Great-great #5: Patrick Joseph Thomas Handley
Continuing on with the great-great-grandparent series, we come to my maternal grandmother’s section of the family. Grammy’s father’s father was a young man named Patrick Joseph Thomas Handley. Sometimes he went by Patrick J., other times he went by Joseph. Most of his adult life appears to be under the name Joseph, so that is what I’ll call him!
Joseph was born 21 March 1876 in the borough of Pringle, Kingston Township, Luzerne Co, Pennsylvania. The photo above is a picture of the family home on Pringle Hill, but I’m not actually sure if Joseph is pictured there. His parent John Francis Handley Sr, and Jane Foy, were immigrants from Ireland and had 11 children total. Joseph was the 8th of those for whom I know names. (There is a mystery child reported on the 1900 census # of children born vs. living that I can’t account for.)
The first time we see him in the records, he is recorded at Patrick J. Angley, along with his exact family forenames in the correct order in Kingston. For a while I had Patrick J. as a separate child, but the research all ultimately points to Patrick J. and Joseph being the same person called by different names.
In 1890, John Francis Handley, Sr, passed away at age 63, when Joseph was just 14.
Then begins a period of time when I was able to located numerous newspaper clippings reporting Joseph and his siblings social activities. Facebook is nothing new! Parties, recitals, visits, out-of-town guests, all of it is recorded in the pages of the newspaper for all to see.
Attending a wedding reception: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8227724/?xid=637
Pall bearer at a friend’s funeral: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8792607/record_of_the_times/?xid=637
Giving a piano recital: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8792640/the_wilkesbarre_record/?xid=637
Visiting with friends in Courtdale: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8793133/the_wilkesbarre_record/?xid=637
Attending a party: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8792517/wilkesbarre_times/?xid=637
Assigned jury duty: https://www.newspapers.com/clip/8228658/wilkesbarre_semiweekly_record/?xid=637
Very interesting to get a peek in at the life of young adults in a small town like Kingston.
At age 24 in the 1900 census, he is living at home with his mom Jane, and youngest brother Francis. He is working as a day laborer, and his younger brother (now about 14) is working as a driver boy.
The next year, Joseph loses his mother, Jane, at the age of 73, in the month of May.
One month later, 7 June 1901, Joseph marries Lucy Clark. Lucy is the daughter of his older brother John Francis Handley Jr’s second wife Mary Casey Clark. Lucy’s father Peter Clark died in a mine accident in 1891. John Jr is about 12 years older than Joseph, and Lucy is just 18 when she gets married, so it isn’t so weird that the mom and daughter would marry two brothers. I mean, it’s a little weird. But small towns, etc.
Joseph and Lucy have a total of 7 children. It is interesting to note that while last names have always been fluid on documents such as census records, this generation seems to have shifted toward Hanley (no “d”) though not ALL of them did!
Joseph Thomas Handley (1903-1966)
George Handley (1906-1968)
Robert Peter Hanley - my great grandfather - (1908-1996)
Lucy Handley (1911-1911)
Thomas Handley (1912-1913)
Edna Frances Hanley (1914-1990)
Edward Walter Handley (1917-2008)
In 1910, Joseph and Lucy are in Pringle with their three eldest children. Joseph is working as a coal runner at the mine.
Then begins a period of difficulty for Joseph and Lucy. Their daughter Lucy dies at 2 weeks old from pneumonia. Joseph (or possibly Joseph Jr) falls off a fence and breaks his arm, and then little Thomas dies at 18 months from “complications”. (Not sure what they are complications of, but perhaps that is code for consumption or something.) Quite sad to read, knowing how gut wrenching it must have been.
Lucy’s death:
Joseph’s broken arm:
Thomas’ death:
Although he was a little on the older side (43 years old), Joseph had to register for the draft for World War I. Apparently he was of medium height, slender build, with blue eyes and gray hair. His draft card shows he registered on 12 Sep 1918. Here is what was going on that day -- I wonder if he was worried about the potential for being drafted, or would have been eager to sign up?
September 12, 1918 - The first stand-alone attack by Americans occurs as the U.S. 1st Army attacks the southernmost portion of the Western Front in France at St. Mihiel. The offensive is supported by an unprecedented 1,476 Allied aircraft used as part of a coordinated air-ground attack. Within 36 hours, the Americans take 15,000 prisoners and capture over 400 pieces of artillery as the Germans withdraw. -- The History Place
A few years later, in 1920, the family is found on the census still living in Pringle. He is working as a coal miner, and his oldest son Joseph, age 16, is working as a coal breaker. Interesting side note, his mother (Jane Foy) is reported as being of American birth. This doesn’t match up with what we know of her elsewhere, which is not unusual in and of itself. I don’t know who the informant was on the census, so it could have been a guess on someone’s part. But there
Now family lore says that Joseph was an alcoholic, a mean drunk, and a cheater. His sons kicked him out of the house after an affair was discovered, or when the sons were big enough to fight back. He moved in with his sister Winnie and lived there, as far as I know. However, there is also information that he may have remarried or had another family with the woman with whom he had an affair. I find it interesting that there is so much information about this particular ancestor... he was so intensely disliked by his children and their children, but he seemed to have such a close relationship with his sister Winnie and once was a piano-playing social butterfly. He worked a soul crushing job in the coal mines, lost two children, and eventually lost his entire family. He hurt his family through his behavior and choices, and that hurt trickled down to his grandchildren. This is why I love genealogy -- seeing the arc of a person’s life, seeing it in context of history -- and why I hope we can learn from the past.










