impostor syndrome is a common problem in academia. For example my colleagues keep putting me in the airlock and ejecting me into space
Uh.. if you're not the imposter how do you keep coming back?
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impostor syndrome is a common problem in academia. For example my colleagues keep putting me in the airlock and ejecting me into space
Uh.. if you're not the imposter how do you keep coming back?
tenure
Soot tags gather after fires in areas with low circulation. They are not, as commonly believed, ash covered spider webs.
oh, well then what the FUCK are they???
Theyāre made of sticky particles from a polymer or petroleum based fire, like burning carpet, drapes, upholstery, and clothes. Due to a static charge, they chain together and naturally gather near ceiling corners because the rising hot air pushes them into the cool spots by convection.Ā
Because theyāre formed by static electricity, they can only be removed with professional chemicals and equipment. Attempting to remove them improperly will only break the chain before all the soot can be captured, leaving the remaining soot to spontaneously reform the webs later. Even worse, trying to wipe or wash them away can firmly adhere the soot to your wall or ceiling, which will permanently stain it.Ā
A natural phenomena that only coincidentally resembles the damned webs of transdimensional ghost spiders.
I donāt usually soap-box, but Iām going to for a hot sec since this has been on my mind:Ā
Cults are getting better branding, prettier leaders, hipper-sounding cosmologies, and wider reaches due to social media. Theyāre not all deity-focused. Thoughtful, intelligent people can get sucked into them. Justā¦stay safe out there, guys. Do your research, look at all your options, and trust your gut, not groupthink.
Iām glad this is resonating with people.
I do want to emphasize, again, that cults (and toxic groups with cult-like attributes, Iām using this term pretty loosely) donāt usually look like what youād expect. A lot of toxic and dangerous religious movements are tiny and you wonāt find much about them via Google. Cultish non-religious movements are the same way.
Start-ups, multi-level marketing companies, activist groups, fan groups, political groups, and internet mystics who run retreats can all be cult-like and dangerous. Tune your BS detector, ask family, friends, and experts for advice.
Here are some warning signs:
Pressure ā pressure to make quick decisions, to give (or pledge) considerable amounts of money, to move in with a group, to abandon family or cut off friends. Elevated Leaders ā anyone claiming special insight, special powers, or that they arenāt human. Demanding special treatment (compared to other followers). Misuse of funds or money collecting at the top. physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse. Lack of accountability or oversight. Isolation ā encouraging (or requiring) members to cut off family relationships, friendships with those outside of the group, leaving jobs, moving to isolated areas, taking away communication methods. Strong āus-vs-themā mentality. Vilification of ex-members. Love-bombing. Altered states of consciousness ā long work hours, sleep deprivation, lack of access to adequate food or water. Otherwise unproblematic activities like meditation/prayer/chanting, but done for hours. Discouraging doubt ā discouraging or punishing doubt and critical thinking.
(Source 1, Source 2, Source 3)
If these send up red flags for you or loved ones, here are some collected resources: one, two.
So animal misinformation is very common within society so I thought about making a list of a couple of things that you probably should know about animals:
Do not flip rabbits upside down (it can literally kill them)
While weāre talking about rabbits, do not bathe them in water
Rabbits canāt eat lots of carrots, they have too much sugar
75% of their diet should be hay
that cage you bought for your hamster is most likely too small
Any tank or bowl under 5 gallons is way too small for anything unless you are keeping snails
Your aquatic animal needs a filter
Yes, your beta fish needs a heater (as do all tropical aquatic animals)
No, fish are not decorations
Goldfish and koi are pond animals, goldfish can live in some tanks but they need to be big
You can not just buy 2 fish that school (like guppies, neon tetras, etc)
Trust nothing that petsmart or petco tells you about fish they actually know nothing
When you purchase a reptile you need to be willing to take care of it for itās entire lifespan (some of the common reptiles sold at the store can live up to 50 years)
Your reptile needs a heater
Live feeding rodents actually isnāt that good and can harm your snake (only do this if the snake refuses frozen)
DO NOT RELEASE REPTILES INTO THE WILD! ESPECIALLY IF YOU LIVE IN A WARM STATE LIKE FLORIDA!
your reptile needs a water dish
Your turtle canāt live in a fish tank that just has a floating log for them to rest above water on
Most birds are social and should have companions
If they do not have a companion you need to make sure you spend enough time with them daily to make up for that
They canāt live off just seeds
You canāt cohabitate large and small birds
You should not put bedboxes or encourage nesting for tropical birds unless you plan on becoming a professional breeder and taking care of the babies yourself when the parents are incompetent
On the opposing side, domestic birds like pigeons and chickens need a nesting box because they will lay eggs reguarly (although these eggs will be unfertilized)
The chicken eggs you buy at the store are not unhatched baby chickens
Chickens legit donāt care if you take their eggs, they will eat the unfertilized eggs if left in the coop for too long, the eggs have a lot of nutrients that can help them, but do long as the chickens are getting a good diet they wonāt need to eat the eggs
Honeybees make way too much honey and taking it from them prevents them from swarming (something that most of the time ends in the death of the entire colony)
You know how your neighbor/farm down the road/etc has horses? Yeah itās fun to pet them and all but do not feed them random stuff you bring, you donāt know if they have special diet regulations or what is/is not poisonous and sending a horse to the vet is very expensive if you want to feed them something ask the farmer beforehand
I shouldnāt have to say this but do not enter any cow/horse/large animal pasture without the owners permission
Cows arenāt as sweet as the media makes them out to be, never let your guard down around a cow
Pigs are not herbivores, they are omnivores, they eat meat and basically whatever else they can
The same applies to chickens
Do not release domestic or domestic raised animals into the wild. Ever
You shouldnāt declaw your cat (get those rubber claw covers instead!)
