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i am reminded of how important it is to be considerate. considerate of yourself so you can be more considerate with others. it’s important! expanding and cultivating awareness is an act of consideration. and it is a practice.

adriene mishler (yoga with adriene)

tanyashatseva

real-lesbian-thoughts

I hope that other girls that are into girls hope that I’m into girls when they see me.

So long story short, I'm basically homeless for the next two to three weeks. It's a really fucked up situation that isn't my fault at all. I can't exactly go back to my parents' house long term because I'm on the schedule here for the next week and a half, and I can't just bail mid schedule. Thankfully I've got some really great friends and coworkers who are taking care of me, and making sure I don't have to sleep in my car (lol). Hopefully I don't exhaust all of my options before Nathan and I have a place. If you're in Lafayette or the surrounding area and want to help ya girl out with a place to stay for a night or two I'd be forever grateful! Hahahahaha (but no, really I would)

depressionresource

If you struggle with anxiety, overwhelm, or just plain feeling like a failure, I have a mantra for you that’s been really helping me out lately:

Just show up.

I used to skip class because the whole thing was so overwhelming: I had to get dressed in something clean even though I never had the energy to do laundry, walk to school, sit in class for up to three hours, plus pay attention, take notes, and participate in discussion. In reality, I was being a perfectionist, and life would have been a lot easier for me if I had Just Shown Up. By staying home because of my depression and anxiety, I wasn’t giving myself the chance to do any of that. I was such a perfectionist that being a “bad” or average student was unthinkable, so I stopped being a student at all.

If you’re having trouble getting something done, Just Show Up. You don’t have to be employee of the month. You don’t have to be valedictorian. Just Show Up.

cleromancy

ime it also helps to be like “you dont have to stay the whole time, you just have to go” bc most of the time once youre there it’s fine. a lot of things are like that, like… you dont have to finish the dishes, just start them. a lot of the time once you start a task it’s easier to finish than to stop, especially if you can trick yourself like “after five more minutes if i still feel bad i’ll go home” or “after washing two more dishes i can stop for today”

even if you don’t finish the task, you started it, and by completing part of it you lessened your future workload and ALSO taught your brain that things may not be as daunting as they seem

robotplant

This is wisdom! Peace!

rcah

If you think my blog sucks wait till you see my life

cherrybam-blog

Y’all, this girl will be the death of me. I put my feelings on hold (to the best of my ability) because it was the best option for our friendship, but her boyfriend is a homophobic asshole who is taking advantage of her kindness and letting her send him literally all of the money she has been saving to buy herself a new motorcycle so he can buy a new tire for his and pay a speeding ticket. LIke I get taking care of the people you love, but not at the expense of your livelihood. She’s now broke, can’t pay her cellphone bill, can’t buy weed, and is now set back in her new bike timeline. I care more about this girl than I ever have another human being. I want her to be happy, but what I see right now isn’t happiness. It’s a girl trying to convince herself that maybe this asshole is different than all the rest, and that maybe if she spends enough money on him he won’t cheat on her like he did the last girlfriend.

"Don't tell CJ and I'll spend the night with you" Sarah says to me when I invite her to come have dinner with me while I house sit for Chris "Please don't tell my dad and Britt that I'm hanging out with Sarah" I say to Chris when I tell him she is coming over I hate hiding this, but when it's good, it feels so right. Until now I've been way too chicken to kiss her. We'll see if that changes tonight. It'll change everything, it could be very bad, but I'm hoping it isn't.

#s

faqoloqy

Hands are the gateway to a person’s life story. You can tell they’re a hard worker if their skin is rough, or If their knuckles are scared up that they’ve been through hard times. Others care too much what they look like and paint their nails Maybe they bite their nails because the world around them makes them nervous. But what most don’t pay attention to is the underlying softness. Palms up and there’s a whole other story. They way they hold your hands, caress your face, touch your lips, play with your hair, the way they squeeze your shirt when they wrap your arms around you.. Those palms will define not just them, But explain their soul.

Hands (via faqoloqy)

my life is a complete mess at the moment. it’s my fault because all i seem to be attracted to are toxic, immature people. how do i fix this?