Algorithmic Bae

1000% Black without apology. Software Engineer by day. Nomadic Heaux by night. The goal is secure the bag by any means necessary & I won't stop til I have a condo in Downtown LA and vacations in the south of France

[glamsatan]

Checking out all new followers! Inbox me 👑❤

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“Destruction in beauty. Beauty in destruction. Roses, always roses. Roses are my hiding place.”

— Lola Ridge, from To the Many; Collected Poems of Lola Ridge; “Roses,”

[nomediocre]

[gidigidibumbum]

Date these SDs

I’ve never done ppm. I’ve never done “x allowance for y meets per month”. I wouldn’t do them now. If you really want a guys financial attention long term, make them care about you. Let them take care of you. Don’t let them know they’re paying for it. It doesn’t matter if he told you he loved you, that’s lust. Once it gets too expensive or the new shiny bauble comes by, you’re history.

If you want that to last, you need to make yourself indispensable to these men. You need them to think that you’re a one and only. You also need them to forget they’re paying you. Most men will quickly grow tired of their wallets being the only way to get his attention. Yes by then you might have gotten a lot of cash out of him, but think about how much more you could have gotten.

I’m not saying be clingy, i’m not saying be lovey dovey, i’m saying be special. become an integral part of their life, so those bank transfers feel normal, like paying bills, not like paying this girl to be nice to me. Don’t do nice things because they buy you stuff or give you cash. You might think that’s counter-intuitive but consider it. (Most of) These men aren’t stupid. they can tell that you only stay over when you get offered a gift. They can tell that you only responded to them when they said they’d send you a gift card. They can tell you only care about the money. And, unless he’s a financial submissive, he’s gonna drop a girl after a while if all she values in him is his cash.

That’s why I encourage you girls to get off these sugar sites. I’m not saying you can’t make money off them, i’m just saying the payoff to how much work you have to do is low. most SRs these days are just long term escort client relationships. Don’t be afraid to break the mold and actually date these dudes. You get so much more money when you actually mean something to them and aren’t just another piece of ass they have to pay for.

Dating these dudes is why I retired, its why I’m starting multiple businesses, it’s why I can comfortable stop working completely and not have my bank account go low. Spoiled GF gets you the most buck for your bang. 

[rechbetch-deactivated20220314]

Spoiled Gf Tip:

Tired of Saying Mutually Beneficial?

Say you’re a traditionalist. Say you want a man to be the man in the relationship - the breadwinner, the provider.

In return you’re the loving, caring, beautiful, and all-around perfect woman. You’ll care for him, love him, and always be there. But for to you always be there, to always look beautiful, and be all-around perfect your man needs to provide for you - financially, emotionally, and of course physically (🙄🙄🙄).

Instead of demanding something mutually beneficial, demand A MAN. Watch how the tables turn when he’s forced to either comply or admit he’s not a man who’s capable…… And nothing hurts a man’s ego, pride, or manhood more 😈

[seattlesugarbaby]

[fithoneys]

@olmecian “At 25, Hope Wiseman is set to become the country’s youngest black female owner of a cannabis dispensary.

The medicinal-cannabis dispensary, Mary and Main, will open in winter 2018 in Prince George’s County, Md., and will offer a variety of products and therapy treatments. With a recommendation from a registered physician in hand, customers can buy cannabis sativa and indica at Wiseman’s shop, as well as cannabis tea, edibles, balms and tinctures.” via: @moorinformation

[chillxpanic]

Wonderful art by @yaspes!

Music: Volca Sample & OP-1 Live Jam - Ether

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TIPS: How To Manipulate the Conversation

1. You want me to look beautiful, don’t you? 
(Translation: Buy me that outfit/hair/nails/lingerie)

2. You said you want the best for me.
(Translation: Give me the extra money)

3. I just want to feel safe and secure.
(Translation: Get me my own hotel suite)

4. You’ve inspired me to be better
(Translation: pay for this elite yoga retreat)

5. I feel like you don’t trust me and I’m giving you my body. 
(Translation: Give me the money first) 

6. Take me to XYZ and I’ll look so beautiful you’ll make all the men in the room jealous 
(Translation: Take me to this broadway play)

7. I bought a new bikini for you! When are you gonna let me show it off for you (Translation: take me to Hawaii)

8. That man is making me uncomfortable *hold his hand while someone else is checking you out* 
(Translation: other people think I’m hot and check me out all the time. Know that.)

[sugarbabylex]

Update: June 3rd, 2019

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Hey Babydolls!