Also donāt let your cat be an āoutdoorā cat
That doesnāt mean donāt let your cat go outside, but when they are outside it should be under supervision and on a leash
If you donāt want to leash train them, get a catio!
Your omnivorous or carnivor animals CANT BE VEGAN
Feel free to add more to this list!
Those ābeginner cagesā at the pet store for rats? BAD
One rat needs minimum 2 cubic feet of room. You need a minimum of 2 rats (3 is better) (unless the rat is not friendly with others, in which case you need to make up for that lack of social interaction) so you need a BIG cage.
My cage was around $200 CAD and is suitable for 4 rats. Bigger is better
For some reason people think that red eyed rats have a meaner temper? Their red eyes only mean that they have worse eyesight than their black eyes counterparts. Theyāre all so sweet.
Not rat related, but still important, if you decide that you want to be vegan, thatās fine. Thatās your choice. But DO NOT make your carnivorous cat or omnivorous dog or rat or other pets partake in your decision. Itās not good for them, they need that protein.
i donāt know if they donāt teach internet safety in schools nowadays or if kids just donāt take it seriously, but if you are a kid or teen, please:
donāt give out your socials to random people. i was just in an among us room with a 14 year old giving out her instagram and asking others for theirs. DO NOT DO THIS.
if someone makes you even the TINIEST bit uncomfortable, block them! donāt feel bad about it. donāt worry that your reason for doing so isnātĀ āgood enoughā. just block them.
donāt post any sort of identifying information about yourself. anything beyond like, your first name and the state/country you live in, should be kept to yourself. this goes double for dms with people you donāt know irl.
if anyone asks for yourĀ āaslā block them and do not answer. these people are always creeps. i block them as an adult! (asl refers toĀ āage sex locationā and the vast majority of people asking this are looking for someone to hit on)
if anyone has any more tips, feel free to add on!
donāt assume your favorite adult youtuber/celebrity isnāt ālike thatā if they ever reach out to you privately for any reason. people with large followings rarely have any good reason to interact with their underage fans outside of public scrutiny. if you must talk to them, be wary of any kind of request for pictures of yourself even if it seems innocent enough.
Know that every photo you post only can and will be downloaded by someone. If you are uncomfortable with the idea of a photo being kept on someoneās personal harddrive, do not post it online.
I have this tiktok saved n thought.. Others might like it too..
2020.7.6
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being the eldest daughter is just *asks mother whatās wrong* *cannot express emotions* *ādonāt worry iāll do itā* *fiercely independent but only bc you would rather die than inconvenience someone by asking for help* *carries the trauma of your entire family* *asks mother whatās wrong* *the constant feeling of guilt that has no known origin* *third parent. maybe even replacement father if urs is shitty enough* *emotional punching bag for both parents* *not even a slight clue as to what a healthy boundary is* *asks mother whatās wrong*
[ID: a tiktok by @/christiantheshowm, with a caption that reads āMillennials/Gen Zās as Therapists:ā and is a conversation between a therapist and his patient. The therapist is a black man with a beard, wearing a suit and round glasses. the patient is a black man lying down on a couch with one hand resting on his head. he is also wearing a white hoodie. the hoodie is up and the drawstrings are pulled tightly so that only his eyes, nose, and mouth are shown.]
Transcript:
Therapist: So how have things been?
Patient: Maybe I was just put on this earth just to die.
Therapist: Ok.
Patient: Like Iām not meant to find love or be happy.
Therapist: I got you.
Patient: Like Iām just supposed to die.
(the patient turns to the therapist who nods. the camera zooms in.)
Therapist (putting a pen up by his mouth): It do be like that sometimes.
Patient: It do be like that sometimes.
(the camera zooms in more)
Therapist: But not all the time.
That actually made me feel better.
Why did this like bring a tear to me eyes
New favorite TikTok
That's fricking hilarious
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It saw you the moment you entered the roomāsilvery eyes, flashing bright in the gloom.
Sketching while watching the first Touken Ranbu stage!
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i had a very illuminating conversation with a guy about 10 years younger than me that really put this change into perspective, which is this:
i have a very distinct memory, in my childhood, of the moment of my disillusionment.Ā i believed that grown-ups knew what they were doing, and that the things that seemed so obvious to me had to be obvious to them, too (things like DONāT GO TO WAR IN IRAQ, for example).Ā i believed that, and had that belief pulled out from under me, so my disillusionment comes with a sense of betrayal.
a mere 10 years younger than me, this guy has no such moment or memory.Ā he never believed grown-ups were fundamentally competent, or good, or reasonable.Ā he never lived in a world where things didnāt feel constantly careening wildly out of control.Ā thereās no betrayal in his sense that the government has failed him - of course it has, it was always going to.Ā he doesnāt remember a time pre-bush, or pre-9/11, or pre-iraq war.Ā this is just what the world has always looked like for him.Ā so itās not really a sense ofĀ ādisillusionment,ā actually - his generation never had any illusions to lose.Ā theyāve just been in this world so long itās all theyāve ever known.
156 Americans tried to draw 10 famous logos from memory.
Things about this post
-everybody forgot target only has 2 red circles
-some people are drawing legitimate local variations of the logos
-some people are drawing older legitimate versions of the logos
-one person mixed up the target and walmart logo
i really want to see what universe the dog starbucks logo guy is from
Translation: I told this girl sent next to me on the bus that her guide dog was cute and she said "Aw I wouldn't know" and I choked on my coffee
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I think this is the first one of these that i literally couldn't understand a damn thing written
āWhat he lacks in agility he makes up for in brainsā
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