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1. What’s your dirtiest sexual fantasy?
2. How many people have you slept with?
3. Have you ever had anal sex?
4. Where on your body is your favourite place to be touched?
5. When was the last time you had a dirty dream?
6. If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?
7. When did you first had sex?
8. What’s your favourite position?
9. Have you ever been caught having sex?
10. Do you watch porn?
11. What kind of porn do you watch?
12. How often do you masturbate?
13. Name a sex position you’d like to try?
14. Do you prefer to give or receive?
15. What was your best orgasm ever?
16. Have you ever been skinny dipping?
17. Have you ever slept with someone you work with?
18. Have you ever sent nudes of yourself?
19. Would you/have you had group sex?
20. What’s the most sex you’ve had in a day?
21. Are you loud or quiet during sex?
22. Have you ever tried using food during foreplay?
23. Have you ever made a sex tape?
24. What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone?
25. Would you say you have any fetishes?
26. Do you ever read erotic fiction?
27. Would you say you’re kinky?
28. Do you enjoy shower sex?
29. Do you like to be spanked?
30. Have you ever had an inappropriate crush?
31. Have you ever cried or fallen asleep during sex?
32. Do you prefer eye contact or not during sex?
33. Do you like to kiss during sex?
34. How high is your sex drive?
35. What’s a surefire way to turn you on?
36. Sex with lights on or lights off?
37. Have you had sex in a car?
38. Do you prefer one night stands or longer term sexual partners?
39. Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
40. What’s your favourite time of day to have sex?
41. Rough or romantic?
42. What’s your favourite place to be kissed?
43. Do you like sexting?
44. What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm?
45. And the longest?
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vaginal hygiene & health - an introductory crash course
pass this on to spread knowledge whether you have one or not, #save-a-coochie
- the vagina is the tubular ‘internal’ sex organ that some people have. - the ‘vulva’ is the set of external sex organs that people with vaginas have. it includes (but not only):
pubic mound
labia minora and majora (inner/outer ‘lips’)
clitoris and clitoral hood
vulval vestibule (found in between your labia minora)
urethra (where you urinate from)
vaginal opening
-vaginas naturally contain a balance of different bacterias. this bacteria protects the vagina from external bacteria and fungus, provides natural disinfectants and maintains a healthy vaginal pH of 3.5-4.5.
-vaginal pH varies from person to person, day to day, depending on your cycle, your diet and many other external factors,
-all vaginas have a scent. all of them. no two people smell exactly the same, and you shouldn’t expect your vagina (or anyone else’s) to smell fruity or floral.
- if your worried about your scent, you can place perfume or an essential oil to an area around your vulva but not on it. some places like between your thighs or on your lower stomach, for example,
-your body secretes natural fluids called discharge. discharge is how your vagina self cleanses. it is completely normal and vital to healthy vaginal function.
-discharge can vary in amount, color, texture and scent depending on your cycle. each person is different. if your discharge is unusual or abnormal to you and your unique body - visit a doctor if possible.
-abnormal discharge can be green, grey, very yellow, smelly, itchy, chunky, etc.
-abundant discharge can be annoying. you can remove excess discharge in your shower by inserting one clean finger into your vagina, moving it from one side to another and ‘scooping’ the discharge out. repeat as needed. this reduces the amount of discharge found on your panties and in turn, reduces vaginal scent.
- dead skin cells and oil can build up between your clitoris and your clitoral hood, so it’s important to lift your hood up and rinse thoroughly so it doesnt harden.
-washing your “external” vulvar areas such as your public mound and outer lips is okay, though some may find skin here more sensitive.
-don’t douche. you may think it helps but it only masks any problems while causing more. douching throws of your flora, alters your PH and forces bacteria into your cervix.
-water and a soft, clean wash cloth is all you need to clean your vulvar areas that contain a mucous membrane. you do not need to wash these areas. applying soaps or cleaners to these areas removes of natural necessary lubricants and bacteria. this may cause irritation, inflammation, major discomfort and dryness. some amount of moistness should always be present.
-a vast majority of vaginal washes, even those touted as hypoallergenic, still contain dyes and fragrances which are known irritants. read the label.
