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Another blog for everyone to talk about “non-traumagenics”. Anon is currently: ON

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Hello! This page serves as another dumping ground for systems (and our fellow anti-endos) to talk about their experiences with/complain about “non-traumagenic systems”.

While all feelings are validated here, we do not condone racism, sexism, LGBTQ+phobia, or hate speech of any kind. We are punk + very far left. Don't call anyone a slur and you're golden.

Ranting/venting is very emotionally charged. Asks and anons are to be treated with respect. Rants and vents are to be treated the same with additional understanding and kindness. Anyone who cannot follow this rule will be put on the blocklist (will be put under the cut if applicable).

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There is a DNI we would like followed. Everyone who falls under the “non-traumagenic system” umbrella and all those in support of this ideology are not welcome here. No amount of one-sided debating will change our mind. Harassment of an already traumatized, disabled/disordered, and stigmatized demographic will not be tolerated.

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Thank you for stopping by! We look forward to hearing from everyone.

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Something very frustrating that I have been seeing more of lately is the (pro) “ntg / plural”s notion that putting language to an experience makes that language true

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another reason I hate endogenic systems is because I can't even call myself endo anymore (endo referring to endogirl) without getting involuntarily dragged into their bullshit

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tw for mentions of abuse and sexual abuse

i dislike endos in the same way i dislike tradwives. do they promote harmful ideas that degrade survivors, discourage recovery, and idolize abuse+its effects? yes! (i believe tradwives do so by glamorizing the abuse many women experience and make it seem normal, discouraging survivors to seek help and a way out)

but they're also, in a way, victims of circumstance. is it that tradwife's fault she was taught that she deserves to be hurt and abused, and that if she cant handle that, she is not a good person? no!

is it that endos fault that they were convinced that mental illness is a game and that they'll never be accepted outside of one specific community? no!

but that doesn't mean you cant dislike them. regardless of their motivations, they're still doing bad things.

idk this just an idea that popped into my head a while ago

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As another anon said, oh my God the amount of endos we see complaining about the SP thing. We have blocked maybe 10+ blogs in the past day or so

It is getting so exhausting trying to look for people's reviews of alternatives and every single one is tagged "endo friendly" "pro endo"

+ Not to mention with DID awareness day- We constantly saw people spreading misinformation BECAUSE of endos. Even seeing a whole blog speal of "Why I 'support' endos" and saying how much the endo community has helped them, twisting words of psychology to say "Oh, well according to The Theory of Structural Dissociation, everyone starts out as a system" THATS NOT WHAT IT MEANS. AT ALL. AND THAT WAS THEIR BACKUP POINT, and just AUGHHH

We are so exhausted (Sorry for the long rant btw we have been holding this in for a while(

Y’all have nothing to be sorry for, swear. 1000% agree on that exhaustion. I have no idea how - once again - “endogenics” are being centered here. In a conversation about a disability aid for CDDs, no less.

I hope whoever misunderstood the ToSD that bad is getting corrected because literally howww tf did you get to that 💔 genuinely they have to be a different kind of cherrypicker. or VERY misinformed. I refuse to believe someone who’s actually read the source material or knows anything about the ToSD would seriously come to that conclusion

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sorry i need to get this out somewhere with the whole thing about simply plural shutting down i have seen such an influx of endos complaining that “octocon doesn’t make them feel safe because it’s endo neutral/was anti endo”

oh my god bro. then don’t fucking use it. its always “we don’t take up cdd spaces we would never do that 🥹🥹” until there IS a cdd space.

also like there’s so many genuine critiques to be made about octocon dev controversies and yet “GGGGULP I DONT FEEL WELCOMED” is their complaint. saw some endo complaining that they feel uncomfortable that octocon uses the word ‘alter’. Buddy i can tell you why they use ‘alter’ but you won’t like it

it drives us crazy that they decided that playing system wasn't enough, they had to start policing a space that was never theirs to begin with. then they have the audacity to try gatekeeping one of the only resources people with CDDs actually need?? not to mention how many of them will ignore or excuse the whole dev issue just to turn around and play victim 😐 I'm not surprised they complained about an app made for people with CDDs using terms exclusive to CDDs but come onnn. they cannot be serious

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a friend of ours pointed this out forever ago when our old host was complaining about "tulpagenics" and i want to share what he said with everyone

"let's be for real, they didn't find out what tulpamancy was in a religious sense. they didn't stumble upon an article one night and realize it matched with their spiritual beliefs. they were on endo tumblr and thought it would be fun. I don't believe jack shit of what anyone says about it unless they're actually Buddhist because where else would you have found it, as a non-Buddhist person, if not for tumblr."

on top of everything he said, i often get the sense that "tulpagenics" use religion and spirituality as away to get out of being held accountable. "this is part of my religion! you wouldn't do this to any other religion!" sorta thing. idk it just really pisses me off how they constantly get away with appropriating a culture they aren't a part of and a religious practice they don't understand just so they can play system

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not a rant or anything, i'm just curious what the profile picture flag is

have a good day :3

One of the many system flag variations we’ve seen! We found it around 2023 and have been using it ever since.

Post by @effeminancyboy · 2 images

💬 2  🔁 41  ❤️ 108 · DID/OSDD System Pride Flag! · A follow up for this post! I never liked all the other system pride flags, so i decided t

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I like to laugh at the anon hate I get from endos but sometimes it really just. Grates at me..

I don't wish to give a reaction, yet I've had many a breakdown and have split many alters over the shit they've said to me and the shit I've seen from them

Many of us /insys cannot handle any interaction with anyone even remotely endogenic or in support of them because of that. It's like. Genuinely upsetting

- 🐺💢

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I wish endos were real, genuinely I do. I wish every day that this wasn’t debilitating, that I don’t have to deal with the other symptoms of CPTSD, that I just had silly friends in my head to help me.

I hate seeing this bastardization of something that not only ruined my life but is statistically likely to end my life sooner than others. You think it’s fun and quirky, you think that we’re bitter, you think we simply aren’t enjoying it or aren’t making it enjoyable for other parts. There’s nothing fun about this, there’s nothing fun about my life never being my own because someone stole that from me as a child.

Willomance yourself a fucking job application.