j’adore la mer

23 sheher ot5 & 5sos twt:@inlcvewithlou

[3dekenni]

this is so them

[oops-hiii]

Now that we have established yet again that both Harry and Louis are in fact very very very straight (I mean, Harry is even SO straight that everyone knows he's FWB with ZK. And Louis has just moved in with his girlfriend that he loves so very much) there's no reason for us to not get a pic of two ex band mates who are still good friends, still very very proud of each other, and just happen to be in New York at the same time, right?

[hoovesandfloorpaws]

[prettystylinson]

i’ve stayed pretty quiet through a lot of recent events, partly because life has been full of adulting things and partly because i needed a break from letting my brain spiral on long posts. but after spending last night and today digging through everything happening with cosmicleeds, i’m honestly heartbroken.

this is someone who’s been cemented in the fandom for years—someone people turned to for archives, proof, and nostalgic videos about larry—now deleting everything and pulling back completely. the fact that they don’t even feel safe in their own home and are staying with family is chilling. and it’s not that they won’t talk about what happened—it’s that they can’t. they’ve been painfully clear on that.

people will always say we’re “delusional” for believing CL was threatened, or that there’s some higher power pulling strings here. but when you actually read those leaked emails and feel the anxiety dripping off the words, it’s hard to chalk this up to just a bullying situation. we always frame things as an “antis vs larries” war, but this feels like something else entirely. scarier. it’s about control and silencing.

because let’s be honest—it’s not just one person getting pushed out. it’s a pattern: blogs being driven away, people being scared into silence, narratives being twisted until we’re positioned as the problem. the endgame here seems to be hollowing out the fandom until all that’s left are smaller blogs no one listens to, or newer fans who don’t know the history and don’t know who to believe.

so just know: if my blog ever disappears, if i stop posting fics or delete long meta, it wasn’t because i suddenly gave up or changed my mind. it’ll be because i wasn’t given a choice.

at some point, we really need to stop brushing these things off as just “fandom drama.” the longer we dismiss it, the easier it becomes for people with actual power to push us into silence. it always starts with one blog, one archive, one person too scared to stay—and then suddenly the history is gone, the proof is gone, and the voices left behind are too small to be heard. pay attention now, before we look around and realize there’s nothing left to hold onto.

[kaleidoscopeminds]

[1ns1deyourm1nd]

[v4mp1rete3th]

[3dekenni]

oops why everybody came at me with this t-shirt SHDH😭😭 i really forgot half of the things that happened and was little delulu at work today that’s all

[whattarush]

xx

[paola97off-deactivated20170913]

This is so important omg my Larry heart in crying

[thedevilinmybrain]

I know we all have our own feelings about Away From Home Festival, but I really have to implore you not to turn this into a Woodstock situation.

I obviously know the projected attendance isn't the same, but I also have seen the environmental and costly impact left behind by other more recent music festivals in the United States.

Please pick up after yourself.

Respect the local residents and the wildlife.

If you're camping, live by the 'leave no trace' rule.

If you're going, you're not just representing yourself but also the fanbase and the artist. Don't leave behind a bad reputation for everyone.

[prettystylinson]

it’s totally fine if you don’t ship larry, everyone has their preferences, and most larries won’t shame you for that. but to go around claiming there was never any real indication of feelings between harry and louis, or that one of them never felt something is honestly a stretch.

if you actually pay attention, look at the timeline, and see the moments through the years, the “proof” is there. even people who aren’t in the fandom can see there was more than just friendship between them. i’ve had co-workers, who don’t even know who they are, watch clips of harry and louis and say there’s definitely something there, or that there were feelings.

now, antis love to say we aren’t in their heads, that we can’t know if there were ever feelings—but you’re not in their heads either. you can’t say for sure there weren’t feelings.

let’s stop speaking for harry and louis and stop acting like every single larrie ruined them. not all of us are like that.

the friend group i have, we just love love and we see it between them. 💚💙

[pancakesforhalo]

I’ve seen a tiktok and the op isn’t in the fandom (more like GP) and there was a lot of 1D & larry vids that showed on their fyp and after watching larry tiktoks, op posted and said there is no way louis and harry are not in a relationship and lots of people agreed, as it got nearly 900k likes. atp i think antis can see that as well but antis being antis are too deep in their egos

[princess-park-love]

different year, same love ♡

[idareyoutotakealook-deactivated]

Do you ever think about the REASON Louis always validates Harry? Do you think it’s because for so long he was MARKETED as adorably slow. And he had to be told that. Be told that his personality lent itself to make him appear like he wasn’t smart. So the reason Louis is always so quick to react to Harry is because Harry was made out to think that what he said didn’t matter and will never matter. So I think part of it is Harry is Louis’ baby yeah.  But a lot of it is probably the whispered conversations where Harry said he didn’t feel like his voice mattered. Or like he didn’t want to do something stupid or it’ll be exactly what they labeled him as. And that’s why Louis jumps at Harry’s honor, because Louis would never want to be what makes Harry think he’s anything but the brilliant, thoughtful, person he is 

[california-sister]

[hearteyesharry]

#remember when he wore this for an entire year#and taped it together when it started to fray#and then when he couldn’t even keep it taped together any longer#he got a tattoo in that very spot #i’m fine [x]

[spookingisfun]

[zefandvibes]

2015arry Styles what a man you are…

I still can’t comprehend that this was him at 21

[obviously-im-a-boyo]

I think one of the biggest things people struggle to understand these days is that the guys weren’t just contractually obligated to the labels, but also Sim0n. I am 95% sure that they had to sign contracts in perpetuity that they would not besmirch or vilify SC or MM. This would’ve been on top of any NDA & image clauses they were under.

One of the biggest challenges they face with coming out would be that it would point fingers & add weight to the rumors of closeting the boys, which would tarnish SC & MM. if they were to come out it would have to be in a way that “makes it clear” or looks as though this is all new & never was a thing or issue back in the days of 1D.

I thought everyone would know that they personally have not & do not want to live lies, having to hire women to pretend to be in relationships with them. Does anyone actually believe that H wanted to be with OW, or L wanted to spend 11 years on & off with El. 🤣😂 get real.

im pretty sure katie waissel has confirmed that bit about not shit talking simon, in x-factor contracts at least. i can only imagine syco's other contracts are similar if not harsher. not to forget how much simon has control over the media in the UK.

and youre absolutely right that them coming out would point a finger at syco, simon, modest, and sony as a whole. babygate is so important in that regard. more than anything else in 2025 i really feel like the lingering blame of closeting in the past is the main reason they still arent allowed to come out, since it would spark questions about companies and people who really dont want that bad PR.

absolutely. why would they choose to willingly stunt with women theyre not with, visibly miserable, or be in different countries publicly all the time, if it was a choice? closeting is never a choice, but the lengths HL have to go to in order to maintain their closets are just so intense that i cant imagine it being a willing endeavor.