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forgive yourself. do it often.

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small steps to getting there:

1. remember that you are flawed and human as we all are

2. keep in mind that you can’t go back and undo mistakes but you can learn from them moving forward

3. think about how this experiences has changed you in positive ways

4. seek forgiveness from others if needed but learn to be okay with them not accepting your apology, it doesn’t make you irredeemable

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warning for discord users

If you're on the app, immediately go to your dms and then "add friends". After the latest update they allow your contacts to find you and have that option turned on by default, so make sure it's unchecked!

This is very obviously not great for a multitude of reasons, but especially for people in vulnerable positions who do not want people in their contacts to see who they are on discord and/or know they have discord in the first place. I've also tried finding out if this is a thing on desktop but haven't been able to find any mention of it, so either it's not a "feature" (yet) or they've hidden it. Either way, stay safe, and turn off finding friends via contacts!

[ID: three screenshots from the discord app with circles around the buttons to press to get to this "feature". 1: the messages/DM button, 2: the "add friends button", 3: in the add friends page, the "allow contacts to add me" checkbox. /END ID]

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Other options I honestly assumed everybody already had turned off but just in case they hadn't for any reason:

privacy settings inside discord itself: "you" > settings > privacy and safety > scroll down and turn off "sync contacts", "phone", "e-mail", and optionally "use data to improve discord"

[ID: screenshots with the above mentioned buttons circled. /END ID]

App permissions via phone settings (my phone is a Samsung Android, this might look different for iOS and different Android brands!)

Settings > scroll down to apps > scroll down to discord > permissions > make sure contacts is under "not allowed"

[ID: screenshots with the above mentioned buttons circled and directions written down. /END ID]

lautakwah

Multiple others have also said this in the notes and tags, but apparently it's just really bad UI design, where the ticked box is specifically for when you click on "find friends". Apologies for the misleading OP, several servers I was in started talking about this and I hadn't seen anyone on tumblr post about it, which is why I made the post in the first place.

You should still definitely double check your permissions and whether or not your contacts are synced within discord, though, because that would still enable others to find you through your contacts.

can everyone please reblog this version