Single mom of a sweet 3 year old little girl and an angel baby. 20 years old. Preschool teacher. I am Zoe.
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I’ve been matched with a couple to do my first surrogate, and I’m going to get the transfers next week on the 16th. So Hopefully some time early February we’ll know if any of the embryos took. :)
Don’t judge others because they love differently from you.
Most of the time the stares or comments from people don’t bother me. But recently when we go out as a family, people seem to think it’s okay to give us their thoughts on our relationship. Not curious questions, or general jokes but nasty rude “you shouldn’t expose your children to that type of behavior” type comments.
What is wrong with exposing our children to different ways to love, we show them that love is love and whether that love be between a man and a woman, two women or two men, or in our case multiple people. That is isn’t wrong That we accept people for what they are and who they are.
Even if we don’t agree with something we accept it. I want a world where people didn’t constantly judge ans spew hate on anyone who is different than them. But I suppose as long as people continue to teach their children that being gay, or transgender or polyamourous or anything inbetween there is wrong- we will never live in that world.
Such a beautiful family! I’m glad to have friends like you guys! Especially so Matty can see that love is not just black and white is a wholleeeee spectrum. There’s no right way❤️
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that, I can see you have so much love in your family and that's what really matters.People are stuck thinking inside a box of what is normal, when normal doesn't exist. Keep holding your heads up high and raising those beautiful children.
Material Status:
Date of marriage or commencement of domestic partnership
Do you have children(if yes please list names ages and if they live with you)
Has either Applicant
ever been arrested and/or convicted of a crime?
Ever been cited for or convicted of any offense involving alcohol or drugs?
If yes please explain:
Does either applicant have a health condition which impairs normal daily activities, is likely to significantly reduce life span, or may impair the ability to care for a child?
If yes please explain:
SURROGACY PROCESS
What has led you to the decision to pursue surrogacy?
You plan to use (mark all that apply):
Your own egg and sperm:
Donor Egg(if you plan on using Zoe's eggs please say Zoe):
Donor Sperm:
How many embryo transfer attempts are you willing to undergo to achieve a successful pregnancy?
Are you willing to have the Gestational Carrier carry multiple fetuses?
If you have answered yes, how many?
Would you be interested in a Gestational Carrier who would possibly carry another child for you in the future?
Under what circumstances, if any, would you agree to abortion or selective reduction?
Please describe the kind of relationship you expect or hope to establish with the Gestational Carrier (before, during and after the pregnancy):
Please write a personal note which describes you and your family. You may want to include details about your daily life and your family background. Please also include photos to share with Gestational Carrier.
TERMS OF SERVICE:
I understand that pregnancies do not always go as planned and that Zoe King is not responsible for any situations that result in fetal abnormalities, fetal loss, down syndrome, Twin Twin Transfusion Syndrome, birth defects, ect.
I also understand that Zoe King will do anything nessicary to make sure the pregnancy goes smoothly, but with that understanding we are willing to help matters by any means possible. Zoe will offer her time to you updating you on baby each month.This is for roleplay purposes only!
OOC:
Length of pregnancy-
Realtime (9 months)
Double Time(4.5 months)
Sped up(9 weeks)
Single/Mulitple
Gender(s)
Girl
Boy
Undecided
Any special circumstances? (premature birth, birth defects ect)
Will you be making the newborn?
So there has actually been a few people interested in my surrogacy idea. Which surprises me! But I’m super excited about it, So I think I’m going to make a form for people who would like to use zoe for their families so that way I can kind of keep track of stuff and what not.
Also it will be kind of a first come first serve basis and depending on the type of pregnancy they want (Real time,half time, sped up) it might take me a while to get to you. I may just do the half time so its not really too long of a wait. But It honestly depends on how many families I have waiting.
So keep a look out for the form and I’ll open up my submit box. :)
:3 I mean...I guess so, we never really put a label on it before and he hasn’t like asked to be my boyfriend but I’m not sure people even do that anymore. xD
I kind of think of him as my boyfriend though.
We text all the time and hang out when we can so I guess Yes.
I am interested in becoming a gestational surrogate (egg donor or IP’s eggs used), traditional surrogate (own eggs used) or either one:
Either one
Material status: Single
Have you ever been pregnant, successfully carried to term and given birth? Yes
Have you ever had a miscarriage or abortion? (if so, which and when)
No
How many biological, adopted or step children Do you have? (ages,names)
1
Autumn- 3 years old
Do your children currently live with you?
yes
Do you want to have anymore children of your own?
