AH’s Art of Blessed Dying
The deathbed accounts written by ministers and friends about AH are valuable because they are early attempts at crafting a narrative about Alexander Hamilton for posterity. His friends were well aware of this - most of these accounts were very quickly published*.
But there’s another purpose to these beyond entertaining a morbidly curious public. His friends are witnessing to AH having a “Good” or “Blessed Death,” informing a worried public that he died as a pious Christian. It was probably of grave concern to members of the public, especially those opposed to dueling, that AH had died engaged in an activity in which he possibly intended to take the life of another man. These accounts address that his intent was never to harm Burr, and they confirm that AH held common Christian beliefs about the nature of death. These accounts also witness to AH as a follower of the Ars moriendi and place him more firmly in the Christian milieu of the early 19th century.
The scarcity of priests to minister the final sacraments to the numerous dying during the era of the Black Death created a crisis that the Roman Catholic Church sought to address at the Council of Constance (1415-1418) by advocating for the creation of a text that would provide the laity with instructions for a holy death. The first Catholic Ars moriendi (The Art of Dying) devotionals were published in 1415 and 1450. This type of literature became very popular and was widespread throughout Europe by the 17th century. In 1651, Bishop Jeremy Taylor, one of the Caroline Divines, published The Rule and Exercises of Holy Dying (he published The Rule and Exercises of Holy Living the year before). This became one of the most popular Christian devotionals on death. Taylor provides meditations and prayers for a Christian to say “in their sickness.“ Taylor’s texts were inspirational to John Wesley, one of the founders of Methodism, but even more so they seeped into the Christian public consciousness of a "Good Death.”
Even if one did not read the devotional texts, familiarity with the concepts were widespread among Anglo-Protestants through the 19th century. The “art of dying” became a deeply enmeshed tradition, a ritual whereby loved ones could be convinced of the eternal salvation of their beloved dead. Some of the concepts of the good death included the dying person demonstrating repentance, resignation to the will of God, and confidence in the mercy of God (signs of despair and impatience were seen as lack of Christian belief). One’s last words (focused on holy thoughts?) signified the eternal state of one’s soul. Even one’s countenance (at peace?) at the very moment of death could be read by loved ones and confirm in them the hope of salvation.
He is patient that calls upon God; that hopes for health or heaven; that believes God is wise and just in sending him afflictions; that confesses his sins, and accuses himself and justifies God; that expects God will turn this into good; that is civil to his physicians and his servants; that converses with the guides of souls, the ministers of religion; and in all things submits to God’s will, and would use no indirect means for his recovery; but had rather be sick and die than enter at all into God’s displeasure. Rules and Exercises of Holy Dying
AH was clearly familiar with the precepts that constituted a good death. One of his most frequent deathbed exhortations to his wife, “Remember, my Eliza, you are a Christian,” is a paraphrase of Taylor’s text:
Remember that thou art a man and a Christian: as the covenant of nature hath made it necessary, so the covenant of grace hath made it to be chosen by thee, to be a suffering person: either you must renounce your religion or submit to the impositions of God and thy portion of sufferings. So there here we see our advantages, and let us use them accordingly. The barbarous and warlike nations of old could fight well and willingly, but could not bear sickness manfully. The Greeks were cowardly in their fights, as most wise men are; but because they were learned and well taught, they bore their sickness with patience and severity. The Cimrians and Celtiberians rejoice in battle, like giants; but in their diseases they weep like women. These according to their institution and designs had unequal courages and accidental fortitude. But since our religion hath made a covenant of sufferings, and the great business of our lives is sufferings, and most of the virtues of a Christian are passive graces, and all the promises of the gospel are passed upon us through Christ’s cross, we have a necessity upon us to have an equal courage in all the variety of our sufferings; for without an universal fortitude we can do nothing of our duty. Rules and Exercises of Holy Dying, x
AH exhorted EH on several occasions to practice Christian resignation, opines that Philip’s death was the “will of heaven,” and advises a friend of the following:
Arraign not the dispensations of Providence—they must be founded in wisdom and goodness; and when they do not suit us, it must be because there is some fault in ourselves, which deserves chastisement, or because there is a kind intent to correct in us some vice or failing, of which, perhaps, we may not be conscious; or because the general plan requires that we should suffer partial ill. In this situation it is our duty to cultivate resignation…
On both Philip’s deathbed and his own, AH’s friends and family record that he followed the precepts of Christian dying: Philip Hamilton’s death, Moore’s account of AH’s death; Hosack‘s account of AH’s death, Mason’s account of AH’s death. They surely took comfort that he had, as they believed, performed the duties of a Christian and felt secure in their hope for his eternal salvation, and were ensuring the public of the same.
As AH wrote to EH: “I charge you to remember that you are a Christian. God’s Will be done. The will of a merciful God must be good.”
*They also seem to have been effective. Looking through genealogy charts, there’s a definite uptick in the number of boys named “Alexander Hamilton [surname]” in 1804 and 1805, who have no relation at all to the Hamiltons or the extended family. It seems a lot of people found this a worthy name to give their sons.
P.S. I don’t recall it mentioned that when AH states, in Hosack’s account of Philip’s death, “I despair,” he’s making a serious statement about his trust in God’s will. “Despair” was a very serious thing for a Christian, as Taylor wrote: “Despair sins against the reputation of God’s goodness, and the efficacy of all our old experience…”
P.P.S. Some more from The Rules and Exercises of Holy Dying:
Against [despair]; hope is to be opposed; and its proper acts, as it relates to the virtue and exercises of patient are, 1. Praying to God for help and remedy; 2. Sending for the guides of souls; 3. Using all holy exercises and acts of grace proper to that state, which whoso does hath not the impatience of despair; every man that is patient hath hope in God in the day of his sorrows.
2. Our complaints in sickness must be without murmur. Murmur sins against God’s providence and government; by it we grow rude, and, like the falling angels, displeased at God’s supremacy; and nothing is more unreasonable - to talks against God, for whose glory all speech was made; it is proud and fantastic,hath better opinions of a sinner than of the Divine justice, and would rather accuse God than himself.
Against this is opposed that part of patience which resigns the man into the hands of God, saying with old Eli, ‘It is the Lord, let him do what he will;’ and, ‘Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven;’ and so by admiring God’s justice and wisdom does also dispose the sick person for receiving God’s mercy, and secures him the rather in the grace of God. The proper acts of this part of patience are, 1. To confess our sins and our own demerits; 2. It increases and exercises humility; 3. It loves to sing praises to God, even from the lowest abyss of human misery.
3. Our complaints in sickness must be without peevishness. This sins against civility and that necessary decency which must be used towards the ministers and assistants. By peevishness we increase our own sorrows, and are troublesome to them that stand there to ease ours. It hath in it harshness of nature and ungentleness, wilfulness and fantastic opinions, morosity and incivility.
Against it are opposed obedience, tractability, easiness of persuasion, aptness to take counsel. The acts of this part of patience are, 1. To obey our physicians; 2. To treat our persons with respect to our present necessities; 3. Not to be ungentle and uneasy to the ministers and nurses that attend us, but to take their diligent and kind offices as sweetly as we can, and to bear their indiscretions or unhandsome accidents contentedly and without disquietness within, or evil language or angry words without; 4. Not to use unlawful means for our recovery.