Tonight is my last night in Santa Monica with my S/D Cal. It’s been an amazing trip, did a lot of shopping today, and spent quite a bit of time at the beach! The new bags, relaxation and daiquiris were much needed! 🥂

After my first initial postings about traveling to see two of my out of state SDs, I received a lot of messages asking for tips/advice on meeting with POT/SDs that require long distance travel arrangements. So while I’m sitting here on the beach, I’ve decided to compile a list of things I hope offer some answers and insight on the frequent questions I’ve been getting!

BEFORE meeting

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1.) Make sure you REALLY know who you’re traveling to meet.

• Know his real name, a photo form of government issued I.D is a great way to confirm this.

• FaceTime/ Skype/ Snapchat Vid Call him,

• Look him up! Run his name on google, and

a background check platform.

2.) Make sure you guys are on the same page, about EVERYTHING.

• The compensation you are receiving

should be clearly stated, EXACT numbers.

• Form of compensation should be clear as well. (cash, direct deposit, etc.)

• Compensation should always be given up front, make sure he is aware and prepared.

• Has sex been discussed in a respectful and mutual manner? Whether you are comfortable, OR NOT, with intimacy should be clear. (Condoms are a standard ladies and gentlemen, for your own health do no risk it. Bringing your own supply ensures an untampered with option at the ready.)

3.) Making Travel/Lodging Arrangements.

• Always first request an airline voucher/gift card so you can manage your own travel arrangements.

• If the POT insists on taking care of your tickets themself, always call the airport and confirm the legitimacy of the information you are provided.

• If the POT offers their private jet, always request to fly commercial first for the initial meeting. Explain you are not comfortable boarding a private aircraft until after becoming acquainted with them. Private planes are much nicer however, definitely utilize this option after you are comfortable you’ve had a successful meeting.

•First meeting trips should be between 2-3 days.

• Request private appropriate lodging. There is no reason to stay in the POT’s personal home/condo/flat. This is a must for your safety, as well as privacy.

• Research the hotel your POT suggests. Confirm it is up to your standards, and that its location is in a safe neighborhood.

• The hotel room should be in YOUR name. Confirm this by calling the hotel itself, and have them confirm your reservation.

4.) Safety First

• ALWAYS tell someone where you are going, when you are going, and with whom you are meeting with.

• If possible, tell a trusted individual you know in real life all of the above information.

• If for privacy and discretion reasons you are unable to alert someone in your real life, ALWAYS alert a sugar sister. We are a loving community of support, and I for one have been blessed with many friendships through the bowl, and I’m sure many of you have as well. There are so many of us who are more then happy to be a friend and confidant to any sugar babes out there looking for a support team. (Most of my layovers and plane transfers I spend talking/facetiming my sugar babe friends, seriously so amazing to be able to talk to someone who is likeminded and knows what experiences you encounter! This can also really help shake any nerves you may have; by talking it out with someone who understands! 🥰) My inbox is always open to you babydolls!

• Upon arrival after your plane lands, request private transportation arrangements that do not include your POT present. Getting into the car alone with him before checking into the hotel and settling in is not ideal or safe. Your first meeting should be public, not in his vehicle. Suggest he sends you an Uber/lyft gift card, or some taxi fare that will cover the full amount of the trip from the airport to your lodging space. This way you can arrange your own arrival to the hotel, allowing yourself time to freshen up, as well as time to get comfortable- And it’s safer!

• ALWAYS travel with emergency money on your debit/credit card. Should something go wrong, or change last minute, you need to be able to adapt! Whether that be getting yourself a new hotel room or plane ticket, you should be prepared to take care of yourself if necessary.

• Pepper spray in the the purse is always a nice touch!

5.) Packing Guidance

• Discuss what the plans will be for the time you spend down there. Will you be going to the Yacht club? Music theater? Louvre de france? Knowing your plans will help you pack appropriately and efficiently!

• Check out the weather forecast for where you are traveling to, plan accordingly.

• Pack a few back-up outfits! A zipper can break, a dress can snag, but you can be one step ahead of these fashion disasters.

•Review TSA guidelines as to what amounts of liquid and powder can be brought through security. (3.4 ounces) Double check all the cosmetics you are bringing! There’s nothing worse then having an agent rummage through your belongings and confiscating a precious product all because it’s size is an issue!

•Pack travel size cosmetics you are comfortable with! Traveling to meet a POT is not the time to discover you have an allergy, or just overall unsatisfied in a product you purchased just because it was in the travel size section. Buy travel canisters/containers you can transfer the products you’re already using into instead.

• Always leave a little space in your luggage for any shopping scores. However, if your shopping was EXTRA successful, don’t be afraid to let your POT know you need additional luggage space to be purchased. Also note, often times airlines will charge extra for more baggage to be included, remind him of that fee he needs to take care of as well.

