The most luscious of all water signs. An evolved Cancer is something to ruthlessly protect and defend, and the make defeat their fuel. Theyāre the epitome of feminine beauty. It says: come, share ur genes with me! Drop dead gorgeous. Attractiveness through exaggeration. Interesting blend of vulnerability and strength. Annoyingly moody. With the women, the most common traits are big eyes and a Cleopatra body type. Could be always seen as good-looking; that is, she may not be your type, your pheromones donāt kick, but your brain has recognized her as eligibleĀ Tend to have paler skin and dark hair. Fleshy. Gives a touch of sentimentality to everything. The men however are just hottest in this sign. I donāt know what to think of it. Oddly hot? Messed up hot? Either way I dig it. In a way, I view Cancers as the most accurate portrayal of men (hear me out) because social/body language/psychologists suggest when wanting to have a serious talk with a man, talk to him while sitting side by side instead of in front. This has to do with the fact a confrontation feels more threatening and challenging to men when being faced head on. When youāre literally āon their sideā they feel more at ease. One rather admirable trait - at least for me - that stems paradoxically from Cancerās inability to be direct, is these people often have a great, if not quirky, sense of humour. Just be watchful - they often resort to humour as a indirect way of expressing how they really think without risking being offensive. They donāt seem to be very ālogicalā (even though they often show an intellectual side) and can say hurtful things at the drop of a hat. Donāt underestimate their cardinalityā¦they can definitely be aggressive.
Cancer is a very self-protective sign, they donāt open up easily and can be quite defensive. Cancer is naturally passive-aggressive - itās priority is self-protection, even if that means self-concealment, not unlike a crab burying themselves in sand. Cancer also prefers understanding through intuition and expression through emotion. The best way to talk to them, from what Iāve seen, is to take a calm, āreasonableā and yet emotional tone. If you start arguing, theyāre likely to fight back or withdraw (and good luck for pulling them out of their shell). Oh, but a lot of them can be manipulative and play the victim. Depends on their level of maturity. The two MAIN Cancer self-defense tactics are 1) being dismissive and 2) being sarcastic (both traits Cancer shares with its polarity Capricorn). These traits are far worse, it seems, if the Cancer has a lot of air in their chart (self-drag here), or has strong Mercurial influence otherwise. Cancer is tempted by the notion that we are one with everything, a limitless ocean; but without boundaries, the ocean overflows, often with destructive consequences. At its best, though, the Cancer experience is one of pure enchantment. I admire Cancer as I admire water, for its quickness and its stillness, its adaptability and shape-shifting abilities. There is nothing weak about Cancers, as many astrologers (and many more non-astrologers) love to claim. Instead, Cancer watches from a distance and determines the best point of attack. Cancer, also, many times seems the quiet type, whoās sweet and kind. But know this: when Cancer is in a relationship, and feels comfortable, there is no one who can manipulate you and your feelings like Cancer can (except, maybe, Pisces). The way a Cancer does this is to play cold and walk away until you follow. Cancer knows that this always works in human nature and has this move down to a science. Theyāre strong because theyāll get you to come to them without any effort on their part. Cancers are ten times craftier than they appear. Theyāre incredibly good at hiding this side of themselves. Theyāre so adept at playing along with you, and being āon your side,ā that you wonāt even know what hit you when they use somethingāsomething youāve told themāagainst you, in the future.
Know this: Cancers will test you. All Cancers know how to test and how to get the answer theyāre looking for at the moment. If youāre smart enough, youāll recognize this and pass the test. If not, Cancer will turn away without warning and find someone worthier of their affections. Weāre dreamers like Pisces: but weāre dreamers with a vision. Most Cancers know what they want and go after it with a kind of slow, methodical gait. Eventually, most of them get what they want, even if it takes time. But Cancers instinctively know how best to get the most out of their astonishingly calm composure and patience. Weāre the most flexible cardinal sign and as such, can usually pull out this grab bag of talents at will. We can be a little mysterious like Scorpio, insert the commanding attitude like Aries, be money-oriented and crave security like Taurus, be ambitious like Capricorn, be funny like Sagittarius, be the good-looking charmer like Libra, be unique like Aquarius, and act the part of smooth-talker like Gemini. Cancer has a hard time hiding disdain for those he truly doesnāt like, and more often than not turns up their nose at anyone who doesnāt meet their standards like Virgos. Cancer has a regal air about him like Leo. While Leo is more of the caring, noble set, Cancer has a proud, capable, and studious air about him, which, try as he may, he cannot shake. Cancers are intelligent and sympathetic. Donāt ever confuse sympathetic with empathetic, though. Contrary to popular belief, Cancers will not feel your particular brand of sadness, though they seem to. Cancers, while caring, are a cardinal sign after all, and as such, are inherently selfish. Instead, heās likely to bring you out of the despair by āunderstandingā your plight and giving you good advice for it. But the sadness he shows you will never reach his heart. However, there is no one like a Cancer to give you good advice. Aries may be good at it, but he orders you around while doing so. His words are more command and ātruthā than suggestion. Gemini is good at it, but usually comes up with the overly aggressive way. Instead, Cancer will put the idea into your head and let you come up with the solution. This is, indeed, most effective and one of Cancerās best traits.
They enjoy entertaining at home because itās where they feel most comfortable, surrounded by all thatās familiar to them. They feel comfortable around water, too. From the fluidity and calmness of water springs their vivid, fantastical imaginations. Cancers are āideaā peopleāand can truly explain any strange, unusual, or outrageous concept to you. The ability to read people and be a good judge of character helps in conflict resolution. Cancers arenāt crybabies so much as they are often a still placid lake that can either keep you afloat or drag you to down to the depths of hell depending on their weird ass moods. Theyāre the most human out of all the signs in the zodiac and this unabashed humanity, paradoxically, inspires distrust and disdain from everyone else. Again, we aināt for everybody but if you actually have the looks and the strength and the smarts to actually be with one, you wonāt get a better person in all the zodiac. So, Cancers, donāt try to show off with your skills though because many people have no understanding of Cancerian watersā¦it seems like uncharted territory. Always use your skills to your advantage and make them work for you - but donāt show off or explain yourself to others. The same people who are skeptical when you show off about a skill - like being a good judge of characterā¦ are the people who will ask you, in sheer astonishment: āWoW how did you know that would happen?ā - after the eventā¦or āWoW how did you even manage to get us out of this mess? I thought we were gone!!ā So honestly donāt bother explaining anything. Just be who you are and use your gifts and skills as everyone else does. The rest of the world is not really on a need to know basis. Magicians never give away their tricks without good reason.
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