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Kalau you nampak someone tu celebrate their happiness dekat story or status, let them be or be happy for them.

but if you ada rasa iri hati, maknanya something wrong with you, ada penyakit hati?

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Criticism is part of life.

Today, you’ll face critics at every turn; everywhere you go. Take it in your stride. Don’t stress over it.

If it’s constructive criticism, use it to improve yourself.

If it’s destructive, ignore it. Let it go.

- mufti menk

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‘As humans we tend to focus on problems and pain when we feel that the world is falling apart. But know that the Almighty has a solution to everything and it’s only a matter of time before it is set right. Have faith.’

- Mufti Menk

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Narcissist person really want to make you angry and defensive. They want you to respond to their chaos.

Simply ignore them. It will make them suffer.

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A manipulative person wants you to believe you’re the problem. You try to change, thinking it will improve things, but it’s never enough. They blame you for their actions and avoid accountability. The cycle stops when you stop accepting the blame.

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Learn to be done.

Not mad, not bothered, just done.

Protect your peace at all costs.

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Rest is not a weakness, it’s essential.

You can’t pour from an empty cup-

and taking time to recharge should be encouraged, not shamed.

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‘What people think of you doesn’t matter.

Focus on pleasing the Almighty.

Do things for His sake.

Your world will not only become much brighter, you’ll have better focus and outlook overall.’

- Mufti Menk

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Forgiveness is more about freeing yourself from the weight of anger and resentment than excusing the actions of others.

It allows you to reclaim your peace and focus on what truly matters in your life.

Letting go doesn’t erase the past; it just helps you stop reliving the pain.

Moving forward with kindness toward yourself is one of the most empowering things you can do.

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“The ones who stand by you in tough times are the real friends. Life may test us, but integrity and a good heart never fade. Stay true and kind, because that goodness will come back to you, many times over.”

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❝ Jangan gunakan mulutmu kecuali untuk dua perkara, diam dan tersenyum. Tersenyum untuk menyelesaikan masalah, dan diam untuk menghindari masalah.❞

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Pengalaman dan Sikap menjadikan kamu matang;

Bukan umur.

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Discovering your true self starts with setting boundaries..

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Perkara yang perlu dididik kepada anak lelaki:

1. Bersalam dengan orang lain, mesti berdiri, genggam kemas, pandang dalam mata.

2. Jangan uji 'kedalaman air' dengan dua belah kaki.

3. Lelaki yg sedang memasak, sangat berkuasa seperti raja.

4. Ketika berbincang, jangan beri offer yg pertama. Dengar dulu.

5. Ketika diharap untuk jaga rahsia, simpan kuat-kuat.

6. Pulangkan kereta yg dipinjam dengan minyak penuh.

7. Main dengan sungguh-sungguh, atau jangan main langsung.

8. Jika masih mahu musik ketika ke pantai atau ketika nikmati alam, maka itu kerugian besar.

9. Bawa 2 sapu tangan. 1 untuk anda guna, 1 untuk si dia.

10. Kawin dengan mana-mana perempuan, maksudnya kawin dengan keluarganya juga.

11. Lihatlah sikap itik. Nampak tenang di permukaan, tapi kaki yg tersorok berkayuh macam nak gila.

12. Nikmatilah keindahan dan pengajaran mengembara sendirian.

13. Cuba buat wasiat untuk diri sendiri. Dan selalulah ubah wasiat itu.

14. Cubalah makan/waktu rehat dengan kawan-kawan yg berbeza.

15. Taip draf satu komen yang sangat marah dalam mana-mana sosial media, baca semula dengan teliti. Kemudian padam.

16. Cuba ajak emak anda bermain, dia tak akan bagi awak menang.

17. Pengalaman dan Sikap menjadikan kamu matang. Bukan umur.

18. Berilah pujian. Telanlah kejian.

19. Hadap mana-mana pembuli. Dan pertahankan sesiapapun yg dibuli.

20. Ambil masa untuk sayang pada haiwan dan tumbuhan. Mereka juga sayang anda dan suka anda bersama mereka.

21. Jadi orang yg yakin diri, dan dalam masa sama merendah diri.

22. Dalam semua perkara, tunjuk contoh memimpin bukan hanya pandai bercakap.

23. Pakailah pakaian seperti mana anda mahu dilihatkan.

24. Senyuman dan ucapan Terima Kasih tidak perlu dibayar, tapi kesan baik untuk selamanya.

25. Ingatlah, Setiap pilihan yang kita pilih adalah ujian. Setiap tindakan yang kita buat adalah ujian. Setiap perkara yang terfikir juga adalah ujian. Setiap pencapaian yang juga satu ujian. Setiap pujian juga adalah ujian. Setiap kejian juga adalah ujian.

Sumber: TMF

#TuanHutan #MejarFitri

#pesanpadadiri

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Apa definisi ‘kaya’ bagi awak?

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FACTS U DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT TOO MUCH

1. If you speak too much, you will lie.

2. If you think too much, you will be depressed.

3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight.

4. If you love too much, you will be lost.

5. If you care too much, you will be taken for granted.

6. If you play too much, you will not be taken serious often.

7. If you trust too much, you will be betrayed.

8. If you work too much, you will die of stress.

9. If you eat too much, you will be obessed

10. If you sleep too much, you will be idle.

11. If you spend too much, you will have no future.

12. If you wear make up too much, you will lose your beauty.

13. If you look too much, you will lose your focus.

14. If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.

And lastly...

15. If you expect too much, you will be disappointed. Don't be too much because that too much can hurt you so much.

Fb: United Africa