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hi i'm moss! (them/they, 22) 💜 main is @mossfroggies 💜 wtf is a gender

[everybodysinvited]

Binder Safety Guide

Binders are wonderful, transformative things! BUT there are a lot of things to consider and prep yourself for if you want to wear a binder safely. So here's a quick guide on the top 10 tips for binder safety.

Your health is paramount and wearing a binder incorrectly can really damage your skin, and lead to breathing problems or back pain etc, so please listen to your body, and if it hurts, stop. Binders aren't for everyone but their are alternative methods to a flatter chest!

For more tips and guidance on binder safety, check out Point of Pride, Spectrum Outfitters, Amor Binders, Mermaids or my previous post, An Intro to Binders!

Image & text descriptions in ALT

[daydream-daze]

❗️❗️EMERGENCY: HELP URGENTLY NEEDED❗️❗️

Friday, March 8th: Hello everyone, I’m Gemma, a bi, mentally ill, and disabled woman in desperate need of help, as I'm still struggling to pay my overdue rent and bills!!

I have desperately tried to avoid making another one of these posts. However, things are still extremely dire for me right now as I'm struggling to pay off my overdue rent from last month, and I am in desperate need of aid to keep my utilities on as they are on their emergency credit, and to get groceries. To make things even worse, my PayPal is in the red by £103.07 due to chargebacks and fees, making it incredibly difficult to get by.

I know this is a huge ask, and I'm completely heartbroken to be asking for help again. Still, I desperately need some as the welfare payment I received last month, was immediately taken by my bills, and left me with nothing to pay off my rent balance. I still owe £90 on my rent balance and need help to keep my utilities on.

If anyone could spare any amount to help me, it would save my life, and sharing helps just as much as donations. Thank you!! ❤️

£0/£250!!!

✨️ PayPal ✨️

@thebibliosphere @shencomix @deadgodjess @rosslynpaladin @shesnake @closet-keys @left-reminders @yekkes @lafemmemacabre @regicide1997 @nbblacksheep @afro-elf @hyrude @yazsha @carolxdanvers ❤

[mossfroggies]

Special Bulletin: Support Amtrak Expansion

Voice your support today!   Special Bulletin: FRA: Amtrak Long Distance Study   View this Email as a Webpage FRA: Amtrak Daily Long-Distance

This is the last day to comment in support of a national amtrak system. Please leave a comment if you're able!

[sapphictastic]

Please support this if you can!!

[queer-as-city-folk]

If even 4 of the routes proposed in the FRA long Distance Study get approved and built, the US would be radically changed, have better safer more green transportation, so send in your recommendations and comments to the FRA today because suggestions close TOMORROW

Special Bulletin: Support Amtrak Expansion

Voice your support today!   Special Bulletin: FRA: Amtrak Long Distance Study   View this Email as a Webpage FRA: Amtrak Daily Long-Distance

[wndwheelaster-deactivated202312]

can someone send me $35 so i can get my mom's insulin? :( this is urgent and needed asap!

paypal.me/akirk432 (pls send via friends and family)

cash app: $autumnroses93

venmo: @catmom934 (pls dont send via purchase protection)

[wndwheelaster-deactivated202312]

i still need this !! pls keep rbing !!

[vampireautism]

also before it starts to happen: if i see a single person calling july "gay wrath month" or saying "we deserve a second one" it is ON SIGHT. that is DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH. abled queers i will run you over with my wheelchair if you so much as reblog one of those comments.

[vampireautism]

hello! reblog this version instead!

[unniebeans-deactivated20240720]

Hello! Disabled person here. Did you know those of us declared legally disabled and collect SSI and benefits are barred from getting married? Yep! I'm also queer so this isn't hate at all, it's a call to action: if you love marriage equality, come help us fight for ours.

Marriage Equality – Center for Disability Rights

[eternalgirlscout]

not gay as in happy, but queer as in i love you

[eternalgirlscout]

i don’t mean this as a joke. i mean this as an expression of what queer means to me. this is the core of it: love, but radically. love, but in defiance. and i don’t mean “love is love” either; i mean love like militant solidarity between queer women and queer men and all other iterations and permutations of both and neither and something else. i mean love like trans self love. like decolonizing gender. i mean love like found families, like vows beyond and intentionally distinct from marriage. i mean love is a riot. i mean a love that transcends hunger. i mean love like disruption, like breaking concrete foundations like frost and thaw because to live otherwise is unthinkable or unlivable or simply and plainly unwanted

i mean queer like a shot-glass or a sledgehammer. something that shatters borders, that tears down walls and does not, cannot build them. i mean genderqueer queerplatonic we’re here we’re queer qpoc queer theory queer liberation queer Queer QUEER

