stardust

ari - 25 - canada. be anything but predictable.

[cllianmurphy]

hi mari :) could you recommend some blogs? i love your blog btw

helloooo 💕 tysm love!! oh i could give you thousands of names! i know i’ll forget someone but i follow so many wonderful blogs!! just know i love you all ok

@breaksfastclub; @schoflield; @alderans; @erumpets; @leiargana; @travlings; @georgemakcay; @miacoslucci; @justyounggods; @samecoin; @wespers; @chlamets; @sylthrein; @feliticysmoak; @andrewryans; @dicaprios; @leosdicapros; @ohwarnette; @keiraknighlty; @gamoora; @kenocbi; @fnnpoe; @poedamveron and sooo it goes!

[kissedbyflames]

I believe that you are only in control of so much. So whatever you are not in control of you can’t worry about.

[horrorstorys]

You go to acting school thinking you’re going to learn how to be other people, but really it taught me how to be myself. Because it’s in understanding yourself deeply that you can lend yourself to another person’s circumstances and another person’s experience.

[sashabanks-moved]

tag urself

[sashabanks-moved]

tag urself

[badgley]

Penn Badgley photographed by Taylor Miller

[lostloves]

get to know me meme: [1/?] celebrity crushes ♡ Taylor Swift

“Without your past, you could never have arrived—so wondrously and brutally, by design or some violent, exquisite happenstance—here.”

[gwen-stacy]

GIFFING CHALLENGE: me and @samecoin

Rules: your task is to make a gifset consisting from 8 gifs. you do 4 and so does your pair. your goal is to match each others’ style the best you can. you can’t send the gifs before both of you are done, just vaguely decide on the colors you wish to use. that way you get to try out a new style and interact with other gif makers and also have some thrill when doing it ♡ when done tag a few people you wish to do this and pass on the challenge. it can be done on agreement as well, no need to be tagged ♡ when posted, don’t tell people which gifs are who’s and let people guess in the tags ♡ use the tag #giffersunited so that everyone can see you’ve done it ♡ you can do this many times with different giffers ♡

We are tagging: @anncshirley @verafarmiga @mormornt @softbensolo @saralahnce @weirwolves @allanpoe

[sentrysvoid]

Sorry to my unknown lover, sorry I could be so blind. Didn’t mean to leave you and all of the things that we had behind.

[aliciavikander]

✩ star wars gif meme ✩ six relationships [4/6] ✩ Anakin Skywalker & Obi Wan Kenobi

I hate you. You were my brother, Anakin. I loved you

[choschang]

mcu rewatch [1/?] – avengers: infinity war. i’m not looking for forgiveness and i’m way past asking for permission. earth just lost her best defender, so we’re here to fight. and if you want to get in our way, we’ll fight you, too.

[fjdksljlkjljklkjljk-archive-dea]

@thetaikawaititi asked: leia organa or poe dameron?

Would it help if I got out and pushed?

[arianagrands]

Harry Styles Photographed for L'Officiel Hommes China (2019)

[cllianmurphy]

Endless List Of Movies That I Love: Lilo & Stitch (2002)

“Ohana” means “family.” “Family” means “no one gets left behind.” But if you want to leave, you can. I’ll remember you though. I remember everyone that leaves.

[killbilled]

Sometimes, that thing you’re searching for your whole life is right there by your side all along, and you don’t even know it.

[hieronymus-bush]

Hey, I just want everyone to know that what the world is going through is a legitimate trauma. Full on. It fits the “official” definition and everything. This is a traumatic event.

That means that it’s normal and expected to find yourself using coping mechanisms that you thought you were done with, to find yourself numbed out, to be on the verge of constant panic attacks, to be acting impulsively and compulsively, to engage in very old patterns, to have wide swings of every behaviour especially regarding sleep, food, and sex.

The research shows that people in a traumatic situation who most often develop PTSD (which I would say we are all at risk of) or have their existing PTSD/C-PTSD intensified are folks who cannot or believe they cannot do anything about it the trauma event.

So, if you are able, look for a place in all of this where you can feel that you can do something. Harass a company not doing enough for its employees, sign a petition, check in on a neighbour, set alarms to remind yourself to eat (it’s on my own to do list for today), intentionally spend time every day doing straw breathing to shift your sympathetic nervous system response. You don’t have to become some social media hero, or spend all your time improving yourself. But if you can find something that makes you feel like you can do something for yourself that decreases the trauma load on you, it will greatly benefit you going forward.

If anyone has any questions about this, my asks are open, or you can message me. (I cannot do any online therapy, I am happy to share information about trauma itself and any tools that I know)

It is okay to reblog this.

- Registered Clinical Counsellor, with 10+ years specifically working with trauma

[perksofbeingafanboy]

I’m not crying for myself. I’m cryin’ for you. They say that great beasts once roamed this world. Big as mountains. Yet all that’s left of them is bone and amber. Time undoes even the mightiest creatures. Just look what it’s done to you. One day, you will perish. You will like with the rest of your kind in the dirt. Your dreams forgotten, your horrors faced, your muscles will turn to sand, and upon that sand a new God will walk, one that will never die, because this world doesn’t belong to you or the people who came before. It belongs to someone who is yet to come.