas Eve '12?

Me, 18. December. 2016

Comeback

I didn’t expect to return. I have not even thought about how this should look like. First of all, Hi there. I do not have any structure so I think I am just going to start, don’t I?

I do not believe that I have ever introduced myself. My name is Rony and I am seventeen years old (at this moment). I’m that type of person, or at least I claim and hope to be, that defends and tries to emphasize the differences between everybody. I am not okay with it, when people pretend to know the world, or the people. Tolerance is a really important topic to me and I want to accept everybody just the way this person is. But I believe that it is fundamental to discover this tolerance in other humans. To be honest, for me this is just like a reminder or a conversation with myself, so if I am going to read this again in the future, I would remember how it felt to be me. Maybe. At least this is what I’m hoping to achieve.

I just had a discussion with my sister and I feel so lonely. It is actually kind of my fault since I have started that argue. She was telling about how people in general (afterwards, she told me that she did only mean “a part” of humans) would have a mental break-down after they get thirty. I instantly began to rage, because a statement such as that would be heard by me as a deliberate provocation. I felt that my beliefs, my conviction in believing that every human would be a individual and the world couldn’t be generalized, were being attacked. As a spontaneous reaction I refused to share her opinion and the argument between us went on. My attempts to make her my point clear were useless. “Everybody has a soul and that is a matter of fact”, she claimed and the thing that disturbed me wasn’t even her belief in the existence of the soul but putting that belief in a way of “obviousness”, in a way of “absolute truth”, which no one had the right to disagree to. None of us were willing to agree on the others conviction. I mean, how? How could you tell the world of today that your beliefs are the right ones and should be shared by everybody? Have you forgotten about what beliefs are meant for? Beliefs are, I’m always talking about my perspective, the islands in an ocean full of disorientation, are the vines hanging from above you grab to to cross the abyss of unknownness. Beliefs are meant for having a given path in a life of insecurity to obtain, or even to regain, a reference point. How is it even possible to declare that it’s own way of thinking is the “most appropriate”? Believe in your thoughts but do not try to assume them to others. Always respect others. Talk about the different ways of thinking. Discuss. Share ideas and broaden your horizons. Learn from each other, do not teach. Be open-minded. Be tolerant.

- Your Dearest Bestfriend

#comeback #reminiscing #my life

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