How to manipulate men to become obsessed with you -
Toxic psychology edition with tangible steps #2
Be unpredictable. Change your schedule every now and then to keep him guessing and focusing on what's happening in your life and stay alert remembering are you going silent for your new schedule or avoiding him.
Love bomb for a short period of time intensely to make him open up and trust your emotional support. Then start pulling back slowly to create an unconscious need to keep the therapeutic payoff around.
Instill competition insecurities. Subtly bring up your "previous positive experiences" with men and how they used to, for example, bring you flowers every month, this will set an expectation and trigger their primitive competitiveness to one up the previous suitors which will make him very likely to get you what you want. Males are very territorial.
Find out his core parental traumas. Don't ask directly, make him open up. People will subconsciously be drawn towards toxicity that they're familiar with because our brain seeks to correct those parts of ourselves that made us unlovable as vulnerable young children - once you know what makes his inner child feel unlovable you unlock the key to making him obsessively try to fix his subconscious unworthiness with you. As you give him glimpses of both being loved and accepted & familiarly rejected he will feel like he's close to getting something important fixed, all while being completely unaware & oblivious.
Ignore his manipulation tactics (*unless you're trying to gain leverage; see part 1). When you act like none of his ways of controlling you phase you, he'll feel powerless & more desperate. Silent treatment? Talk to him excited like he's replying to you normally. Little sad threats? Ignore them and laugh them off and make fun of him while staying cute. You'll be untouchable while simultaneously available and that will drive him crazy as you make him powerless.
Tell him you have sexual trauma and you're afraid of men and you need time and trust to be able to let anyone close to you because you're a wounded angel.
The lonelier and emptier his life is the more he will have time to obsess over you bringing light into it. Whether this means picking someone who's a loner or isolating him further from his circle of people by planting seeds of doubt in his head about how their intentions towards him are disingenuous, it will push your importance up. Be very careful with this one not to come off as negative; try disguising it as support by telling him at least he can always count on you not to do x or y (unlike the others).
Once you've made him feel powerless enough, start breadcrumbing him by gradually giving only a little bit of affection. When he starts complaining, gaslight him by saying he's too needy or dramatic as if it's pathetic. When he receives the normal amounts of care and consideration from you he'll be ecstatic. Give him attention when he gives you enough of what you want, people value what they work for.
These are powerful psychological tricks that shouldn't be used unwisely, unjustly or for the purpose of building love. I think it should go without saying but DO NOT give them access to your body until they're fully hooked. (unless it's part of your thing but even then, delay) and do not get attached. Do not entertain dusty low effort males without a good reason. Don't forget a wealthy male with a dusty mindset is still a dusty.
stormborns
pixelskylines
yousharknotpass
andulkaphoto
gummygunk
