writingaboutlife 💭

hi! this blog is a way to express my thoughts & feelings, i hope y'all like it! also don't hesitate to ask me anything, i'd love to help :)

[a-lovely-thought]

I know it’s certainly better that we are not together anymore, but still I miss you sometimes. Or do I simply miss the moments we had together, because I don’t have that anymore? You were my safe haven. I could tell you everything, always. You hugging me when I was feeling down. Losing myself in your strong, protective arms. That feeling of safety is something I miss now. And of course I am perfectly capable of doing it all on my own, but at some moments I am just longing for vulnerability. Being able to seek comfort from somebody. And then it hits me that you are not there anymore. You are not that person for me anymore.

L.N. | you keep coming back to me

[a-lovely-thought]

Everything is going to fall back into place, even if you don't believe that to be true right now. I know it's hard. I know you miss him, and you can't stop thinking about him. But I promise you, a day will come on which you are going to realize you haven't thought of him that much anymore. Your feelings for him will slowly start to fade, as you find your way back to yourself. Time for your own journey, your happiness.

L.N. | stay strong, because you will get over him

[a-lovely-thought]

Maybe I am just longing to feel intimacy. To hold someone’s hand. To be in someone’s arms. To kiss someone. Now that you are gone, I miss that.

L.N. now that you are gone

[a-lovely-thought]

What you did to me, is hard to believe after everything I have done for you. With everything you went through, I was there for you. I loved you with all my heart. But that didn’t seem to matter to you anymore. You hurt me so bad, lying about everything. Because I trusted you, and you took advantage of that.

L.N. | heartbreak

[a-lovely-thought]

It's crazy that in just one moment, you can fall in love with somebody. A connection can be made, and from that moment on there's no going back; you're vulnerable. That person has the power to destroy you, is able to hurt you the most. Love can be powerful like that.

L.N. | the power of love 

[a-lovely-thought]

Even though we miss each other terribly and wish we could still be together, we know it’s probably for the best right now. Maybe we could get back together in the future if everything has slowed down a bit. But for now, we need to move on, no matter how hard that may be.

[a-lovely-thought]

Saying goodbye to you was so hard, mostly because I didn’t want to lose you. I was so in love with you. You breaking up with me came as a shock, and I was left with thoughts and memories. It’s been some time now and to be honest, I still miss you. I miss the little moments we had together. I miss your arms around me and I miss holding your hand. I miss everything.

[a-lovely-thought]

I looked at you all dreamy, blinded by love. You looked so beautiful and sweet. In that moment I just knew I had to kiss you. So I did, your lips on mine; slowly and then all at once. While kissing you, I thought to myself; this could last forever and I wouldn’t mind, because it’s you. And you are all I need right now.

L.N | deeply in love

[a-lovely-thought]

I just wanna say that you’re special. Because you’re the guy that’s genuinely interested in me, that compliments me, gives me the confidence to believe in myself, but mostly because you are the one that shows me real love does exist and that it actually is something for me as well. Thank you, my love.

L.N

[a-lovely-thought]

And I think to myself, how did I get so lucky? So lucky to have met you, to have fallen in love with you. To be wrapped in your arms, staring into those beautiful eyes, kissing you softly or with every bit of passion left in my body. It’s at these moments that I feel the most safe, the most alive and the most at home, more than I’ve ever felt before and more than I ever thought I would feel with somebody. I couldn’t be more grateful for that.

L.N. how did i get so lucky?

[a-lovely-thought]

As we sat in his car, his hand on my leg, slowly rubbing it, I just wanted to capture that moment forever. It felt like we were supposed to do this, like this was meant to be. And while I looked at him, I just couldn’t stop smiling. Now isn’t that what love’s supposed to feel like?

L.N. | falling in love

[a-lovely-thought]

It’s unbelievable how close you can feel to someone in such a short time. You would almost think it’s meant to be, like we’re soulmates or something. Everything just feels so natural with you. You make me smile like some idiot, and almost without noticing it, I’m beginning to fall for you.

L.N. / feelings

[a-lovely-thought]

When he touches my hand, holds it and softly strokes it, I can barely hold it together. Butterflies are coming to me right away and I just can’t help but think about his touch. Could we stay like that? Forever?

L.N. / holding hands

[a-lovely-thought]

I used to be scared of falling in love, because what if the other person wouldn’t be able to catch me? But now, it’s like I actually want to fall in love, because he makes me feel like I can. I even think I’ve never been so sure he’ll catch me if I do.

L.N. / ready to fall in love

[a-lovely-thought]

Hey do you mind writing a genuine peice for me to talk about my boyfriend and that is to acc post on my ig! I want a very genuine message so if you could help me with that, that would be awesome

Of course, I’m willing to help you. What exactly do you want me to write about?

[a-lovely-thought]

I feel so empty lately. Like i'm not myself. The only thing i want to do is just lay in bed and escape to another world. I'm trying to convince myself that i'm alright. But the big question flying around my head is that, am i ?

Well firstly, I’m sorry to hear that. To answer your question, we all have unhappy times in which we’re not sure we’re okay. But the thing is, sometimes convincing yourself you’re okay is all you can do to feel a little bit better. If it sticks though, maybe you could talk to someone about it. I hope the emptiness will go away.

[a-lovely-thought]

How is it possible that the love that we felt as we looked each other in the eye and smiled, is still there when I see you? You meant so much to me at the time, but the thing is.. you still do. I still think about you and you're just still as special to me as you were back then. I just never thought you would be this important to me when I met you.

L.N. | first love never dies