-while Summer’s eve is a lesser of evils with a PH of 3.0 - 3.5 (still not quite correct), it is still a cleanser. vaginal washes are used to cleanse “bad” bacteria from your vulva. they also wash away the “good” bacteria needed to maintain a healthy balance.
-castile soaps (like Dr. Bronner’s) has a pH of about 8.9. these are not suggested.
-never insert any cleansing agents into your vagina.
-the information above applies to any gels, deodorants, perfumed products and wipes, too. these can all disturb your natural balance.
-while they still pose a possible risk of irritation, unscented baby wipes are the lesser of evils regarding “freshening up”.
-pay attention to your irritants and triggers. different people, different reactions
-everyone has different stances and different methods that work for them. if you aren’t experiencing vaginal discomfort or odd changes, you don’t have to discontinue certain product use. i do, however, recommend a trial period of leaving these products alone due to their effects on your vagina.
-allow your vagina to breathe. keep too-tight clothing to a minimum. cotton panties are the best option next to not wearing any at all. rotate the washcloth and towels you use to clean and dry your vagina.
-urinating after masturbation or sex reduces the amount of bacteria in your urethra wiping ‘front to back’ keeps rectal bacterial away from your vagina.
-naturally, food alters your vagina. balancing your diet in general and including things like pineapples, strawberries, yogurt, soy (the list goes on!) can influence your pH.
-beverages like water, cranberry juice and pineapple juice are also proven to improve vaginal health, and may even improve taste.
-adding a probiotic supplement can increase the amount of “good” bacteria called lactobacillus-your vagina.
-the less ideal your vaginal balance/pH is, the more vulnerable you are to infections and STDs.
-when it comes to internet home remedies, your mileage my vary. try everything with caution and research thoroughly.
cheers! your vagina will thank you.
Please don’t be an immature 12 year old and be like “ew that’s about a vagina I’m not reblogging that that’s gross!” It is literally a body part It needs to be kept healthy People with vaginas need to understand how to keep them healthy Just reblog
Please reblog.
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NSFW Asks
1:When did you lose your virginity?
2: Rough sex or soft sex?
3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?
4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?
5: Favourite sex position?
6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?
7: Have you ever had any one night stands?
8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?
9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?
10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?
11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?
12: How often do you have sex?
13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?
14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?
16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?
17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?
18: Are you into dressing up for sex?
19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?
20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?
21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?
22: Do you/would you use sex toys?
23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?
24: Would you have sex with your best friend?
25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)
26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?
27: Early morning sex or late night sex?
28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex?
29: Favourite body part on the same sex?
30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:
31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:
32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]
33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:
34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:
35: Worst possible time to get horny:
36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?
37: How much fapping is too much fapping:
38: Best sexual complement you ever got:
39: Favorite foreplay activities:
40: What do you wear to bed?
41: When was the first time you masturbated:
42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?
43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?
44: Have/would you ever have sex in public?
45: Have/would you ever had a threesome?
46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?
47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?
48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not)
49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?
50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?
51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?
52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?
53: Do you watch porn?
54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?
55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?
56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?
57: If you could give yourself head, would you?
58: Booty or Boobs?
59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)
60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do?
61: have you ever watched someone masturbate?
62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate?
63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed?
64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate)
65. What is your bra/penis size?
66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus?
67. When was the last time you masturbated?
68. When was the last time you had sex?
69. When was the last time you watched porn?
70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do?
71. Guys:Circumsized?
72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched?
73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched?
74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation?
75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr?
76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream?
77. Which wet dream was your favorite?
78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with?
79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with?
80. Favorite sexual position?
81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?
82. Are you into any BDSM?
83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why?
84. Do you like dirty talk?
85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation?
86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what?
87. What kind of porn do you like to watch?
88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them?
89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them?
90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them?
91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial?
Let’s do this!
Some playful questions...
