Goodbye to All That Gawking
To steal a tired line from an old dead writer: Gawker in 2013 was a very special time and place to be a part of. I think â hope â that I still have some good years of writing and reporting and editing ahead of me, but whatever form that future takes, it will be a far sight from sharing blog space with storytellers and solid human beings like Cord Jefferson, Adrian Chen, Camille Dodero, and Ken Layne. The place was an oasis for writers and thinkers whoâd been around and paid a heavy load of dues, many heeding New Yorkâs gravitational pull for a time, but not forever. Through years of experience in journalism, creative writing, and unrelated vocations, they knew well the rules and norms they chose to break. Their cynicism and affectations were borne out of a frustrated idealism for the world, for America, for New York, for the industry we worked in and covered. At their best, they used snark as a tool, an expedient means for entertaining and enlightening, rather than as a brand identity, a means in itself.
That was six or seven Gawkers ago. Those people are all gone now. Since then, there have been Kinja recruits, dozens of redesigns and side blogs born and dead, an editorial director born and dead, a Politburo, a slow-batch blogging experiment, a new office deal, a reorientation toward traffic goals, a legal and PR push⊠a host of little changes and spot corrections, each like a minor repair to Theseusâ ship. At some point, a crew member looks up at the vessel and realizes that no plank, no rib of the original ship remains; it is something different now.
For me, thatâs been the last half-year or more at Gawker, culminating in last nightâs publication of the David Geithner gay escort-and-solicitation-outing story. That, and some other little posts and stories to come out of the place lately, seem like something Gawker might have always done, but looser, less-well vetted and justified, a more cynical and malign simulacrum of the siteâs past.
There is still more good than bad, an excess of talent and wonderfulness in the Gawker Media staff, from the folks known as the Politburo to Jezebel hitting on all cylinders to Deadspinâs delightful writing, especially Concourse and Adequate Man. Even on Gawker proper, old voices like Rich and Hamilton are doing what theyâve always done and new talents have consistent smile-making potential. To the extent that I know them â which is to say, mostly virtually â I like pretty much all of these people. But I worry that they wonât realize their potential. On the whole, this current Gawker is not an incarnation I can endorse and defend vigorously. Itâs not a Gawker Iâve been comfortable contributing to for awhile. Itâs not a Gawker I will work for.
But please donât mistake this for some unambiguously courageous, principled stand on my part. I donât work at Gawker now. I was fired late last month.
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The way firing generally seems to work at Gawker is like this: It does the company, and the individual writer/editor, no real good to announce a parting in some public way, so they keep a person on payroll for some reasonable amount of time while the person keeps up appearances and lines up a new gig. As far as anyone knows, the parting happens on the employeeâs terms. Itâs a pretty cool arrangement, if you ignore the fact that that the company has no official severance policy and no set method of evaluating, warning, or terminating employees. And also the proposition that Gawkerâs existence is ostensibly predicated on radical transparency and honesty. (Now think about how many people have left Gawker over the years, and knock yourself out wondering how many were actually fired!)
I should have seen my end coming. Thereâs no question that for most of 2015, I underperformed expectations. The editor who brought me on had departed, and with him went the siteâs minute-to-minute alt-weekly feel; his replacement had a different aesthetic, one that was sharper geographically and demographically and somewhat inscrutable to me; he was never really sure what to do with me, and I cast about trying to find ways to be useful, until I was exhausted and empty.
I was one of the first writers last year to volunteer for the great Kinja experiment, leaving the safety of the front page to start Fortress America, with complete freedom â and complete disinterest from the bosses; as a remote worker with specialties in the not-always-SEO-friendly areas of politics and conflict, I was pretty much left to my own devices, so much so that I had no clue if anyone other than my commenters really cared how I was spending my work day.
