INTJ, before you date an ENFP male
Know that there is a possibility that
They are a man-child.
They don't have a backbone.
They behave like a doormat.
They can have unhealthy coping mechanisms.
They have fear of abandonment.
They are people-pleasers.
They rarely stand up for themselves and others.
They have low empathy.
They're not a man.
They run away from arguments.
They have crappy emotional regulation skills.
They may have ridiculous fetishes.
They do not know how to satisfy you sexually.
They are afraid of taking risks.
They have bad anger issues.
They act like a child.
They cry way too much.
They don't know how to comfort a woman.
They don't know how to improve a situation.
They won't initiate.
They are hypersensitive to criticisms.
They hate changing themselves even if it involves a good thing.
They will whine how unfair a certain thing is and refuse to change themselves.
They are bad listeners.
They have bad financial management.
They are bad at planning.
They are not punctual.
Because I dated one just like that. I'm sure it's just an unhealthy ENFP but honestly it's hard to find someone of the contrary these days.