1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 2. How old were you when you had sex for the first time? 3. Have you ever walked in on people having sex? 4. Have you ever had phone sex? 5. Have you ever had birthday sex? 6. Name a non-pornographic movie that turns you on? 7. Have you ever used a sex swing? 8. Do you own any sex toys? If so, what? 9. Have you had a one night stand? 10. Back rub or foot rub? 11. Have you ever had an awkward moment where people were having sex and you were present? 12. Have you ever swapped partners? 13. Have you ever experienced DP? 14. Cuddling on the couch or picnic in the park? 15. Have you ever had sex on the beach? 16. Do you like to watch? 17. Ever been filmed or filmed yourself during a sexual act? 18. Have you ever had sex with someone that you were not suppose to? (Boss, teacher, relative). 19. Have you ever had a secret relationship? 20. Are feet a turn on? 21. Have you ever had a long distance relationship? 22. Have you ever met someone in person that you met online? 23. One thing you haven’t done sexually that you are hoping to try. 24. Anal or oral? 25. Have you ever been with someone of the same sex? 26. Have you ever masturbated outside the confines of your home? 27. Drunk sex or stoned sex? 28. Have you ever slept with an ex while no longer together? 29. Have you ever accidentally sent a dirty pic or message to the wrong person/people? 30. Have you ever had someone show a private pic to others without permission? 31. Does your partner have to be shorter or taller than you? 32. Have you ever been with someone that another member of your family has been with? 33. Whip or riding crop? 34. Name a song that puts you in the mood. 35. Have you ever had sex on a plane? 36. Is there anyone that you’ve slept with that you can’t recall their name? 37. Have you given or received road head? 38. Would you prefer receiving/giving a titty fuck or foot job? 39. Name a hard limit of yours. 40. Sex on the hood of a car or the back of a pick up? 41. Shower sex or sex in the rain? 42. If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be? 43. If you could change one thing about your personality what would it be? 44. Kill one, marry one, fuck one? (Name the three). 45. Choking or hair pulling? 46. Would you rather? (Name the two). 47. True or false? (You pick question). 48. Bar or club? 49. Have you ever had sex in the snow? 50. Have you ever had sex with a neighbour? (The house on the left or right, not down the street). 51. Have you ever had sex at a sports venue? (Football field, rink, etc.). 52. Have you ever used something outside the norm to orgasm? 53. Can you recall a time you were cock blocked or twat swatted? 54. Would you rather play dirty doctor or naughty detention? 55. What’s sexier nice eyes or nice lips? 56. What’s more attractive a sense of humour or a sense of style? 57. Ice cubes or wax? 58. Do you prefer a younger or older partner? 59. Ball gag or hand over mouth? 60. Have you ever posted a pic or a video of you committing a sexual act? 61. Did your parents have “the sex talk” with you when you were young? If so, which parent? How did it go? 62. If you had to choose, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl? 63. Morning sex or afternoon delight? 64. Are you vocal during sex? 65. Your socks, on or off in bed? 66. Embarrassing sex moment. 67. Pillow fight or pillow fort? 68. Naked twister or strip poker? 69. Have you ever done a 69? 70. Make you’re own multiple choice question.
Have fun…😈
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CUNNILINGUS 101 - A Guide to Eating Pussy
Oral 101 - Eating Her Out
Before oral: GET FAMILIAR with cisgender women’s anatomy. Look up a detailed guide that differentiates between her inner and outer labia, her clitoris, her clitoral hood, her vaginal opening, her mound, and the opening of her urethra. When things are wet and messy, people can sometimes confuse these things. When you confuse the parts of a women’s body, it can make that woman feel ashamed - not because there is anything wrong with HER, but because you seem distracted, or apathetic. When you get distracted, or (for example) don’t locate her clit, it may communicate that you aren’t paying attention to her body, aren’t reading her body language/reactions, or straight up don’t care about her pleasure. MOST PEOPLE (particularly men) do NOT get an adequate sex 101 that appropriately or comprehensively incorporates female pleasure. This 101 guide will serve as a basic template for giving cisgender women oral. The rest of the play is up to you.
