For men, pegging is a deeply emotional experience unlike any other sex that he might experience. Accepting your penetration requires that he let his guard down, something that he doesn’t need to do with PIV sex. Now that he is the V in the PIV, he needs to accept your P with a great level of trust. The fact that pegging isn’t widely accepted and is taboo in some circles can make his verbalizing of enjoyment or desire even more challenging. Work with him on open and verbal communication. It is important to meet him where he is emotionally. When you are entering him, say soothing things to help him relax. Gentle touches on the neck and back help him accept and trust you. After he has accepted you into him and you begin to thrust, place your hands on the sides of his hipbones; not only will that give you some needed stabilization but it will give him reassurance. When his body relaxes, he will start to push back on you and be more exciting. For the first few times, he will be overwhelmed and you should expect a wet noodle of a partner. Remember how you were the first few times you had sex? Yeah, just like that.
Your anal adventure usually comes to a close when he feels some sort of discomfort or when your muscles feel exhausted. My abs can really feel like I got a good workout after a pegging session! I should make a workout video. Ok maybe PeggingFitness™ isn’t (and shouldn’t) be a thing but the point is that your abs will feel it!
Stereotypes around men enjoying anal stimulation are still prevalent so he may feel regret and shame about desiring pleasure in this way. In the interest of higher level communication, I recommend making him verbalize the things he wants. This will likely be incredibly uncomfortable and humiliating for him at first but it will allow him to be more communicative. Once you are in position to begin, force a conversation like:
She: Do you want me to fuck you?
He: Yes
She: Say it.
He: I want you to fuck me!
She: OK!
This might seem slightly silly, like poorly scripted porn but it forces him to communicate in a way that is uncomfortable for him. Try extending this outside of the bedroom as well. Give prompts to him until he uses words and phrases instead of using brevity as a communication crutch. This isn’t comfortable for him to say, acknowledge that and praise him when he does communicate properly.
She: Let’s hurry home so we I can fuck you tonight.
He: Do you mean pegging?
She: That’s exactly what I mean. Tell me you want me to peg you.
He: I want you to peg me.
She: Do better.
He: I want to bend over and have you to fuck me tonight with your strap-on.
She: I like that plan sweetie. Ok!
Use a confident, commanding tone to help him feel at ease with the role reversal. His ultimate goal is to please you and enjoying the sensitive side of your partner is infinitely pleasurable, at least for me. Our society characterizes masculine as the strong silent type but masculinity to me is defined by so much more.
This a valid question since the unit that I’ve got strapped around my waist doesn’t give me any real physical sensation. I do have a little bullet vibe at the base but the majority of the stimulation is mental for me. For him as well, I would say that the majority of the stimulation from pegging comes from submission and role reversal. When I first tried it, I thought it was a sex game or exercise in dominance that I was unlikely to grow into. Spoiler, I love it. I absolutely love the shift in power dynamic and enjoying this experience with him. So what are you waiting for? Abandon conventional norms for a while and make him your sexual plaything
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