Week 10 - Men Who Hate Women? The manosphere and gendered-based social media conflict
In the last discussion, I would like to discuss about an aspect of social media conflict: the conflict between men and women, or the ideologies of Manosphere and Feminism which has gone beyond mere dispute on social media.
From a random post
Recently, a well-known artist's Facebook account in Vietnam, Hai Chiều (translated as Two Way), which has been known for its art reflecting the societal issues in Vietnam, posted two photos, one is original, and the other is a a translated version. The photo portrays a young girl who posts her sexy photo and receives some rude comments on her pose and body which she does not welcome as her expression can show. However, this photo has received two kinds of opinion: one, mostly agreed by men, saying that since she posted this “kind” of photo on social media which means she voluntarily accepts and is open to harassing comments, and the other pointed out that this highly followed account is exaggerating the action (showing off sexiness and body) and unsatisfied expression of her face and intentionally distract the audience from the aspect of harassment in those reactions. The debate has not ended; however, what can be seen clearly is the idea of gendering conflict.
Facebook post: Hai Chiều's post
Figure 3: The post with the comments show their opposition to women and feminists
Haslop et al. (2021, p. 1420) indicated that online harassment includes spreading false rumours, sending abusive messages directly, and sharing personal content without consent, like intimate images, which constitute online hate crimes when they target specific aspects of an individual's identity, such as gender, sexuality, race, religion, or disability; in the context of the cyberhate targeted toward women like shown in the above case, Haslop et al. (2021, p. 1421) perceived that this kind of online harassment is the digital extension of the “physical forms of gender-based abuse and violence against women in society”. By encountering this kind of abuse, women, especially, young women tend to self-censor themselves online, faced with the silencing strategy as the harassment impedes the participation and digital citizenship of women online, and therefore, leads to the marginalisation and exclusion of women from online space, according to Haslop et al. (2021, p. 1421).
The underlying motivation
However, the underlying motivation of this cyberhate action might not just be the mere conflict between groups among social media users that can be solved by the community guidelines but the emergence of the Manosphere, an equivalent opposition to feminism in terms of ideology.
Marwick and Caplan (2018, p. 546), Manosphere refers to an online community comprising various groups like men's rights activists (MRAs), pickup artists, "men going their own way" (MGOW), incels (involuntary celibates), and father's rights activists who believe society is dominated by feminine values suppressed by feminists so that men must resist this perceived misandrist culture to safeguard their existence. As mentioned by Marwick and Caplan (2018, p. 546), one example of the conversation among this community is about issues like sexual violence discussed as gender-neutral problems, with the belief that feminists overlook or downplay sexual violence against men while also promoting false rape accusations. Although the Manosphere is arguably a place where the lost men feel belong, identifying a clear enemy, offering guidance, solutions to entrenched problems, and fostering hope (Rich & Bujalka, 2023). Nevertheless, among the community of the Manosphere, the term “misandry” is used firstly to address the discrimination against men, just like “misogyny” is the discrimination against women, according to Marwick and Caplan (2018, p. 554), but it is also used for a misogynistic purpose: to deny the existence of sexism. Specifically, Marwick and Caplan (2018, p. 554) address the core belief among the Monosphere community: feminism's key idea—that women face structural inequality due to patriarchy and sexism—is not just incorrect but deliberately lied and made by feminists who hold hostility towards men. As a result, harassment against women is weaponised by the MRAs as a means of defence against feminists and justifies the centrality of the victim narrative in the Manosphere’s members’ ideologies.
Finally, the discourse among the Manosphere community, which is mostly about the oppression of women and feminists can cause negative consequences. At the extreme level, Elliot Rodger, who perpetrated a mass shooting in Isla Vista, California, in 2014 could be taken as an example of hatred toward women kind of violence as most of his victims are killed as a punishment for rejecting his love (Dickel & Evolvi, 2022, p. 1392). In a less extreme scenario, those misogynistic discourses in the Manosphere community can easily lead to abusive behaviours, disregard for consent, and normalisation of misogyny as addressed by Dickel and Evolvi (2022, p. 1405). The solutions for that, however, are limited to criticising and blocking the website with misogynistic discourse, as well as empowering women and raising women’s voices to lessen the dangers of that content (Dickel & Evolvi, 2022, pp. 1405-1406). Moreover, there is also an idea about the soft power technique toward the Manosphere in which people use empathy, understanding, and patience to guide the lost men away from harmful parts of the internet and help them feel integrated into broader society (Rich & Bujalka, 2023).
In summary, the emergence of the Manosphere as a counterpart to feminist discourse has sparked societal debate. While it can serve as a refuge for men who need guidance for their lives, offering connection, and protection from perceived hostility, it becomes problematic when this community perpetuates hatred towards women and justifies harassment as a defence against perceived misandry. The Hai Chiều page exemplifies the extent of online harassment directed at women, predominantly by individuals associated with the Manosphere, potentially impeding social media inclusion, particularly for marginalised groups in society.
References
Dickel, V., & Evolvi, G. (2022). “Victims of feminism”: exploring networked misogyny and #MeToo in the manosphere. Feminist Media Studies, 23(4), 1–17. https://doi.org/10.1080/14680777.2022.2029925
Haslop, C., O’Rourke, F., & Southern, R. (2021). #NoSnowflakes: The toleration of harassment and an emergent gender-related digital divide, in a UK student online culture. Convergence: The International Journal of Research into New Media Technologies, 27(5), 1418–1438. https://doi.org/10.1177/1354856521989270
Marwick, A. E., & Caplan, R. (2018). Drinking male tears: language, the manosphere, and networked harassment. Feminist Media Studies, 18(4), 543–559. https://doi.org/10.1080/14680777.2018.1450568Rich, B., & Bujalka, E. (2023). The draw of the “manosphere”: understanding Andrew Tate’s appeal to lost men. The Conversation. https://theconversation.com/the-draw-of-the-manosphere-understanding-andrew-tates-appeal-to-lost-men-199179















