A Pakistani Affair

 Let Love be Selfless and Truth be Fearless.

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[amandahelmpoetry]

I love you in waves, and lately, everyday has been a hurricane.

(via perfectly-imperfect-9)

[kristijxo]

You get a strange feeling when you’re about to leave a place, I told him, like you’ll not only miss the people you love but you’ll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you’ll never be this way ever again.

Azar Nafisi  (via anditslove)

[afadthatlastsforever]

My heart does not have a fallback, no plan b or failsafe,  it’s you or no one else.

Beau Taplin || F a l l b a c k  (via afadthatlastsforever)

[el-gatsby-deactivated20190224]

Marry a man who fears Allah because if he fears Allah he surely will fear breaking a woman’s heart.

(via aisha–hussain)

[quoteessential]

Build a friendship before marrying someone. Marry your best friend.

(via piink-sugar)

This is true. Im not saying my marriage is perfect. But we are in a good place. I can honestly say our relationship is like no other.

(via hobothewanderer)

[jay-walden]

I found her most beautiful not when she was all fancied up, but when she wasn’t. When she was lying on the carpet, her hair all a mess, laughing about something that happened. When she wasn’t trying to impress anyone, and had taken down that wall she built for most people. That’s when I couldn’t take my eyes off her.

(via ah-you-fancy-huh)

[inspiring-pictures]

Women are more attracted to men who pay attention to the little details about them without having to be reminded.

(via the-inspiring-pictures)

[tullipsink]

You deserve someone who you can get into arguments with and still have them look at you as if you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to them.

(via ajeebinsaan)

[5000letters]

And I’d choose you; in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I’d find you and I’d choose you.”

Kiersten White (via 5000letters)

[the-taintedtruth]

Marry someone who lets you drink their juice, even after you said you weren’t thirsty. Marry someone who laughs at the same things you do. Marry someone who kisses your nose on a cold day. Marry someone who you can watch Disney movies all day with. Marry someone who is proud of you whether you earn £5 a week or £5,000 a week. Marry someone who you can tell everything to. Marry someone who isn’t afraid or embarrassed to hold your hand in public. Marry someone who lets you take over when decorating a cake. Marry someone who you can spend the day in Ikea with without feeling stressed. Marry someone who wraps you up inside their coat in the winter. Marry someone who accepts your fears and phobias. Marry someone who gives you butterflies every time you hear their key in the door. Marry someone who you don’t always have to shave your legs for. Marry someone who accepts you all day every day, even when you don’t look or feel your best. Marry someone who still puts three sugars in your tea, despite telling them “just two”. Marry someone who doesn’t judge you when you eat your body weight in cookies. Marry someone who doesn’t make you want to check your phone, because you already know they will reply. Marry someone who waits with you to get on the train. Marry someone who understands that you need to be alone sometimes. Marry someone who gets on well with your parents and isn’t uptight about family events. Marry someone who calms you down when you get mad about stupid stuff, and never tells you it’s “only stupid stuff”. Marry someone who makes you want to be a better person. Marry someone who makes you laugh. Marry someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Marry someone who you love. Marry your soulmate, your lover, your best friend.

(via 7mayforever)

[islamicrays]

Always pray that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make your spouse a blessing not a trial.

(via islamicrays)

[sumitravelled-deactivated201703]

If he’s meant to be mine, grant me the patience to wait. If he’s not meant to be mine, take him out of my heart.

[sarahhkincaidd-deactivated20180]

Be with a guy who still opens the car door for you even when he’s mad at you.

(via valsedamelie)

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Ya Allah let me meet a man who will love me, respect and cherish me as a woman because he fears You and because he loves You.

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Also, let me be that woman whom he prays for. That pious and righteous woman who will love him, respect him and cherish him because she fears You and because she loves You.

[staypozitive]

[each-beat]

sometimes marriage looks like this: going grocery shopping together and finding that your hubs snuck the prettiest cluster of baby’s breath into your cart. long, honest, open talks that fill you up and make you feel safe and heard and cared for. spontaneous weekend trips to the ocean. sweet words. all the kisses all the time. trust. growth. hugs when you get home from work.

sometimes marriage looks like this: staying up til midnight arguing; tears, dark eyes, crossed arms. shaky communication skills. circular conversations that leave you drained. feeling betrayed. feeling distant. feeling alone. feeling misunderstood. selfishness. pride. unmet expectations. unforeseen change.

the challenge is to love, respect, and honour the other person in both scenarios: no more and no less. love should not be conditional. love shouldn’t shift based on circumstances.