Some day
What is your highest level of education?
2 years of online college
What languages do you speak with your family?
English
What is your relationship with your child(ren)s father(s)?
Divorced but good
If you are not married are you in a monogamous relationship?
Yes
If you are married. how long have you been together?
N/A
Have you ever been married? Divorced or separated?
Divorced
Does your current partner/spouse smoke?
No
What is your racial background?
Caucasian
Ethnic Origin/Ancestory?
German, Irish
Do you drink?
Occasionally
Do you smoke?
No
Have you ever been arrested?
No
Medical information:
Do you have any allergies? No
Do you take any prescription drugs? No
Do you take any non-prescription drugs? Multi-vitamin
Do you take any recreational drug? No
Do you have tattoos? have you gotten a tattoo within the last 6 months? Yes and no
Have you had any medical complications during any of your pregnancies? No
Please answer any of the following you have experienced with any pregnancy?
Stillbirth: Yes
C-section: No
Ordered Bedrest: No
Toxemia: No
Ectopic pregnancy: No
Placenta previa: No
Gestational Diabetes: No
High blood Pressure: No
Endometriosis: No
Infected tubes or overies? No
Reproductive history:
Please provide the following information for all children born:
(first child)
Delivery Date: June 14, 2012
Birth weight: 7lbs9oz
Length of pregnancy: 39w4d
single/multiple: Single
Vaginal/C-section: Vaginal
(second child)
Delivery Date: May 6,2014
Birth weight: 3lbs6oz
Length of pregnancy: 30w2d
single/multiple: single
Vaginal/C-section: Vaginal
Any complications during delivery? No
Number of pregnancies? 2
Number of live births? 1
Number of miscarriages? 0
Medical reasons for miscarriage? -
Number of Abortions?0
Dates of abortions? -
What age did you get First menstrual period? 14
How often do you get a period? 29-30 days
Do you have a regular cycle? yes
Have you ever used any contraceptive? only condoms
Are you currently using a contraceptive? no
How long after stopping contraceptives (if using) did it take to fall pregnant? 2 months
Are you currently breastfeeding? no
Employment
Are you currently working? yes
What kind of business do you currently work for? Simville Preschool
How any hours a week do you work? 40
What is your current weekly income? 320
Surrogacy
How did you become interested in becoming a surrogate? After watching one of my best friends struggle to get pregnant and I fell pregnant so quickly it made me want to help her and people who couldn’t have children.
Why is being a surrogate important to you? Having children is an amazing experience I think anyone who wants to have should be able to have, and if I can help in any way possible I think I should
How do you feel about a gay couple raising a family? I don’t judge parenting ability on sexual preference, or religion.
Have you been a surrogate before? No
How do you feel about pumping milk for the intended family? If they need me to I will as long as I can
So I think I am going to have Zoe be a surrogate. I’m thinking of having it interactive so like other simumblers/simblrs who are having trouble getting pregnant can go through me. And I was thinking of having it this way,
we could set up who’s sperm and egg we’d be using. which could be zoe’s eggs and a IP *intended parent* sperm or both donor eggs and sperm or both IP’s egg and sperm. Or two sets of sperm with donor egg for gay couples, or two eggs with donor sperm for lesbian couples. Ect.
Then we could do a real time pregnancy, a half time pregnancy(2 weeks=1month), or a sped up pregnancy. (a determined amount of time chosen between us)
I could design the baby or you could depending on the situation.(whos egg/sperm)
We can also discuss any other things as far as gender (even though I’d rather keep it a surprise but its totally up to you) multiples (no more than 2 though please) ect. Please contact me through the messaging system.
I’m going to fill out her surrogacy profile soon so be on the lookout for that. It contains general medical knowledge about her, and what not. It’s pretty long so ya know
I’ve honestly thought about it for a while. Before I got pregnancy with my son my friend was trying to get pregnant and learned that her uterus for some reason wouldn’t sustain a full term pregnancy. I was heart broken for her, i then found out I was pregnant with my second a month later and felt worse.
I started thinking that I never had any issues with Autumn, despite being 16. And the only reason I lost my son was due to an accident beyond our control.
Its something to really think about...I’ve been curious about it again, looking up credentials and realizing I could do it. I think that giving someone something that they want and have wanted for so long would be amazing.
I mean I do have to weigh the pros and cons of it. and I’ sure the pros outweigh the cons. But its not something I want to do spontaneously, Also because I’m kind of dating again I don’t want to freak him out because I’m carrying a child for someone else.
I don’t know...I just think it would be wonderful.