if u say that u support someone w bpd but then
refuse to validate them
call them attention-seeking
abandon them when they get angry at u for it
call them names
treat them like they are a toddler
use the voice that u typically use for babies and small animals
refuse to listen to what they are saying
refuse to take even the smallest amount of time to let them know they are important to u
tell them that their disorder is too hard on u
you are an ableist piece of shit, not a support.