[anarcho-smarmyism]

i love this so much, this is fucking everything

[ffuscous]

[yandere-angela]

every time i see discourse about pedohysteria amidst a trans genocide i think about that news article from 2016 about the mexican immigrant who voted for trump because trump said he’d get rid of all the “bad hombres” from mexico, only to be deported himself because it turns out what trump was really saying was that he wanted to deport all mexicans, not just “the bad ones”

not just him, but there were many other examples too, like white conservatives who have mexican immigrant friends and family or people in the community important to them who were mexican immigrants, and they voted for trump because they thought trump was just getting rid of “criminals”, and then they regret it when their families and communities get torn apart by deportations of their spouses, their friends, their favourite restaurant owners, etc.

anyways, i hope young queers, trans people esp, understand that when conservatives talk about “pedophiles” and “groomers”, they’re not talking about actual child abusers, they’re talking about all queer people. they’re talking about all trans people. it’s why in florida, they’re categorizing “drag” as a child sex crime, and making sex crimes against children punishable by death. they’re trying to execute every single trans person, and that’s just the rhetoric they’re using

so stop buying into the pedohysteria. it’s easy to think “well, i’m not a pedophile, so i’ll be safe” when you don’t realize that in the eyes of conservatives, every single queer person is a pedophile and deserves death, and contributing to their rhetoric by trying to figure out which trans woman is a pedophile is just accelerating your own march to the gallows

[theaceandaroadvocacyproject]

Our Book is Out!

We are thrilled to announce that our first book is out, published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers! This book is the result of a lot of collective work in order to create a thorough informational book that goes well past 101 material. You can purchase the book from a bookseller near you or at our Bookshop page: https://bookshop.org/p/books/ace-and-aro-journeys-a-guide-to-embracing-your-asexual-or-aromantic-identity-the-ace-and-aro-advocacy-project/18972871?ean=9781839976384

We are having our first book launch event on Sunday, May 21st, at Busboys and Poets Takoma in Washington DC. You can sign up to attend in person or view the livestream here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ace-aro-journeys-a-busboys-and-poets-books-presentation-tickets-621223886367

[Image Description: The first image reads “Hot Off The Press! Ace and Aro Journeys is now published! We are so glad that our first book, a guide to understanding and embracing an ace or aro identity, is now available for purchase. Buy it from your local bookstore or request it from your local library!” Pictured is the front of the book, with arrows of various aspec identity flags on it, and the title “Ace and Aro Journeys.”

The second image reads “Ace and Aro Journeys. Join us for a deep dive into understanding and coming into your own ace or aro journey with several authors from The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project. Sunday, May 21, 2023, 5 PM, Busboys and Poets Takoma. For more information go to busboysandpoets.com/events.” Pictured is the front of the book, with arrows of various aspec identity flags on it, and the title “Ace and Aro Journeys.” End ID.]

[mudswept]

happy birthday lesbians of color, ace lesbians, disabled lesbians, trans lesbians, jewish lesbians, fat lesbians, neurodivergent lesbians, muslim lesbians, hairy lesbians, aro lesbians, n any & all combinations of the above - i hope u have a lovely day!!

[transmechanicus]

6th love language is helping them trans their gender and also kissing them

[bonae-artes-liberales]

This year, on the 31 March, we lost Gilbert Baker, gay artist and creator of the gay pride flag. Today we would celebrate his 66th birthday. Let’s remember him as the wonderful person he was.

[piranya]

i just want to add to this post that the last update made to the official pride flag by Glibert Baker before he passed away was THIS:

the new lavender stripe at the very top was added to represent DIVERSITY and as far as i am aware, was added in retaliation against trump’s presidency. i’ve not seen many people use this version, and it deserves to be known.

[xiaoguiwang]

[ID: a screenshot of a paypal balance of 1,20 EUR /END ID]

Since it's lesbian visibility week consider helping out a broke lesbian of color please and thank you♡

ppal: paypal.me/moreissuesthanvogue

kofi: ko-fi.com/T6T671UI

I also have an etsy shop!

[xiaoguiwang]

also running a sale on everything lesbian-related in my etsy shop♡

[closet-keys]

the way nonbinary people use the words “gender” and “gendered” are like connotative opposites

“this is so gendered” - negative connotation, implying it is something that reflects a very cis-normative and binary view of gender

“this is so gender” - positive connotation, implying it is something that gives absolute gender euphoria

[crowsillusion]

[fluttershyplushie]

would like to personally thank lil nas x for putting songs about gay sex on the radio. if there’s anything modern popular music needs more of its gay sex