Why Become a Mistress...
Written by Mistress Ivey,
Because it can be so much fun! Thatâs whyâŠ
I have written several books and heaven knows how many blog posts about how and why you should tease your man. But it seems like everything is about him, when in fact, the reason for becoming a Mistress is to have someone cater to your own needs, wants and desires. After all, isnât that what this is all supposed to be about?
If taking control and setting up an FLR is supposed to be all about the womanâs needs and desires, why do I spend so much time talking about what she should be doing for him? Isnât it obvious? I can think of only one reason⊠To keep him sexually aroused so that he will want to do everything he can for her.
But if she has to work this hard at it, isnât that sort of self defeating? If by that you mean that she should have to do nothing and he should do everything, then it wonât work. Both partners must get something out of the relationship, and in order to do that, both must put something into the relationship. Tit for tat (pun intended). The great part about it is, the woman, you, should be getting a great deal more than you are putting into it. How is that fair? I didnât say it wasâŠ
Here is how it really works⊠You are in charge! In charge of him. In charge of everything. You get a servant (sub, slave, whatever) to do all those things you donât want to do. To get that, you have to keep him sexually aroused and focused on you. Thatâs it. The big bonus for you is the feelings that only come from having that much power and control at your fingertips.
Letâs face it, Ladies, donât you get a little charge every time you give him an order and he complies? Especially if you have just ordered him to do something humiliating that he would never do without you âmakingâ him do it? Then there is the powerful feelings when you ruin or completely deny him the orgasm he has been begging for for the last two months! The look on his face when his ejaculate dribbles out of his cock after a long tease session is priceless. The fact that he hasnât had an orgasm in two or even three months just adds to the joy.
Yes, you spend some time keeping him horny by teasing his cock, telling him what to do, making sure he is doing everything you want, and then, of course, having to punish him when he doesnât. But, there again, there is that feeling of power and control. Isnât it wonderful?
I feel sorry for those women who look at all the sexual attention they give their partner as a chore. Itâs not a chore, itâs an opportunity to have fun⊠At his expense⊠Thanks to MistressIvey
