Ok time for an embarrassing admission, a few years ago I used to be right wing and I’d impotently lash out at mass immigration and at the increasing amount of IR couples I saw online and out in public. I forget how exactly I came across your blog but I think it was through one of your captions (the captions are fantastic btw please do more if you get inspired). The seed had been planted and once I started reading your blog something just clicked, slowly at first then all at once.
Fast forward a little and I’ve seen too much Black beauty to turn my back on it now, I’m in awe at it everyday and pissed my narrow mindedness stopped me from exploring this earlier. Why would I care about who white women are having these new and exciting relationships with when I could be experiencing this feeling too! It has become clear to me I overwhelmingly prefer Black women. I can’t stop thinking about them and I just wanna have a big and beautiful family and live a wholesome life spoiling her constantly when the one of my dreams comes around (here’s hoping).
Now not only do I not feel worry for the future I am excited for it! I’m genuinely so much happier, less stressed and a nicer person to be around in general :)
Sorry for the long post but I just felt like saying this and wanted to thank you! However small or large it may be I think your blog is having a positive impact.
Thank you for that introspective message. I started this blog many years ago for the very same reason that apparently got you all upset, but from a different point of view: "the increasing amount of IR couples I saw online and out in public". Anyone who has consciously lived in western Europe or northern America during that time must've noticed it. I found it charming and inspiring. But it didn't escape my notice that there was much resentment and fear involved in other folks' reactions, and the interracial erotica blogs you would see online heavily featured that sentiment: themes of conquest, subjugation. As if it was an act of masochism to love Black.
The reality, as I saw it, was much more exciting: suddenly people were seemingly liberated to pursue their true attraction, their true love. What would've been impossible or at least enormously difficult due to entrenched racism not that long ago, was now open and possible. Maybe the speed of the change was shocking to some people? Alright. But that's no reason to be depressed or angry. How could you be depressed or angry about a new and marvelous kind of beauty?
Anyway, I'm happy to hear that you are now past your young male anger phase and can appreciate things for what they are. Just remember to treat the Black ladies that inspire you with dignity, respect and the appropriate amount of flattery when it's called for. Be a good match. And remember: mixtinction is not the sad fate that your less fortunate peers perceive it as. It's the future, and it's beautiful.















