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hi, i use age regression as a coping tool, i'm 23 but i like to pretend i'm 12-14, sometimes younger. i was severely abused in a ddlg dynamic and now a lot of things surrounding the concept are massive triggers for me. i want to cope with the trauma by regressing but now it feels like that itself has been ruined and taken away from me :( also i'd love to have a real, non-abusive caregiver one day but i never want to have a sexual relationship ever again, is there any hope for someone like me?

Sometimes therapy helps abuse survivors cope with things like sex so maybe that could help you there. There are many age regression communities that don't allow dd/lg to interact with them so maybe that could help you age regress without getting triggered

I do not suffer from age regression!

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Can people stop saying "suffer from regression" ? I suffer from anxiety, PTSD and PPD. Regression makes sure I can survive.

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Hiya! I'm new to age regression; I knew about ageplay before & was a part of that community, as a legal adult, but I'm now figuring out that it's not for me & age regression is a better fit. (Ageplay makes me uncomfortable now.) I'm in my late 20s & I don't know if any one age regression community would be ok w/someone my age joining. Do you have any suggestions? I don't want to invade spaces ment for minors & I want to be respectful. Thank you!

I would stay away from ch ire, teen(ie)tots and their sub communities because they don't really like interaction with anyone who was ever into ageplay. I'd also stay away from kid heart because they are a minor based community. If you call your caregivers mommy/daddy or like the caregiver/little dynamic then I suggest cglre. If you don't want any hate then I suggest LilTot I hope that helped!

[Part 3] So csn you give advice on how to find people like that? Find the right community? Maybe with people who struggle a bit with growing up like me? I want to find a safe place to relax... Please help ._.

[ Hello (this is going to be a really long story) I don't really know if I'm an age regressor... I always thought I was strange because despite my age I love playing with plushies, dolls, toy cars... but then I met my boyfriend and we play together! He's like an older brother, and I really don't want to call him daddy, it feels weird. So I really don't want to join dd/lg community since I feel uncomfortable. I'd really like to know where I fit though. I want to make similar friends. -> ]Hi! It's okay not to feel comfortable calling him daddy! Many age regressors don't! Since you don't feel comfortable with that I suggest not joining cglre or cg/l because the majority of them call their caregivers mommy/daddy.If you don't want them interacting with you at all then maybe you should join ch ire, teen(ie)tots or kid heart. But ki dheart is going through a bit of rough patch I believe and ch ire and teen (ie)tots are an ti cgl and they get a bad stigma because of that. LilTot is a new community that in my opinion is probably the least hateful. They don't really interact much with haters or anything. They also allow you to call your caregiver whatever you want and they do have a branch that doesn't want cg/l, dd/lg etc. interaction. But remember, you don't need a community to be a valid regressor!

I'm very confused myself. I right now would identify as I have no idea, I have a lot of mental illness' and such but I don't fall under 'age regression' because I do mentally understand I'm an adult but I love being little and being cared for and to me it's a life style but it's also play. I don't know if I feel comfortable identifying as anything since I don't necessarily bring any of my little activities into the bedroom, but I still don't suffer from age regression. Do I belong? I don't know.

I wouldn't use the phrase "suffer from age regression" because I don't really think of it as a mental illness, more of like a condition or something like that. I think you're just age role playing (not ageplaying) and that usually is summed up with age regression so nobody gets confused and thinks you're into ageplay. So you do belong in age regression :)

I'm tagging kink in this post because I want them to realize this. Age regression is an actual medical condition/therapy. It isn't a kink and I don't care how long you have "age regressed sexually." You're using the wrong term. You're role playing (ageplay.) You know you're not a child. You can consent. When you use the term "age regress" instead of "ageplay" you're putting your sexual partners at risk of being arrested because age regressed people can not legally consent to sex and someone could mistake your for an actual age regressor. If you don't know you're not a child and your partner is sexual with you then you're being abused. An age regressed person can not consent because they are mentally incompetent. Age Regression =/ Age Play

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im really scared of joining a community because of all the hate all of them have ;-; but i also don't want to be alone, and i want to help people cause im a big bro sometimes but i cant do either of those things without a tag and agere doesn't have too much on it ;-;-;-; what should i do? should i just make up my mind? i dont wanna be forced to hate people!

