Women don't owe you shit.
Just a friendly reminder that buying me a drink doesn’t mean you get an invitation into my pants. In fact, it doesn’t even earn you an invitation to talk to me. No one asked you to spend that $6 and it’s actually rude to buy someone a gift and just expect to get something back in return, this ain’t Christmas. I don’t OWE you my attention.
Paying me a compliment doesn’t make you my hero & my number your reward. Just because I’m flattered doesn’t mean I’m interested. & I don’t OWE you an explanation for turning you down. Sorry not sorry about your fragile masculinity.
Being nice doesn’t mean I want to fuck you. Don’t mistake my kindness for flirtation. Being put in the “friend zone” isn’t a bad thing but if you want more out of our friendship, speak up. If I reject you, either move on or respect my decision. I am not a bitch for not returning your feelings and I’m not holding a gun to your head telling you to stay my friend when you feel rejected. I don’t OWE you sex just because I’m a girl & you’ve been nice to me.
Just because my body is sexualized doesn’t mean I’m obligated to be sexy. Contrary to popular belief, femininity exists outside of the male gaze. I dress how I want, when I want. I’ll wear as much or as little make-up as my cold, black heart desires. I don’t need to live up to some weird & unattainable fantasy of what you think a “woman” should be. Shaving isn’t a prerequisite for womanhood. My body is hairy, get over it. How or IF I choose to remedy is MY decision. & if you think my makeup is misleading, that’s on you. What do you think makeup does? I’ll tell you, makes me FEEL beautiful & hides my imperfections, bozo. You want me to be natural but then complain when I’m hairy & you can see my stress breakouts? Ya’ll make ZERO sense. And anyway, I don’t OWE you perfection.
Going on one date with you doesn’t guarantee a second. Having sex with you one time doesn’t make me obligated to do it again. Saying yes once doesn’t give you an all access pass to my pussy. Consent is ALWAYS required because I don’t OWE you a good time.
I am a human being. Not an object. I have thoughts & feelings & I don’t OWE ANYONE SHIT. Some of the best advice I was ever given was really simple & I try to remember it every single day.
“NO is a complete sentence.”
** I am a heterosexual, married, woman. This post is not targeting any one group of people/persons. Yes, it sounds like I’m speaking directly at men but that’s only because that’s been MY experience. Really, these are all statements that can be aimed at anyone, by anyone. In general, no one owes anyone else anything (I mean, unless they saved your life and you feel indebted to them or something but that’s another topic all together so I digress.)
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