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Do not stay in a retail store or restaurant past closing time. I mean unless you’re just finishing up paying and it’s like 5 mins after. It’s rude. I know the people who work there say, “oh no it’s ok”. They’re lying. It’s not ok they just have to say that.

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Me: *starts crying* Me to myself: omg here go your lil crybaby ass…

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i hope u find someone that mindlessly plays with your hands and lightly strokes your legs and massages your back and plays with your hair and i hope that u feel like you’re home when u look at them

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So the current research says that 66 percent of millennials have no retirement savings, 63 percent have over $10,000 in debt, and 31 percent are still living with their parents.

As a millennial who has no debt, a 401(k) and an IRA, and who is having a house built, I just want to say something to counter all the negative messages bombarding my generation about how lazy and entitled we all are. Do you know what’s the difference between me and those statistics?

Sheer dumb luck.

That’s it. I didn’t do anything differently than anyone else. I didn’t make better choices or go into the right major or any of that nonsense. I was just lucky enough to be born into a family with parents who could put enough into my savings that, when combined with scholarships, allowed me to graduate from college without any debts. I had pretty much no savings by the time I got my degree, but starting from nothing is still easier than starting with a negative balance.

I got hired within two months of graduation, and I’ve been with that company for going on six years. Again, nothing but dumb luck. My major, creative writing (one of the stereotypical ‘useless degrees’) has nothing to do with my career. They just needed employees and I happened to interview at the right time. And I was lucky enough that the job was in an area where I could live at home, rent-free, developing the savings that put me in a position to sign a contract on a house.

I was privileged and lucky. That’s it.

Sure, I worked hard in school. I gave it my all in my job interview. I’ve put in effort to get where I am.

But people without the head starts I had have worked much harder. I didn’t have to claw my way out of debt and poverty to get where I am. If I had to do that, I wouldn’t be here. I’d be another statistic for the boomers to dismiss.

You’re not doing anything wrong. You aren’t the ones who broke the economy. I haven’t figured out some correct, adult way of doing things that you haven’t. I just happened to start the game with some of the cheat codes.

You are all doing the best you can, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

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MBTI & Musicians: Prince - ISFP (x)

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MBTI & Musicians: Prince - ISFP (x)

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ISFJ Friends

ISFJ friends are extraordinarily warm, altruistic and loyal. They are not too choosy when it comes to friendships with other personality types, as long as the other person is willing to connect with them on a deeper level. ISFJ personalities tend to rely on their friends for emotional support, advice and reassurance – this makes them somewhat vulnerable, but also gives both individuals a chance to form a very deep, strong friendship.

That being said, ISFJs may encounter a couple of issues when it comes to friendships. First of all, people with this personality type tend to put the needs of their friends above their own. While this is not necessarily a bad thing (provided that those friends do not abuse the ISFJ’s altruism), such an approach may push the ISFJ to neglect their own needs. ISFJs are likely to need a lot of emotional support and if this support is not forthcoming from friends whom they have helped, the ISFJ may be very hurt.

Second, ISFJ friends stick to their commitments and do their best to fulfill their promises. This is a great trait, but it is accompanied by the ISFJs’ tendency to avoid saying “no” in fear of upsetting their friends. Some people may see this as a weakness and try to abuse the ISFJ’s goodwill – people with this personality type should keep this trait in check.

ISFJ personalities are introverts and it may not be easy to get them to open up – however, they do need to have several close friends that they could discuss important matters with. It is unlikely that an ISFJ will become close friends with someone who has strong T or P traits – they prefer the company of FJ types. Surprisingly, ISFJs also tend to have at least one intuitive (N) friend in their inner circle, even though they may find it difficult to connect with them on a deeper level due to the S/N communication barrier.

(http://www.16personalities.com/isfj-friends)

I’m doomed.