Note: giving good head and coming to understand your partner’s preferences is a LEARNING experience. The best students ask questions. Don’t be afraid to say, “Do you like this?” “How does this feel?” “Faster or slower? “Harder or softer?” “Tell me what to do.” One handy trick - when you’re between her legs, if you’re having any trouble locating her clit or figuring out where your mouth should go, ask her to touch herself/her clit. You can make it sexy and as demanding/dominant as you’d like (keeping your partner’s sexual preferences in mind, of course). Then, when she touches her clit in front of your face, you know where your tongue goes. Sometimes clits hide. They can be shy. They can take a while to emerge. There are folds around the pussy and some clits are very small. Ask for help. Your partner knows how to be your homing beacon, and making sure you’re licking the right place will show her that you care, you’re invested in her pleasure,
and you want to do this right.
What to do:
1. Kiss all the way down her body. Stop at her breasts, lick her nipples, nip at her ribs, kiss her bellybutton, bite her hips (gently). Kiss every part of her you can reach. Build anticipation. Spend time on her nipples. Be soft. Be slow. Swirl your tongue. Take your time. There is no rush to get to her pussy. The more you build anticipation, the more sensitive her clit will be when you do get to it.
2. When you get down to her pussy, stop. Tell her she’s beautiful. Tell her she smells amazing. Tell her you can’t wait to taste her. Women spend much of their lives being told that the taste, smell, and function of their vaginas is disgusting or something to hide. It is your job as her sexual partner to help her undo all of the fucked up messages she has gotten about her pussy. Treat it like the holy grail. Say, “wow.” Say, “you are so sexy.” Say, “I love being in between your legs. I love having you spread open like this.” It is very likely that NO ONE has ever spoken to her like this before. It is very likely that she has experienced 10X more shame about her pussy than she has experienced praise. Help her begin to undo that trauma. Treat her like she’s glorious.
3. Despite the fact that you just told her you can’t wait to taste her, definitely make *her* wait for your mouth. Kiss her inner thighs. Softly. Bite her hips. Be playful. Be eager. Suck small hickeys between her legs. Get closer and closer to her pussy, but don’t make contact yet. Breathe over her pussy, so she can feel how close you are. Kiss her mound. Lick her outer lips. Run your fingers over her pussy, from her clit down to her vaginal opening and back. Feel how wet you’ve already made her. Spread her wetness around. Touch her with your fingers first, but avoid direct contact with her clit.
4. When she’s moaning and panting a bit - when you can hear that you’ve worked her up - then you have permission to taste her. Get your face between her legs (seriously, a visual guide will HELP YOU and your eyes are your best friends when it comes to locating her clit). Use your fingers to spread open her labia, revealing her clitoral hood. Then, start licking. SOFTLY. I have seen so much advice telling men to be firm with their tongues. There is a time and place to be firm. Right at the beginning of oral is NOT IT. Start slow and make sure your tongue and mouth are nice and wet. Lick her clit in long, slow swipes. Try to lick from underneath the clitoral hood, so the flat of your tongue is pressed against her clit (note - some women might be more sensitive and prefer you to focus on the hood rather than the clitoris directly. Ask what your partner prefers). Lick slowly and steadily. Do NOT flick or jab your tongue quickly. You’re more likely to miss her clit entirely if you do this, and it doesn’t feel as good as the steady pressure and slow glide.
5. Try a few different patterns and figure out what works best for her. My favorite is small circles, but some women prefer zigzags or stripes or X shapes or the alphabet or diagonal licks across their clit. Try multiple patterns out and ask her what feels the best. If she says, “go back to that thing” or “do that again,” confirm with her that you went back to the *right* thing. Say, “you mean this? Or this?” It can be tough for women to make demands in bed. Show her how much you want to take direction. Communicate that you want to be a fucking PRO at this. It will help her feel more comfortable giving you guidance. And, in return, she’ll be more eager giving you pleasure as well. Win-win!
6. Most women say that the thing that is most likely to make them orgasm is CONSISTENCY. When you find something she likes (wet zigzags with the tip of your tongue, small circles against her clit with the flat of your tongue, slow swipes across her clit, soft licks from right underneath the hood), continue doing that thing. ASK HER if she’ll be able to come if you keep doing this for 20 minutes straight. If the answer is no, ask her what else she needs. You can slowly (very slowly) increase pressure and speed.