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If your POT has any objections to any of the above, trust your gut and tell him goodbye, sugar daddies are replaceable- you are not. Your safety is key, never compromise yourself during this process for any reason, there is no payout worth your life.

But don’t forget to have fun babydolls! This trip is about meeting a potential man who is going to take care of you the way you deserve to be! Enjoy the journey 😘

xo

lex

[thatcasualcompanion]

Shout-out to the fellow sugar babies who don’t quite fit in

I’ve found such an amazing SB community that’s been helpful on Facebook and here, and I’ve found those like me and we all love each other and are supportive (well, a fair amount. There’s still a fair amount who aren’t interestectional at all and price shame/support the whorearchy etc bla blah) but most are.

But sometimes it’s so easy to feel left out.

When you don’t give a fuck about designer clothes and purses at all, and your sugar baby style is the opposite of your civ style. I have to dress very feminine and elegant to make any money in this industry, in my civ life I dress very masculine and comfy 24/7. I’ll seriously have to fight temptation to sell the next designer bag or Louboutins I get gifted and buy cheaper ones), cause I give no fucks and would rather have a $30 purse. It’s a pain to have to buy and store a bunch of clothes just for sex work that I’ll never wear in my civ life.

When you don’t prefer older men, find them gross and just deal with them for work, and date close to your age in your civ life.

When you don’t ever want to go the spoiled girlfriend route, or marry a rich old man. I just can’t see this being anything in my life besides work- to have to fully date someone and have that be my life isn’t something I ever want.

When you look ‘alternative’ in any way (my nice blonde wig covers up neon blue hair, I have a tat and will get more, my nose piercing gets taken out for nice dates, etc). (This also includes a shout-out to the plus size sugar babies and sugar babies of color, it’s shit having to get that extra persecution of not being the skinny blonde white girl the industry sets as the standard)

When you honestly don’t want spoiling in your vanilla relationships- This is a big one. I prefer equal relationships in vanilla, and only like dating men closer to my own age (like, honestly I could never see myself dating anyone more than 5 or 6 years my senior, though I’m happy to fuck an older man if I find him attractive…which is really rare if he’s older than 35) and prefer to share equal finances- I want an equal partnership, not my man paying for everything for me . I like sharing an apartment where I pay half, splitting half of groceries and other expenses, etc.

Being binary or nonbinary trans in this industry, ugh. I’ll just leave it at that but I could talk about dysphoria and all that shit from this job all day. And I have the privelige of being able to pass as a cis woman!! Many don’t.

When you’re a survival sex worker and/or have disabilities. Due to my economic class, disabilities mental and physical etc I about have to do sex work right now. It’s what keeps me able to do school, along with many other benefits. I’m very lucky to be able to not have to accept the minimum or average ppm or offers around here anymore, but I do have to keep Splenda daddies while I hunt for my ultimate. I can’t afford not to, and with my disabilities I can’t work a normal minimum wage job which is all I’m qualified for in this area until I get my degree.

I have absolutely zip zero nothing against women who are the stereotypical sb, want to be spoiled girlfriends, lock down a rich older man who will cover all their expenses along with designer bags and heels.

Feminism is about choice and not one type of person being better than the other, and that applies to sex work. It’s sad not having equal representation. This isn’t a “not like other sugar babies” post where I think I’m special or any shit for being “different”. It’s just a rant about how it can be isolating sometimes, and I wish all of us were lifted up equally 🙃

[dysfunctionalzodiac-deactivated]

$ugar Daddy Allowance

Aries: $10 an hour

Taurus: $100 Weekly

Gemini: $25 Daily

Cancer: $3,000 Monthly

Leo: $250 monthly

Virgo: $4,500 yearly

Libra: $2,500 weekly

Scorpio: ¢.25 Minute

Sagittarius: $50 daily

Capricorn: $5,000 weekly

Aquarius: $2,300 monthly

Pisces: $3 daily

[algorithmicsoul-blog]

Cancerssss winning

[theclassyissue]

[algorithmicsoul-blog]

This is a whole fucking look

[thesugaringescort]

Why I don't tell my friends about my Sugaring/Escorting lifestyle:

“The crowd that applauds your coronation, is the same crowd that will applaud your beheading.”

[theclassyissue]

[biisousss]

Bergheim, Alsace, France

[diamond-heiress-deactivated2018]

Marketing yourself is not about the big score. It is small victories of acceptance until you reach that inner circle. It’s grinding it out attending galas, charity events, and auctions. It’s educating yourself by watching the Travel Channel and keeping a cooking terms encyclopedia by your bed to read at night. To be that one-in-a-million who married a million, you have to set goals and objectives and consistently work toward them.

 Tom Feltenstein