A Geeky Chic

Fashion designer / Stylist / Amateur pizza baker / Occasional dog walker / A little bit OCD

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Loving this ensemble expertly put together by @loubelleshop crew! Mori top now available at @loubelleshop. #Nefertiti #newarrivals #newthisweek #nowavailable #loubelleshop #bandung #blackandwhite

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Savannah dress is featured at @feminamagazine. Thankyou Femina! 🙏☺️💗 #NFRT #press #fashionspread #editorial #magazine #feminamagazine #femina #photoshoot #japan #photographer #model #SS14 #readytowear #indonesiandesigner

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Now available too at @_bobobobo_ webstore 💗

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New in at @shopnefertiti - Rorschach printed jumper ... #ss14 #nfrt #readytowear #handmade #jumper #sporty #style

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Gravity.

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TOO CUTE!

We were all surprised when we saw Sophia Grace and Rosie's amazing performance of Super Bass on YouTube, but today the surprise was on them! These two girls ...

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BUSY BEES

Of course when going on vacation with these ladies means high maintenance holiday LOL which don't include long pedestrian walk, dinner at fancy restaurants, shopping, and taking lots of pictures. Good bye budget holiday. This time we vacationed in Seminyak Bali.

Well ... i don't mind eventhough lately i prefer more quiet and cultural place, like Ubud. I really enjoyed visiting art and cultural place. Besides that, i realized that i am happiest when i am in a place that i can just take a long walk and just wandering around and get lost in my mind.

Perhaps soon after Jakarta Fashion Week 2014, we will go to Singapore where my sister work. Last time i was there i went to Universal Studios Singapore, it was really fun (since i basically a 9 year old inside)!! I ride transformer, and three different kinds of rollercoaster! But the thing i noticed about Singapore is the depressive mood of the people. They are SO serious. Inside MRT look like clones of Kristen Stewart. They never smile, breathe awkward, and i bet they stutter.

But other than the seem cold people, Singapore is fine for me. Looking forward to our next holiday. 

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It was Andhara's wedding at Uluwatu. I had the best time with my mom and sister, Prasti. A really wonderful night spent with families, we talked, we shared laughter, we danced, we drink, it was a swanky Night. Congrats Anggie :)

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DOT DOT DOT ...

How i wish i have freckled face. How i wish all my models at the shoot and runway this October 2013 all have freckles. Something very fresh about it. I like it when beauty is not that overt.

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Restock at shopnefertiti.com #nofilter

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GIRL CRUSH

This girl kills me. Her tomboy vibe. Her messy hair. Her super skinny long legs. Her rock n roll attitude. Her off duty style which i adore. Her hair color. Her black patent boots. She makes me want to wear black all the time and not to ever comb my hair.

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SATURDAY BLUE

Today i feel so blue. First because i got sick from post HPV injection. I don't mean to be a cry baby but that one sting to my muscles (and indeed to the muscles it must be injected). Ouchh. Plus after that i have to wait for more than 3 hours to get a taxi at MRCCC Siloam Hospital lobby. Pouring rain and friday maddening traffic sure made it almost impossible for any taxi driver to show. I bet 97.23% of taxi drivers in Jakarta wanna go home asap, warm shower, warm food, crawl to bed, and watch CSI. At least, that is exactly what i wanna do.

Second of all because all of the family drama surrounding me. You know the old saying: Just be Yourself. Well that ain't easy as flipping a coin my friend. When you are just a kid all you wanna be is somebody different, somebody special, that stood you apart from everybody else. Yup and the idea that your existence somehow leaves a mark in the world.

Once you grew up and everybody around you start to do the same particular lifestyle of behavior you certainly know deep down there is no way you can emulate it (cause it ain't you) but at the same time (when PMS or fatigue or overloaded work strike) wait .. did you wish you are the same from the rest of the hipsters just cause it's easier to be the same?

My Dada at the same time adore me from my unique-ness (or crazyness) and the same time kinda drag me to be the same with anybody else. That's the problem. You see since i was little i always be that weird kid that march to my own drums. I am not doing it to pissing people off ... (well okay sometimes i did) but i always question first why i have to do this or that, is this makes me happy or other people happy. 

Dad wants me to enroll for post graduate study which hello i don't think i have the need for it yet not to mention the tuition fees can go somewhere else right now. My sister gets it right, she knew how dysfunctional our family is so she flew to Holland for study and eversince then never come back (or yet). She knew you can never expect Dad to understand us as individuals and she refused to settled for what is press against her. 

Let's just say i am at a crossroad. On one hand i am still that little girl that always want to please her parents and at the other hand it's me who is not a kid anymore and as time goes by start to learn a great deal about herself, what suit her and what's not.

Unfortunately traditional standards are not the values i am striving to be (or the ones that makes me happy). So the choice is either be bold and unapologetic (which i admit i have guilty syndrome) or be a good girl but don't regret the things that you don't take. At the end of the day i rather be 60 year old one day and have beautiful wounds and broken hearts or failures rather than regrets i don't experience life to the fullest.

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"Now (that i am not in my 20s and 30s) i have more clarity and focus. I feel much more alive. When you are younger, you have a tendency to be relieved by fantasies. But now the drama of real life comes charging in."

 Diane Keaton

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Diane Keaton talks about her many lovers. This video with Ellen is hillar. A must watch!

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"People think at the end of the day that a man is the only answer [to fulfillment]. Actually a job is better for me."

Princess Diana

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“It is easier to live through someone else than to complete yourself. The freedom to lead and plan your own life is frightening if you have never faced it before. It is frightening when a woman finally realizes that there is no answer to the question 'who am I' except the voice inside herself.”

Betty Friedan

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“You educate a man; you educate a man. You educate a woman; you educate a generation.”

Brigham Young