7. Feel free to introduce fingers, but keep a few things in mind. First, women generally don’t like to be roughly or violently finger-fucked while they’re getting oral. It can take away from the pleasure and distract from the task at hand. Start with one finger, and go slowly. Second, make sure you have short fingernails. You can introduce a second finger, but pump them in and out of her slowly. Crook them a bit inside of her while you continue licking her with the pattern she’s already told you she likes. Often, when fingers get introduced during oral, that becomes the main feature and the clit gets lost. The mouth strays away from the clitoris and her orgasm is delayed or she may feel as if her primary pleasure (clitoral stimulation) is being ignored for the sake of a sexual script that is not designed to make her orgasm (penetration). If you’re concerned that introducing fingers will distract you from her clit, don’t introduce them yet. Start with just oral and begin using fingers only when you can find her clit with the tip of your tongue, in the dark, within a few seconds.
8. Again, consistency is key. Continue licking her the way she likes. Be prepared to STAY THERE for 30 minutes. Make sure you’re in a comfortable position. Touch her. Rub your fingers over her nipples. Grab her ass. Run your fingers across her stomach and hips. Hold her hands. Use your hands to tilt her hips toward you. Use your hands to angle her in a way that gives you better access to her clit.
9. When you can feel that she’s getting closer, speed up a bit and (very slowly) increase pressure with your tongue on her clit. Be careful not to start flicking or getting distracted. You might lose the pattern that works for her. Moan. Bury your face into her. Tell her you want to make her come. Lick her like she’s delicious. Continue to lick her until she’s coming. Get your face wet. Use your entire tongue. Know that the clit will get even more sensitive during orgasm. Slow down and be a bit more gentle once she begins to orgasm, but DO NOT STOP. Lick her through it. If you go a bit softer after her orgasm has begun, but don’t lose contact with her clit, you can double the length of her orgasm.
10. When she starts to squirm or laugh or close her legs, she’s overly sensitive. Kiss her thighs. Squeeze her hips. Kiss her mound. Love her through it. But do stop licking her clit. Overstimulation can start to hurt after a short while.
Things to avoid:
1. Teeth. Do not use teeth. Period.
2. Confusing her clit with the opening of her urethra.
3. Sucking her clit too hard (some women enjoy clit sucking, but BE GENTLE, and know that it isn’t for everyone. Steady licking is a surer bet).
4. Violent finger-fucking. Don’t. Just don’t.
5. Long fingernails. Trim those.
6. Being too rough with your tongue or flicking instead of licking.
7. Losing her clit or getting distracted.
8. Spending too much time on her vaginal opening rather than the clit itself.
9. Stopping too early.
10. Switching it up too much (consistency is key!)
Remember, women have been taught sexual shame our entire lives. You dedicating 30-40 minutes to enthusiastically give the woman you’re sleeping with oral can go a long way in undoing the toxic messages we’ve received about our bodies, our pleasure, and our deservingness. Your tongue can literally make a difference for our self esteem. Spending time on us and telling us how much you enjoy giving oral is BEING AN ALLY. It is showing up for women. It is helping combat the orgasm gap. It is setting a higher bar for the sexual behavior and generosity of women’s sexual partners. It is sexy. It is fun. It is helpful. It is healing. It is time well-spent.
Happy loving and happy licking, my friends! ❤️❤️❤️
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Lick her daily!
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Pls drop by and enjoy yourself. Submissions, questions or a simple ‘hello’ are highly welcome.
Some playful questions...
