Questions for White People to ask their cards and themselves
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1. From what unchecked privilege do I benefit?
White people may feel that we have the option to separate ourselves from the action, even if we think we’re being supportive. Expressing and modeling support is a good start, of course, but it’s easy to show up for a bit, make some sympathetic noises, and then get on with our lives, ultimately unaffected. It’s tempting to say that ‘things will change’ as if it’s not massive, collective, substantive human effort that makes things change. If we really want to see a better world for our black friends and neighbors, then the Wheel is a reminder that we’re also responsible for making it real, not just watching it happen. Are you undergoing any changes within yourself in light of the things you’re seeing? Are you willing to let those inner changes take place rather than clinging to the comfortable and well-rehearsed patterns? What are you going to do when the dust settles but there’s still work to be done?
2. What step can I take to confront that privilege?
Two of Arrows - Injustice
We can start by taking the goddamned blindfold off. The Two of Arrows shows us who we are when we’re waylaid by illusions, prejudices, and manipulation; the Two of Arrows is ‘but violence never solves anything!’ and ‘but those officers feared for their lives!’ and ‘but I don’t see color!’ It’s easy to insist that we believe in our common humanity, but it’s also easy to ignore and justify the ways in which our world was deliberately structured to deny that common humanity. We insisted that things were better, that we’d come a long way, that we’d fixed it. We took it for granted that the police and the courts and the prisons were necessary to keep society safe, and deny the corruption and oppression no matter how ugly it is and how often it puts itself in our faces. What’s it going to take to see that what we call justice was never impartial, was never equal, was never intended to protect our black neighbors?
3. What step can I take to counter racism in my community?
5 - The Ancestor (trad. The Heirophant)
Show up and listen. Be on the alert for other white people in roles of leadership who present themselves as reasonable, but stymie solutions, make excuses, or only do the bare minimum. If you don’t have the frame of reference to see through that yet, listen to black people and people of color when they point out this behavior. If you’re in a leadership role yourself, use it to support and amplify your black neighbors. Model behavior for other white people. If you feel reluctant to show your support to black leaders in your community, take a moment or three to ask yourself where that feeling is coming from. White people like to talk a big game about ‘respect for authority’ based on unspoken and very entrenched assumptions about what constitutes authority. Start asking yourself what makes a leader, and then ask yourself where you got that from. What assumptions are you taking for granted?
4. In what way can I be an ally to people of color?
Four of Stones - Protection
A significant chunk of our nastiest, sneakiest, most insidious forms of racism involve a paradigm in which black people are a threat for white people to protect ourselves from. Learning to become better allies means coming to terms with the fact that white people are the threat to the lives and safety and futures of black people, because the power dynamic was built in our favor. Once we realize that caring about other people is the only thing that really counts and that those lives and futures are what we’re fighting for, we can use the power and privilege that comes with whiteness to offer protection for black people. It means a priority shift away from the defensiveness we build around ourselves as white people, and a shift towards squaring up and throwing down against racist people and racist powers who are trying to hurt the people we care about. How can you use your privilege to protect black people from harm?
Need a place to start? 75 Things White People Can Do For Racial Justice
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