Hi, I really enjoy your content and how well you explain things. I've been a Bill fan for about two years now, and I'd really like to know more about his relationship with Alida. I've seen you say a lot of negative things about her (some of which I agree with), but I don't really understand the "lore" of their relationship, or anything like that. It's very confusing not knowing anything, since I follow her and Bill's siblings on Instagram. I've seen very little activity on her account, even though she gained about 4,000 followers since I last heard from her (although, well, she's an actress, so it's not surprising). But then I discovered several Tumblr accounts saying very negative things about the relationship, and it intrigues me a lot. So, if you could, please explain this to me in detail. (I've been looking at your posts and those of other accounts, but they don't seem to have a chronological arc, and it's very confusing.) Thanks!
There is not much detail to go over it is pretty straight forward:
He got with her in 2017 or so, though people believed she cheated on her current boyfriend at the time at a New Years party to hook up with him.
They seemed fine, mutually from then until around 2018 or so, when rumors circulated they had split.
A few months after she had gone quiet she appears in public very pregnant and talking about Bill being the father. Bill does not really confirm or deny this because unlike her he is private so he lost control of the narrative.
Perhaps the child really is his but many more people think he is not the father but was merely led to believe it. In either case his behavior towards her while pregnant (and following the birth of the child) always signified that he was not happy with the situation.
She would then go on to use his image on her social media to get attention. Filming him in secret intimate moments and posting them to stories. When he caught on to that she would film just his voice in the background as if to prove she were with him. Then that stopped. Though she always managed to have her sisters or friends filming him to post on their accounts as well, just to be sure everyone knew he was always with her.
She exposed the name of their daughter on her 2nd birthday even though Bill had made it clear in the media he did not want that known. She exposed Oona several more times including nude photographs of her on Instagram (her sister Liza posted these as well).
She was caught drinking during this first pregnancy and all the other ones, not surprisingly. Bill hardly wanted to be near her during any of the pregnancies and it showed. Especially at the Burn All My Letters premiere where it looks like he doesn't even want to touch her and she was spotted leaving immediately after her red carpet moment with him.
She has continued to use the children as engagement bait on her accounts through the years which obviously was not okay with Bill. Somehow he did get her to be quiet for a very, very long time. Then she started posting again, using Oona even more as an attention grabber to her account.
Through the years there have been many, many rumors of a split or him cheating on Alida with other women. There's also been rumors of him cheating on her with Landon (though how credibly either of these things are is anyone's guess).
She's done several interviews where she made things all about her being with Bill and how much he definitely loved her and how close they were which always seemed ridiculous to everyone since he'd spending most of the year away from her, doesn't talk about her in interviews, and the rare times he is with her he looks miserable.
He has more chemistry with his co-stars and literally anyone who is not her and it's been like that since 2019 which is easy enough to see in pictures.
I'm not sure much more there is to say.