1. How old were you when you had your first kiss? 2. How old were you when you had sex for the first time? 3. Have you ever walked in on people having sex? 4. Have you ever had phone sex? 5. Have you ever had birthday sex? 6. Name a non-pornographic movie that turns you on? 7. Have you ever used a sex swing? 8. Do you own any sex toys? If so, what? 9. Have you had a one night stand? 10. Back rub or foot rub? 11. Have you ever had an awkward moment where people were having sex and you were present? 12. Have you ever swapped partners? 13. Have you ever experienced DP? 14. Cuddling on the couch or picnic in the park? 15. Have you ever had sex on the beach? 16. Do you like to watch? 17. Ever been filmed or filmed yourself during a sexual act? 18. Have you ever had sex with someone that you were not suppose to? (Boss, teacher, relative). 19. Have you ever had a secret relationship? 20. Are feet a turn on? 21. Have you ever had a long distance relationship? 22. Have you ever met someone in person that you met online? 23. One thing you haven’t done sexually that you are hoping to try. 24. Anal or oral? 25. Have you ever been with someone of the same sex? 26. Have you ever masturbated outside the confines of your home? 27. Drunk sex or stoned sex? 28. Have you ever slept with an ex while no longer together? 29. Have you ever accidentally sent a dirty pic or message to the wrong person/people? 30. Have you ever had someone show a private pic to others without permission? 31. Does your partner have to be shorter or taller than you? 32. Have you ever been with someone that another member of your family has been with? 33. Whip or riding crop? 34. Name a song that puts you in the mood. 35. Have you ever had sex on a plane? 36. Is there anyone that you’ve slept with that you can’t recall their name? 37. Have you given or received road head? 38. Would you prefer receiving/giving a titty fuck or foot job? 39. Name a hard limit of yours. 40. Sex on the hood of a car or the back of a pick up? 41. Shower sex or sex in the rain? 42. If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be? 43. If you could change one thing about your personality what would it be? 44. Kill one, marry one, fuck one? (Name the three). 45. Choking or hair pulling? 46. Would you rather? (Name the two). 47. True or false? (You pick question). 48. Bar or club? 49. Have you ever had sex in the snow? 50. Have you ever had sex with a neighbour? (The house on the left or right, not down the street). 51. Have you ever had sex at a sports venue? (Football field, rink, etc.). 52. Have you ever used something outside the norm to orgasm? 53. Can you recall a time you were cock blocked or twat swatted? 54. Would you rather play dirty doctor or naughty detention? 55. What’s sexier nice eyes or nice lips? 56. What’s more attractive a sense of humour or a sense of style? 57. Ice cubes or wax? 58. Do you prefer a younger or older partner? 59. Ball gag or hand over mouth? 60. Have you ever posted a pic or a video of you committing a sexual act? 61. Did your parents have “the sex talk” with you when you were young? If so, which parent? How did it go? 62. If you had to choose, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl? 63. Morning sex or afternoon delight? 64. Are you vocal during sex? 65. Your socks, on or off in bed? 66. Embarrassing sex moment. 67. Pillow fight or pillow fort? 68. Naked twister or strip poker? 69. Have you ever done a 69? 70. Make you’re own multiple choice question.
Have fun…😈
Been awhile…🙌😈
Prostate orgasm, a how-to. Experiencing your first prostate orgasm is usually not easy. You need to let go and accept that you’re not really in control. Prostate orgasms are not as reliable as penis-based orgasms but, in return, they are more intense, more holistic, and also tend to happen serially. Although we are not used to this as adult men, prostate orgasms are not always associated with an ejaculation (usually not, in fact) and may even happen while your penis is limp. Because the reward isn’t as immediate and as dependable as penis-arising orgasms, most men do not tend to work on this ability of their prostate… missing out on a terrific and sublime experience.
How to treat a good man
He should be treasured. He should be held in the highest esteem and respect.
Give him attention. Listen to him when he speaks. Listen just as closely when he is silent.
Ask him what he needs from you. What you can do for him.
Give him your time, your presence, your courtesy.
If he has never given any reason for you to doubt him, then don’t LOOK for things to doubt.
Be his pleasure. Don’t try to cause him pain.
Don’t test him, to see if he is “just like all the others”. Had an ex that hurt you? Yeah, we all have. He probably has too. Don’t treat him like its the fault of all men.
Treat him like a king.
Put effort into him.
Show him you’re worthy of how he treats you.
Give him a damned break.
Be at His side.
Give him reason to smile. To laugh. To feel good.
Take care of him.
If he’s a good man, and you want to be with him, be a good woman.
Edit - this entire post is partly in response to the mass of “treat women like queen’s!!!!” posts i see. So fed up of the one sided attitude that i had to try balance it out. Women and men deserve exactly the same treatment and effort.
“Women and men deserve exactly the same treatment and effort.” - Exactly what I’m constantly preaching. Nice to feel some support finally 🙂
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Also:
Be honest with him. Be faithful and loyal to him.
