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Abbas Kiarostami, from “A Wolf Lying in Wait; Poems,” published c. 2015

[luminatress]

Today, August 26th, the Pisces full moon reigns over us to wash us clean of the chaos this summer presented us with. We will begin to realize the lessons we have been taught thanks to the abundance of planet retrogrades and the July eclipses. Clarity and closure unite. Tomorrow, Mars leaves its retrograde state and we will begin to move forward after a period of conflict, isolation, and various setbacks. These changes will set the bar for Virgo Sun season as we begin to organize our thoughts, plan our next moves, and work towards improving our lives. It is time to move ahead after a period of stagnation and overwhelming events.

[podencos]

[the-book-diaries]

“How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn’t they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while? We drive a car, we teach a class. How is it no one sees how deeply afraid we were, last night, this morning? Is it something we all hide from each other, by mutual consent? Or do we share the same secret without knowing it? Wear the same disguise?”

— Don DeLillo, White Noise

[thedarlingofvenus]

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[againstagamemnon]

A tree in Turkey, adorned with Nazars; charms designed to ward off the ill effects of the evil eye. 

[apoemaday]

Sometimes It Happens

by Brian Patten

And sometimes it happens that you are friends and then You are not friends, And friendship has passed. And whole days are lost and among them A fountain empties itself.

And sometimes it happens that you are loved and then You are not loved, And love is past. And whole days are lost and among them A fountain empties itself into the grass.

And sometimes you want to speak to her and then You do not want to speak, Then the opportunity has passed. Your dreams flare up, they suddenly vanish.

And also it happens that there is nowhere to go and then There is somewhere to go, Then you have bypassed. And the years flare up and are gone, Quicker than a minute.

So you have nothing. You wonder if these things matter and then As soon you begin to wonder if these things matter They cease to matter, And caring is past. And a fountain empties itself into the grass.

[pegasus-astrology]

Chiron in Aries

Chiron moves into Aries on April 17th, 2018, remaining there until retrograde brings it back into Pisces on September 25, 2018 - February 18, 2019, when it re-enters Aries. It will be in this sign until 2026! So this will be a big cycle for us all. Chiron has been in Pisces since I began studying astrology four years ago, and so I’m interested to see this change. Chiron seemed a natural fit for Pisces, like the wounded teacher was diving through our seas and coming up with old artifacts for us to heal at a deep soul level.

Now, as it moves into Aries, I think we can expect a more dynamic energy to this healing. Pisces healed us on an intuitive level, and may have felt like two fish circling back and forth over the same things, cleansing us with Neptune’s waters, healing through dreams. I think Aries won’t be so circular, it will charge us forward, saying “I have healed this and now I can move on. I can be who I really want to be.” This may manifest as a call to realize and use the power within - healing whatever holds us back from taking our place in the world as real, authentic, honest, and assertive agents of our own stories. We may heal our relationships to power and to selfhood - finding our own power when maybe in the past we felt subjugated by others. Or we may find a healthier relationship to power, learning that we do not need to subjugate others to get our way. Chiron is a wise teacher, and we will all have our own personal lessons around Aries, Mars, and whatever house Aries is in in your chart.

Aries as the dynamic spark - the first breath of life, the desire that burns beneath us. Chiron here heals us and pushes us forward, into the fires that inspire us to act with passion and self-defined purpose. Be who you really are! With the unabashed nature of a child, and the wisdom of a well-seasoned warrior.

[podencos]

Someone waiting to do something bc they want to experience it w you is a glowing kind of love

[arandomthot]

[podencos]

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[thelovejournals]

When someone tells you, “I love you,” and then you feel, “Oh, I must be worthy after all,” that’s an illusion. That’s not true. Or someone says, “I hate you,” and you think, “Oh, God, I knew it; I’m not very worthy,” that’s not true either. Neither one of these thoughts hold any intrinsic reality. They are an overlay. When someone says, “I love you,” he is telling you about himself, not you. When someone says, “I hate you,” she is telling you about herself, not you. World views are self views—literally.

Adyashanti (via thelovejournals)

[slangtasy]

As a race, human beings are experiencing a huge transition right now in their consciousness. They are going through a ‘hundredth monkey’ experience. The hu...

Up until today, relationships have been dysfunctional.  So many relationship experts talk about insecure human attachment styles and relationship dynamics like the classic codependent and narcissistic relationship.  But they talk about these things as if they are the rarity. They aren’t the rarity.  Insecure attachments and narcissistic, codependent dynamics are in fact the past and current human condition.  They are the way we do relationships.  And all of that is about to change.

[podencos]

“[…] To love something is to take it as part of yourself. Love is inclusive. It is the energetic movement towards oneness. When you love something, you energetically pull it towards you and include it as you. If you have grown up with a self centered parent (and I’ll warn you, the parents who say they are selfless and consistently remind you about everything they are doing for you are the most self centered), because they aren’t really concerned with your needs, you inevitably have to fight for your own self-hood as well. You cannot conceptualize of a way to merge; you can only conceptualize of being swallowed by something else. In love, you take the other person’s best interests as part of your best interests and they take your best interests as part of their best interests and closeness is the primary priority in both of your life. This creates the only true safety in relationship. You cannot hurt something that you take as part of yourself without hurting yourself. But not being able to conceptualize of this true form of love, we avoid merging. We build relationships around power struggle. We can only see the potential of us taking the other person’s best interests as our own and prioritizing their needs and desires and them being happy about it, while our needs and desires are unimportant to them. We can only see one-way relationship. We can only see one-way relationship because that is all there was between us and our parents. Because of this, we actually prevent love. We fight to keep ourselves separate but in relationship. We cannot risk the trust of giving ourselves to the other person and them giving themselves to us, so we can never experience the feeling of symbiotic love. We are trapped in Ego and society supports it. It is not love to stay committed to and connected to someone regardless of what they do or don’t do to you. It isn’t love to expect someone to stay connected to you regardless of what you do or don’t do to them.

The actual definition of love is to take something as part of yourself. To do this out of your own free will is not to lose yourself. To do this is to take their best interests as part of your own best interests. It is to commit to the other person. It is to end the war between selves. When we do this, we can see the third option in a needs conflict. We can see the exact decision we need to make for our mutual best interests. This gives rise to trust and security in the relationship. This brings an end to both loneliness and abuse. We are in the process of learning how to love. And the first step is to let go of our faulty definition of love.”

[manylighthands]

January 1, 2018-Full Wolf Moon in Cancer, and Uranus is moving direct tomorrow giving us no chance at holding back emotions that have threatened to overflow from last year. Go with it. Relish every tear we have earned it. There is pain but there can be joy if we allow release. Over the next few weeks be spontaneous yet cautious (the Sun and Saturn are in Capricorn) discuss what is ailing or irking you and allow others the same courtesy. Be loving, kind and empathetic it’s truly the only way to be. We can fight aggression and stupidity with compassion, intelligence and dignity. Feel the collective power. Let’s end the waking nightmare with class. Happy New Year! 🎊🎈🎆 #fullcancermoon #fullwolfmoon #uranusdirectinAries #bekind

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