💛Naso Batela Mutema Na Ngai💛

Mein (schleichend beginnendes) im Gang befindliches Wachrütteln nach 18 Jahren. Letzter Septembermonat 2019, mein Geburtsmonat sowie die Wende nach 18 Jahren Passivität, „Schönheits“schlaf & seelischer Starrheit. Loyalität zu mir selbst, Selbstverwirklichung, Selbstvertrauen, Unbekümmertheit, Selbstliebe, Resistenz, positive Energie, Willensstärke und mein Wohlbefinden ist angesagt. Derzeit auf dem Weg ein „Happy Meal mit saftigem Hünchenschenkel“ zu werden. Decolonisation

[imblackcoffee]

Loving my skin hunnay 🥺

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

The evil eye is so real, and that’s why it’s so imperative to never put your ultimate goals or super specific goals on here. When you keep your intentions silent, no one can plot against them. Learn how to be satisfied with keeping good news among yourself or a trusted small amount of friends, because not everyone has the best intentions out for you.

[reinaafricana]

J. Cole said it best, “if they don’t know your dreams, then they can’t shoot em down.”

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this is soooooooo funny

[sweetmalkah]

Don’t trust anyone that bashes dark skin women.

[jfaisal]

[zitaten-salbe]

Habe ich das, was es braucht um mir ein schönes Leben zu machen?😊❤️

[purplebuddhaproject]

“We lie best when we lie to ourselves.”

— Stephen King  (via purplebuddhaquotes)

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“Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on earth to offer to others.”

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“Overthinking ruins relationships. It creates problems that weren’t there before. Don’t overthink.”

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“Never change who you are because someone else has a problem with it.”

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“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it is found in the simple act of trying again tomorrow.”

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[theproblematicblogger]

I aint gonna articulate this right but I’ve noticed there’s this weird sub culture on tumblr where it’s frowned upon to say anything positive about your life. Like occasionally I see someone post something like “I love my job so much” and a few responses are like “wish I could find a job :/” or “must be nice to not have depression” and it’s really strange. A lot of people are pulling themselves out of dark places or finally figuring out how to be happy (no easy feat) and they don’t need you projecting your own demons on their moments of happiness they wanted to share.

[loveliest--dream]

That’s their evil eyes. They envy your joy success & peace. & Although they can get it for themselves, they wish to compare and wallow.

It’s fine to be sad but that’s not your personality.

If you want peace, make peace.

If you want happiness, take care of yourself, take care of your space, do things that make you happy.

If you want love, you’re looking to the wrong things. Someone that loves you don’t need a reason & most importantly love yourself.

Stop trying to out suffer each other. It’s not saving anyone any pain.

[theproblematicblogger]

I aint gonna articulate this right but I’ve noticed there’s this weird sub culture on tumblr where it’s frowned upon to say anything positive about your life. Like occasionally I see someone post something like “I love my job so much” and a few responses are like “wish I could find a job :/” or “must be nice to not have depression” and it’s really strange. A lot of people are pulling themselves out of dark places or finally figuring out how to be happy (no easy feat) and they don’t need you projecting your own demons on their moments of happiness they wanted to share.

[persephinae]

crab bucket mentality:

Crab mentality, also known as crabs in a bucket (also barrel, basket, or pot) mentality, is a way of thinking best described by the phrase “if I can’t have it, neither can you”. The metaphor is derived from a pattern of behavior noted in crabs when they are trapped in a bucket. While any one crab could easily escape, its efforts will be undermined by others, ensuring the group’s collective demise.

The analogy in human behavior is claimed to be that members of a group will attempt to reduce the self-confidence of any member who achieves success beyond the others, out of envy, resentment, spite, conspiracy, or competitive feelings, to halt their progress.

[sad--gal]

Bye

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