turns out "everything you have ever wanted is on the other side of this fear" is a great trans mantra but also a good mantra if you have OCD
Also a cool thing to say out loud before picking up a sword!!!!!
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turns out "everything you have ever wanted is on the other side of this fear" is a great trans mantra but also a good mantra if you have OCD
Also a cool thing to say out loud before picking up a sword!!!!!
Cop: Have you been age regressing this evening?
Me about to go for the stuffed dog in the glove compartment: No officer
Cop: Do you know how old you are right now?
Me: (counting on my fingers) dis many
Cop: Step out of the car please.
while they share a similar base flavor, dick tastes more umami while pussy tastes more acidic, though recent menstruation conveys an overwhelming metallic flavor that some diners object to (though i am not one of them). recommended wine pairings are
(today i learnt that if you don’t know how a post should end, just post it unfinished anyway and someone else will come up with an ending)
i like when a piece of media says that an all-powerful character "sees humans as insects" because that really could mean a lot of things. maybe they view us as insignifigant and will squish us under their boot. maybe theyre actually studying and cataloguing us for their thesis paper. maybe theyre campaigning for human protection because we're an important part of their ecosystem. maybe they see a human and go "ew ew ewwwwww someone get the cup and get that FREAK out of my house." .
please read this even if you're not indian. especially if you're not indian.
you've seen the jokes. india is "dirty", indians are "everywhere", why don't they fix their own country. ok. let me tell you why, and what's happening right now while nobody's watching.
first, the history you skipped: britain ruled india for two centuries and drained it. economist utsa patnaik's research estimates around $45 trillion in today's money was taken. the india that got independence in 1947 was one of the poorest countries on earth. every "why is india like this" question starts there. you don't get to profit off a robbery and then mock the crime scene.
now, what's happening RIGHT NOW:
in may the question paper for NEET leaked. that's the national medical entrance exam. over 2.2 million students took it. cancelled. years of studying, families' savings poured into coaching, gone overnight because someone sold the paper. students died by suicide after. these were kids who wanted to be doctors.
and out of that came a protest movement. a gen z group called the cockroach janta party, started by a 30 year old named abhijeet dipke, got 22 million instagram followers within DAYS. they've been doing a sit-in at jantar mantar in delhi demanding education minister dharmendra pradhan resign.
and then there's sonam wangchuk. if you've watched 3 idiots, he's the real engineer the character was based on. built solar schools in ladakh. invented ice stupas so himalayan villages have water. spent his whole life on education. he's 59 and he's been on hunger strike for 17+ days now. reporters went to see him this week and he was too weak to talk. and the troll armies are calling him "anti national" and "foreign funded". a man starving himself for other people's children. that's the thing here, anyone who asks a question is suddenly a traitor.
it's not one incident, it's everywhere you look:
• infrastructure worth thousands of crores failing within months of the ribbon cutting. tunnels collapsing in regions where heavy rain is a guarantee, not a surprise.
• youth unemployment near 10% for ages 15 to 29, 13.6% in cities. in a country of 1.42 billion where more than half the population is young.
• only about the top 3% of indians earn above 10 lakh a year. meanwhile billionaire wealth keeps ballooning and the headlines celebrate it.
• manipur burned for over two years. an ethnic conflict, tens of thousands displaced, and the prime minister barely said the word manipur while it happened.
• journalists raided. critics' houses bulldozed. activists sitting in jail for years without trial under laws like UAPA. our press freedom ranking has cratered.
• even the petrol is a fight now, ethanol blending pushed through while drivers complain about their engines and get no straight answers.
and through all of it, the PM, who came to power on religious polarisation (americans, sound familiar?), travels abroad for photo ops and has not held one single open press conference in over a decade. not one.
what i'm asking:
if you're not indian: share this. our media mostly won't cover any of it because the big outlets are owned by the same billionaires the government serves. the only reason wangchuk's fast is getting any coverage is people refusing to look away.
if you ARE indian: speak up even if you're comfortable. especially if you're comfortable. join the protests. add to this, correct me, translate it. staying quiet is a choice when nothing in this post touches your life.
india is not "dirty". india was robbed, and it's being robbed again, from the inside this time. but it's also the country where a 59 year old will starve for strangers' kids and 22 million young people will rally behind a party literally named after cockroaches, because cockroaches survive everything.
we can still save her. but only loudly.
reblog. share. don't scroll past.
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i need people to stop thinkin im cool, let me be a loser in peacceeeee. :ccc
One of these will fix you.
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One weird experience of transitioning is failing at ur assigned gender role the whole time and everyone constantly deriding you for it but then u come out and it's like we lost a beautiful gender conforming warrior today. Must grieve for my wonderful child who pissed me off by being ugly and weird since day 1
its not funny but i do think about it a lot
This made me think about this panel from Calvin and Hobbes:
But unlike the adult in this strip, Calvin’s dad actually APOLOGIZED for yelling at him when he saw how guilty his kid was:
find transfem friends. I don't care if you have a good support group. I don't care if half your friends are trans. I don't care if the girls you know actually get it.
i wanna know what i would have looked like if my parents hadnt wanted the stupid jaw widening thing done to me after my orthodontist said it would make us look more masculine. cus what tf was that about.
If you don’t mind asking, what triggered your trans awakening?
This is a fun story to talk about.
So, looking back, I was a pretty dense egg.
Like real dumb.
I remember wishing and hoping I'd wake up as a girl loads when going to bed, being mostly phased out of thinking about my body, not really resonating with being a "guy" at all and kind of really hating having any masculine physical traits I had being pointed out.
Y'know, very cisgender behaviour there. /s
The thing is, I vaguely knew what being trans was, though only really in a transmed sense, so I assumed that to be trans I had to strictly fit into the box of gender dysphoria.
And what better way to do this than an online quiz? I'm sure that'll be very accurate.
And I treated that stupid online quiz like it was the arbiter of my entire identity, so when it said I didn't fit into the box of gender dysphoria for it, I assumed that meant I was not able to be trans and therefore couldn't be a girl.
Much to my very cisgender sadness. /s
Now, of course this didn't change anything, I still had the previously mentioned extremely cisgender thoughts (/s), hell I even retried the same damn quiz several times and would intentionally try to get over the pass mark.
Yet again, the pinnacle of cisgenderness right here. /s
Anyway, after years of that cycle, I stumble onto an innocuous little internet meme, it wasn't this one in particular but it was this format.
And it kept showing up again and again, and I'd watch the same meme again and again.
Browsing the comments section on one of these videos, I hear of this place called r/egg_irl.
I browsed that subreddit for a solid bit before realising that wanting to be a girl was, in fact, like textbook trans shit and came to the conclusion of being transfem less than a month later.