Somewhere in there, as I was dealing with a divorce, a move, health issues, and a parenting plan, the new editorial leadership began to express preferences for Gawker writers. These were almost always expressed in negative rather than affirmative terms: Stop using these words. Donât write these headlines. Donât write those stories. Your tone should not be like this. You shouldnât really do âbeats.â Some of which is par for the course in newsrooms, although itâs usually accompanied by exhortations to do write this, do expand that format or area of coverage. Once-weekly editorial meetings, checkins where every member of the team went around the horn and talked about what we were working on, were canceled. Our internal chats became much snippier and gossipier and more us-against-the-world and less focused on writing and reporting. Staff who werenât around in Soho to do rooftop drinks with the bosses were left to guess what the site leadership really wanted.
If Iâm being honest, it wasnât really hard to guess; I just didnât want to confront the answer. Iâd expressed a desire to edit and was told there was no budget for it; then a handful of senior editors (a few of them really nice and really good) were hired. A bunch of younger writers (all of them good) were hired or imported from other Gawker sites to write about things I had previously written about. A lot of my chats and emails to bosses went unanswered. I had to remind my boss to give me the same phone and email reviews, goal-setting conversations, and checkins other staff writers got. The most insubstantial of my posts was suddenly sent through rigorous vetting by the site lead, and multiple stories were put on hold, spiked, or watered down in ways that made obvious my news nose and style were not what he wanted on his site.
A few months ago, amid all this, I was told with great fanfare that Iâd spend the next year working on a side blog with a national security expert who â without divulging too much â had access to an enlightening and largely unknown trove of sensitive government information. That turned out to be a colossal oversell; the expert was embittered, obsessed with more than a few red herrings, occasionally unreliable, and singularly unwilling to share his still-undisclosed trove for stories. He preferred instead to write bombastic score-settling rants and conspiratorial suppositions â precisely the sort of unwarranted jeremiads Iâd assured readers and friends in the national security space that we wouldnât be doing. At a certain point, I sort of gave up on the experiment, unable to associate with factually shaky posts that claimed the Charleston killings werenât terrorism and that portrayed a former defense secretary (whom I donât particularly like) sucking and rubbing off the Washington Monument.
So I shouldnât have been surprised when I was fired June 19. We had just voted to unionize, and on our Slack chat group for all the siteâs writers, a solicitation went out for volunteers to serve on the unionâs bargaining committee. I expressed my interest and mere seconds later, the site editor came on, rapping off a couple reasons why it would be a good idea for me not to volunteer, and to let someone else in the office take our spot on the committee. I couldnât understand why a supervisor would call out an employee, in front of the staff, and dissuade him from organizing the workplace. A few hours later, he called me to tell me things werenât working out.
It was a tone thing. Thereâd been âplenty of come to Jesus moments,â heâd said. The phone call, I think, was more difficult than he anticipated. He didnât realize that I was closing on my first house in six days. Theyâd pay me through July, he said. Iâd gotten offers before, Iâd land on my feet, he said. Indeed, Iâd turned down three very good offers in the previous year out of a desire to leave my imprint on Gawker. Those offers had now exploded. I told him his timing sucked and negotiated for pay through August. I havenât kept up appearances especially well on this end. I have a house and debts and half-time custody of a toddler son and frankly no inclination to write anymore for a site that doesnât want me. Best if I stay out of the way.
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How does this long, blubbery personal story bear on the publication last night of that Geithner story? I tell you all of that background to stress that 1) Iâm only speaking for myself here, and 2) Iâm not impartial, omniscient or especially courageous in speaking out now. But 3) I definitely feel that the latest incarnation of Gawker is short of grownups in the room to exercise some kind of non-holistic, non-shitty editorial and tonal judgment. The drawback of Gawkerâs flat, wide-open editorial structure â what Nick Denton has recently called a âwriterâs collectiveâ â is that itâs only as good as the writers who run it. And my personal view is Gawkerâs usual surplus of talent and insight is being undermined by a couple of people running things whoâve made it very small, very mean, and very jerkily gossipy without an intermediate process of reflection.
