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melbourne

[lilcowgirl7-deactivated20210223]

“If you inherently long for something, become it first. If you want gardens, become the gardener. If you want love, embody love. If you want mental stimulation, change the conversation. If you want peace, exude calmness. If you want to fill your world with artists, begin to paint. If you want to be valued, respect your own time. If you want to live ecstatically, find the ecstasy within yourself. This is how to draw it in, day by day, inch by inch.”

— Victoria Erickson 

[noirsilk-deactivated20200913]

[viinnttaaggee]

You’re busy doubting yourself while so many people are intimidated by your potential

[cestvibe]

[matrabhumi-deactivated20190319]

one of the most beautiful calming wonderful warm best parts of life is that golden late afternoon sunlight against the walls in ur bedroom 

[thatboynotjustanyboy]

[thisisgoodfruit]

[l-the-hope-l-deactivated2020101]

[sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2]

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity.

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.” Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

[ruinsmami]

me: [listens to own playlist]

me: fucking masterpiece

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

Just saying, but if you’re procrastinating putting in the work that you must, you aren’t hungry enough to change your situation. The universe shouldn’t have to give you the same lesson 20 times before you get it together. Stop treating your life like a game and make discipline your best friend. Nobody can help you out better than yourself.

[livinglowercarb]

[vuruncaherseycalisir]

[blondesquats-deactivated2020060]

why do you love yourself so much?

have you seen me

[eearth-deactivated20180601]

Every tedious or seemingly insignificant moment in your day can be an opportunity to practice patience, or presence, or discipline. Everything can teach you something, if you allow it to.

[odaro]

[berry-bub]