Opinions, Advice and Motivations

Hey I am Alex and this is a place where I put my OPINIONS and I guess anything that I could think off. My mission here is to be a friend for you. If by chance you dont like the things I post or I am offending you in anyway I apologize but this is after all MY BLOG

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If you judge people you have no time to love them

Mother Teresa

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Depression

Everyone out there feels sad right? And you feel sad because of multiple things. The most common reason out there I think is loneliness. You feel like you are fighting this battle, called life, alone or you think that no one will understand your feelings. Well I can understand you. Depression can lead to many things such as addictions or bad habits. If you are the person who has a friend which has depression, I think you got to understand what the person is feeling and just be there to support her or him. Everyone feels sad and everyone needs someone to comfort them and this person comes in the form of your friends, family or companion.

There are other things which makes you depress for example if your loved one gets hurt or are fighting, it makes you sad. When you feel like you can do nothing to help, you feel sad.

How to beat depression is the question everyone has while reading this and I can tell you a few things which can help. First of all surround yourself with people who make you happy, trust me they help you to forget your depression just for a little while but be careful some of your friends or family bring you depression instead. Second is, stop isolating you from everyone. Go outside and explore maybe it will give you a peace of mind also try meeting new people. Lastly stay away from stress, stress leads to frustration and frustration will lead you to depression. When there is stress, you feel like the world is crashing down on you and you have so many things you have to do which sometimes you don’t care about.

These are only some things which can help you but it is up to you if you follow it or not remember that you are the one in control of your life it is either you let depression control you or you can erase depression from your life and live a happy-ever-after.

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Judging others

I know judgments can be pretty hard on people and I think a lot of people are going through this. I know people can be though sometimes but you just have to learn to keep your head up and ignore what they are saying. People out there can be very judgmental, they can judge you due to your color of skin, gender, what you like and so on. I am here to tell you that IGNORE THEM, you are fine just the way you are. Don't change just because they hate you or your not accepted, if they are your family and friends, they will support you and be happy in whatever you do. Being honest is really hard and I know that but at the end of the day you will know who is real and who is fake. Whatever your hiding just express it. They are judging you because they have nothing to do with their life and remember this: nothing and no one is perfect in this world. The judgmental people also have secrets they are hiding and they tease you because they can't express themselves. Understand them and try reasoning. Judging people is not all bad for example judging helps you to improve yourself, your talents etc but how you take the judgement is what really matters: will you use it to improve or to be depressed on what she/he said. The worst form of judging is by basing it on their looks and skills. I am not saying judging is bad but you do have to choose your words wisely because you never know how they will take it and it might affect that person. The basic point of this is that Judging is not bad but choose your words wisely. You can be a victim or the attacker. Bad judging will lead to depression of other people so be careful.

There are a lot of errors (grammatical and point wise) but this is all just my opinion. Please don't take this in the wrong way if you have a problem ask me. I will try to elaborate more in the future somethings which are included here will be discussed in the future. Sorry if it is bad but It can only get better from here

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Facts about me

Gender: Female

Appearance: I wear glasses and Have long, black hair

Point of this blog: Expressing myself and my thoughts to others

Age: Below 30 lol

I am sorry I cant put more information about me because my friends know a lot of things about me and they remember everything. If you want to know more ask but I will not guarantee straight-forward answers.

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Alex Vice an Alias?

So I guess here is the explanation on why do i have to keep an alias.

First and foremost I am not anyone important, I am just your average girl with a blog. I guess I want to keep an alias because of the judgement of other people and also the real me is energetic and very wild with Alex Vice I can be serious and just keep my thoughts flowing. My blog I guess will just be full of paragraphs like this sorry. When the time comes I think You will know the real me. 

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A new begging

So new blog, new beginning. Well to explain why I am here basically I just want to express my thoughts somewhere and maybe, just maybe my opinions can inspire or help someone. I am actually not expecting anyone to see this blog but I am just going to keep posting just in case anyone stumbles upon this little blog ;)

Please be aware that Alex is just an alias for me and everything will be explained on the next posts.