So my view on what happened last night is that it was a symptom of that deficit. Having checked out of the staffâs chat system, my first look at the story was when it published. Even if I had known it was in the works, Iâd have had absolutely no control over it. But I wish I did.
My concerns were, first, that weâd be doing the work of either an unstable or unsavory escort, and second, that we hadnât established the newsworthiness of the story or Geithner, its subject. Iâve written stories outing cads before; but one was a moralizing congressman, and one was an NSA-defending electronic-privacy hypocrite and war-college professor who was engaging in the sort of behavior for which his pupils â prospective admirals and captains â could be prosecuted. Gawker has written about the sexual orientation of public people before, but those cases have been, to my mind, more defensible: You can make an argument for the newsworthiness of a Fox News broadcaster, already branded as qualitatively different from most of his coworkers, reportedly having to play down his sexual identity for a conservative employer. I might not have made the call to publish that myself, but I was not ashamed to work someplace that did publish it.
Even the much-ballyhooed Hulk Hogan sex-video case is clearly different: Hogan is a bonafide public person, whose family life was purportedly an open book on a reality program; he was having sex with the wife of another public person, and he has made facts about his sexual proclivities public matters in his media appearances. He can seize on the case as a solution to his financial and personal woes, and he can possibly score a short-term gain here in this bizarre state I call home, but he canât change facts.
Thatâs a sight different from this Geithner story. Iâm not aware of any effort that was made to link David Geithnerâs alleged behavior to his work, or his famous brother, or any public statements heâd made about marriage, or sex, or sexual orientation; to me, any of these would have been have necessary (but not necessarily sufficient) factors in deeming his outing newsworthy. Iâm not sure why he should have been outed but his accuser should enjoy anonymity. Iâm not sure his accuser is reliable. Without acquiring some certainty on these points, I wouldnât have published the piece. And I saw no reason I shouldnât say so publicly.
A quick caveat: This is an editing problem, not a writing problem. The story author, Jordan Sargent, is young and smart and talented and energetic, as are virtually all of the content producers I meet today â at Gawker, at the New York Times, at even the handful of sites I have major issues with. We all need editors to push us to report better, to write better, to exercise better judgment. As former Gawkerer Richard Lawson explained here and here last night, our bloggy world doesnât incentivize that kind of editorial oversight. But that oversight is what makes the difference between good writers and writers who are also good but make very bad calls, and have to live with those calls, and also have to live with your smarmy abusive online threats. (Stop the abuse. Donât answer childishness with more childishness.)
Relatedly, none of this vindicates any of the psychotic, hateful, performatively sanctimonious self-marketing of Christina Hoff Sommers, Milo Yianawhatever, âgamergaters,â and the bevy of cold, craven, retrograde pre-fab apartment-dwelling souls who are waging an inane jihad against Gawker Media, feminism, and cultural justice. They are wrong. They are twisted. They are abusive. And I could give three hot farts about their crocodile tears for David Geithner and his family. What pisses me off the most about this lapse in editorial judgment is that itâs (again) enabled this barely coherent rabble of internet bullies to signal boost their dumb assertions about Gawker en masse, and to get them taken seriously for a dumb nanosecond. Gawker is not that bad, and those critics are not that smart.
But Gawker does have a problem. Last night, when I tweeted what I tweeted â a short, fact-based distancing of myself from the Geithner story â I only heard from one erstwhile coworker, an editor that I have always loved and respected and would walk through fires for.
âCmon that tweet dude,â the editor texted me. âSeriously?â
âThat story was not defensible, and isnât to the credit of good ppl there,â I replied.
âYou didnât have to tweet,â the response came.
I didnât really know how to reply to that, any more than Iâve known how to be a good Gawkerer these past few months. We worked together and supported each other on a site whose ethos is grounded in total transparency, in shining a light on mediaâs internal guts. When good editors at a site like that, with a name like Gawker, start reproving old comrades for inward-looking critiques, what are you supposed to do?
