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sis... your education, career, and money will never wake up one day and decide to leave you
Iâm Lesbian
Sometimes get those gay ass moments? Me too
1. Girls Like Girls - Hayley Kiyoko 2. Pussy Is God - King Princess 3. Girls - Girl In Red 4. Honey - Kehlani 5. Girl - The Internet 6. Wanna Be - The Internet 7. Strangers - Halsey 8. Pynk - Janelle Monae 9. 1950 - King Princess 10. What I Need - Hayley Kiyoko 11. What Itâs Gonna Be - Shura 12. I Wanna Be Your Girlfriend - Girl In Red 13. We Fell In Love In October - Girl In Red 14. Woud You Be So Kind - Dodie 15. You And I (Stripped) - PVRIS
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Not to gatekeep, but if you enjoy kissing and having sex with men, youâre not a lesbian.
lesbians donât need to be inclusive
we donât need to make our spaces inclusive
we donât have to use inclusive language
we donât have to include non-lesbians in our sexuality
we can be exclusive
lesbian spaces for lesbians only
lesbian words that are meant for lesbians only
lesbians who exclusively date lesbians
The world wants to tell lesbians to be inclusive
that a lesbian being exclusive to lesbians is wrong
that âlesbianâ is to narrow and exclusive of a labelÂ
that the word âlesbianâ should be redefined
that âbutch and femmeâ should be for non-lesbians
that spaces just for lesbians is exclusive and therefore wrong
that lesbians who just want to only date other lesbians are wrongÂ
what is wrong with wanting spaces specific for lesbians?
what is wrong with wanting a label specific for lesbians
what is wrong with having words that are specific to lesbians
nothing is wrong with these âexclusionaryâ practices.
they just annoy non-lesbians who want to be part of our culture
Who can blame them? lesbian spaces our amazing, full of love, and fierce women and also a forbidden mystery to the non-lesbian.
but we are allowed our own spaces away from non-lesbians
we are allowed the exclusive label âlesbianâ and all the history that comes with it
Unpopular opinion: Striaght girls should stop calling their female friends their âgirlfriend.â
âI love you. Who I Am // Was // Who I Will be.â -Mayticks
Relationships are so fucking scary to me. No matter how great things are going or how in love you are, your significant other could always just lose feelings for you and be gone. And none of that is in any of your control.
honestly?
shoutout to the people who have been through abuse and are trying to be better than that.
to everyone whoâs going against all of their instincts telling them to shut down, and trying to communicate well anyway.
to everyone using the hashtag #metoo. to everyone who canât use the hashtag #metoo.
to everyone who doesnât remember what happened, but theyâre trying to be careful.
to everyone who used to externalize their pain, and now are internalizing it, or vice versa, but are trying to find a balance.
to everyone who isnât sure if theyâll ever be mentally healthy enough to have âgoodâ relationships, but theyâre trying their hardest anyway.
to everyone who apologizes really strongly when they mess up.
to everyone whose parents have given up on them, to everyone wounded by the bystander effect, to everyone who was the last one to know about their own trauma.
to everyone with physical and mental illnesses.
to everyone whoâs used to being dismissed by people who should care about them, and theyâre trying to take care of themselves anyway.
to everyone whose memory isnât enough.
to everyone whoâs trying to live past when they thought they would kill themselves.
to everyone who isnât sure what happened was âbad enough.â
to everyone who needs more validation about trauma stuff but even their most supportive people are invalidating or triggering.
to everyone with a personality disorder who worries that their mental illness invalidates their abuse.
to everyone who canât tell how much information theyâre saying is oversharing because they were so used to being invalidated and then not talking.
to everyone whose therapists havenât called it abuse, but know it was abusive.
to everyone discovering their anger after being so quiet for so long.
to everyone whose anger feels explosive.
to everyone who has really mixed feelings about the people who abused them and/or their abuse.
to everyone who has a mix of repressed memories and flashbacks.
to everyone who wants and needs to talk about their trauma, but theyâre not sure who they could trust and who would be validating.
to everyone who feels repulsed by compliments about their positive characteristics.
âŠ.
i see you. i feel your pain. i care about you and i hope things get so much better.
No, you donât understand. People with BPD notice everything. We notice when you donât smile as wide at us one morning. We notice when you donât hug as tight. When you donât sound quite as happy when speaking to us. When you look the slightest bit uninterested in what weâre saying.
And when you talk to someone else. When you talk to someone else and look like youâre enjoying yourself, we assume that youâd rather be with them all of the time. So we leave before you can confirm or deny that.
And if you start telling us about a fun time you had with someone else it will not end well. We might be too shy to speak up about it, but itâll still eat away at us. Weâll feel abandoned.Â
And âYou should have been there!â is the absolute worst thing to say. We know we should have been there. We want to have been there. We know you had fun and weâre happy that you did, but the sadness of feeling abandoned completely obliterates that. So donât rub it in.
Instead, say, âYeah, we had fun, but Iâm glad Iâm here nowâ or, â⊠that youâre here nowâ. It really makes us feel loved and appreciated.Â
I know this barely scratches the surface of what we feel on a daily basis, but I hope this can help those who donât know.
Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.
iâm so afraid of becoming you.
we all have that one person who just ruins your day by being aliveÂ
for me its myself
It is so fucking exhausting fighting your brain every day dude
Reminder that you donât have to try so hard to reach othersâ expectations. You donât have to be attractive for them. You donât have to be amazing at a specific talent for them. You donât have to get a certain grade or score for them. Itâs perfectly fine to focus on your own realistic goals and expectations for yourself. Remember who this is all for.