If you don't want a label then you don't need to have one. You could use just the "age regression" tag. It seems that cglre and liltot don't specifically hate on other communities so if that's something you want then you could join them. But cglre gets a lot of hate and liltot does also but I don't think it's directly towards members

I'm an age regressor who recently started antidepressants. Because of my medication, I have virtually no sex drive anymore. My caregiver has a high sex drive and constantly wants to play. I use age regression to deal with stress and this constant behavior is making me fussy and irritable. I don't know what to do anymore and my caregiver isn't really listening to me. I feel really defeated.

Well you should figure out if you're age regressing or age role playing (or both) because having sex while you're regressed can do serious damage to your mental health and stability and your caregiver could also get into legal trouble because since age regression is a type of therapy, age regressors aren't able to consent. If you're age role playing then there is nothing (legally) wrong with having sex. If you don't want to have sex at all you need to tell your caregiver this and he needs to understand that he can't just make you (even if you aren't saying no its still wrong to make you consent to something you're not in the mood for.) Tell them that it's because of the antidepressants and if he still tries to get you to have sex then I suggest leaving him because if he doesn't respect your decision to not have sex then he doesn't deserve you

Disliking an age regression community is fine but sending them hate and threats is wrong!!!

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really have to digress with you a bit on the DID definition,

alters can internally be younger or older than the body, or the same age (in our case, the body is almost 18, we have alters who are 24, some who are “ageless”, others who are young, some who age slide, etc).

ages are involuntary, but each alter is a piece of a whole personality (if you’re going by structural dissociation), so alters aren’t multiple personalities either.

the DID community also isn’t an age regression community, and honestly while ourselves and some other systems ( @systemchild , @systemjuniors ) did revamp things on Tumblr, there was a presence of DID blogs for little before we started.

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I'm sorry if this is a weird or annoying question, but do you know any good sources for information on age regression and the communities? I found a blog that had a page that listed all the communities and their rules and such, and it was very helpful, but I completely forgot to bookmark it and now I can't find it again. I'm still trying to figure things out, but trying to find information is really hard.

There is a lot of info about age regression online (just Google it) but I know @cutesyliltot just made a post about most of the communities!

Do you know any minor friendly age regression shops that I could buy pacis?

http://rileyslittleshop.com/index.php

Your regression is valid no matter what you call it

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Hai^^ I just wanted to know if you knew of any good nanny/daycare blogs? I know of maybe one or two but I'd really like any suggestions you may have^^ Thank you and I hope you have a wonderful day.

@liltot-daycare seems to be the best daycare for age regressors in my opinion!

Is it normal, as a regressor, to have dysphoria/dysmorphia about your height? Because I hate being 4'11". I know I shouldn't complain, because that's actually really tiny for an adult, but I wish I were only half that size. And I have cried myself to sleep many a night because I am not. I know there's adult-sized baby stuff out there, but all I really want is to be small enough that I would be need a caregiver to survive, and that said caregiver could carry me around with no effort.

I don't think that this is common tbh. Your height, weight etc. doesn't make you less of an age regressor. Needing a caregiver is also perfectly fine but you shouldn't depend on them 24/7 because being independent in some forms is needed to have an healthy adult life. Maybe you should speak to a therapist/specialist about this :)

(Please read the whole thing before answering) I identify as a regressor, but honestly, the concept of "regressing" feels so foreign to me. Like, it seems like nearly every regressor out there actually feels like an adult or teen at least some of the time. And then there's me. I NEVER feel like an adult ever, and I always find myself dissociating whenever I have to tell someone I'm 23. Am I still a regressor? (I'm autistic and an abuse survivor if that helps any.)

I personally don't think that's abnormal at all. You're definitely a regressor but maybe you should get a medical opinion? There are many different types of regression and this may be a medical condition since you never feel like an adult

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