sometimesâŠâŠ when you keep testing people to see if they will leaveâŠ. they will leaveâŠâŠ sometimes⊠people will leave you⊠because youâre a bad personâŠ. sometimes people will leave for no reasonâŠ. sometimes people will leave because you expect too much from them⊠sometimes you might need to acknowledge⊠that friends arenât your therapist⊠and did not go through 12 years of training to handle your meltdowns⊠and you need to find a way to reasonably communicate when youâre feeling unwell if you really like this person, trust this person, and want them to stay around you⊠having a fear of abandonment cannot be something you tell them to lock them into your orbit.. you need to take responsibility for the things you say & how you treat people⊠its that simple
