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sometimes all i want in life, is to look cute

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better late, than never?

Salutations there! I'll try to keep this 'lil introduction post as short and sweet as possible (for those who know me irl, I have a tendency to ramble...) Some tidbits about me:

officially in my 30's era

started lurking in the egl/j-fashion forums back in 2007, fell in love with lolita fashion at first sight. yes i was around for the egl livejournal days lol.

didn't start wearing lolita until may '24 though (so after 17 years of yearning and pining lol - "its not a phase, mom!")

currently my wardrobe is a mix between traditional, sweet, and gothic... and am not sure if thats going to change anytime soon (aka its all over the place) ^^;;

Will be using this tumblr as a personal journal and a record of my coords :) And hopefully to meet other fellow lolita/j-fashion lovers! (fun fact: i use to be really into gyaru... and honestly I still am haha) Note: Might update this post with more details later. But good enough for now!

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May 2026 Casual lolita strikes back again Coord to hang out with some friends in the city Wearing meta for the first time! Got meta's "secret library" from the last swap meet :) headdress ~ moi meme moitie cutsew ~ angelic pretty skirt ~ metamorphose otk ~ bttsb shoes ~ btssb wristcuffs ~ offbrand

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April 2025 Coord to do a photo shoot with a lolita friend~ headdress ~ btssb blouse ~ atelier pierrot jsk ~ atelier pierrot otk ~ angelic pretty shoes ~ queen bee accessories ~ atelier profane, neant glass, offbrand

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some photos from the butler/maid theme meetup~ photo creds: oreo (event host)

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Coord I wore to go to goth night! Sort of a low quality mirror selfie bc I went straight after work and didn’t have much time 😅

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Classic Lolita featured in KERA August 1999, Volume 11.

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April 2026 Coord for a maid/butler themed meet up Apparently I was too on point, since people mentioned I looked like a cleaning maid ^^;; probably should go for a more cutesy cafe maid style next time headdress ~ aatp op ~ moi meme moitie apron ~ btssb otk ~ angelic pretty shoes ~ btssb

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Repeat coord post, just because Honestly, this is probably the best mirror selfie I've ever taken... and I'm notoriously bad at selfies ^^;;

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March 2026 Casual Coord to meet up with some lolita friends for dimsum ^^ blouse ~ angelic pretty skirt ~ moonrise theater otk ~ angelic pretty shoes ~ btssb necklace ~ Q.pot

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March 2026 (3.14.2026) Coord for pie meet :) headdress ~ aatp blouse ~ atelier pierrot JSK ~ btssb otk ~ angelic pretty shoes ~ queen bee

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An actual proper coord shot from ursa major for once (and not a sad mirror selfie :D) So grateful for the photographers at the event <3 I still need to work on my posing though ^^;; photo creds: bon.komera

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February 2026 Met up with a lolita friend in SF Japantown... and did some damage to our wallets ^^;; headdress ~ btssb blouse ~ hoshibako JSK ~ aatp otk ~ the black ribbon shoes ~ doc martens

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February 2026 - Valentine Meetup Gingham appreciation club <3

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February 2026 - Valentine Meetup First coord of the year!

headdress ~ btssb blouse ~ angelic pretty JSK ~ btssb otk ~ angelic pretty shoes ~ btssb

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my friend's cat :3

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December 2025 Haul from Ursa Major weekend The damage: - 4 blouses (3 angelic pretty, 1 hoshibako) - 2 skirts (1 meta, 1 atelier pierrot) - 1 accessory (atelier profane collar)

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"What's your Loli Style?" Quiz from the English Gothic Lolita Bible