Communicate. He has a right to know what’s going on in your head. He deserves a chance to understand you.
Forgive him when He did something wrong. Don’t punish him for fuckups, but help him to forgive himself. He feels bad enough already.
Be proud of him, and tell him that you are. He needs that just as much as you do.
Be supportive to him in his goals, hobbies, interests, job.
Protect him from others/negative external influences, but don’t think you would have to protect him from yourself. He loves you as you are, he wants all of you, including all your quirks, shortcomings and difficult traits. And he can deal with them. Don’t take anything away from him, only because you don’t like it about yourself.
Show interest in him. Ask him about his dreams in the morning and about his day in the evening.
Make him tea/coffee, bake him bread/cake, cook him dinner. Believe me, that’s how the strongest bonds are tied (:
Tell and show him how much you need him. Don’t be afraid to appear, to be vulnerable. There’s no shame in needing the one you love, and a good man thrives in feeling needed. And needs you just as much.
Be the kind of woman that makes people think highly of him, that makes everybody think ‘If this woman loves him, he must be a hell of a man.’
Always this. Equal treatment and……because he’s worth it. You reap what you sow.
Look after each other.
Tips on Fucking Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t Tell Bottoms
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)
SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock.
ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.
Anyone want to help me practice these guidelines? ;)
Know your place on bottom!
Kinky Questions - go!
1: Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer?
2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or Bad and why:
3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed:
4: Something that never fails to make you horny:
5: Where is one place you would never have sex:
6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when ______________
7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny:
8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: Handcuffs, Rope, or Other [if other please explain]:
9: What is the fastest way to make you horny:
10: Top or bottom?
11: We were about to ____________ but then ______________ [example: we were about to have sex but then his mom walked in]
12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary?
13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:
14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you:
15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex:
16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:
17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]
18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:
19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had?
20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:
21: How big is too big:
22: One sexual thing you would never do:
23: Biggest turn on:
24: Three spots that drive you insane:
25: Worst possible time to get horny:
26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans:
27: Worst sexual idea you ever had:
28: How much fapping is too much fapping:
29: Best sexual complement you ever got:
30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji:
31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut:
32: Fill in the blank: "If they ____________, we are fuckin"
33: What your favorite part of your body:
34: Favorite foreplay activities:
35: Love (>,
36: What do you wear to bed?
37: When was the first time you masturbated:
38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?
39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?
40: Have/would you ever have sex outside?
41: Have/would you ever had a threesome?
42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?
43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school?
44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane?
45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to?
46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny?
47: Most attractive celebrity?
48: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?
49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now?
50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online?
51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny?
52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?)
53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not)
54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?
55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?
56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?
57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see?
58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? (how long have you had it?)
59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day?
60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery?
61: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?
62: Do you watch porn?
63: How small is too small?
64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?
65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything?
66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day?
67: Do you feel comfortable going "commando"?
68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn't shaved their pubic hair?
69: If you could give yourself head, would you?
70: Booty or Boobs?
71: If you had a penis, what would you name it?
72: Have you ever been on an official date?
73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)
74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be?
75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?)
76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed?
77: What was your reaction the first time you saw a penis/vagina
78: If you had a penis/vagina for a day, what are five things you would do?
Send me a Question
NSFW Questions
1:When did you lose your virginity? 2: Rough sex or soft sex? 3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes? 4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex? 5: Favourite sex position? 6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive? 7: Have you ever had any one night stands? 8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor? 9: Have you ever had sex in a public place? 10: Have you ever been caught masturbating? 11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like? 12: How often do you have sex? 13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with? 14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? 15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex? 16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex? 17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex? 18: Are you into dressing up for sex? 19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower? 20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be? 21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you? 22: Do you/would you use sex toys? 23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture? 24: Would you have sex with your best friend? 25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink) 26: Something that will never fail to get you horny? 27: Early morning sex or late night sex? 28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex? 29: Favourite body part on the same sex? 30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: 31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: 32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] 33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: 34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: 35: Worst possible time to get horny: 36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans? 37: How much fapping is too much fapping: 38: Best sexual complement you ever got: 39: Favorite foreplay activities: 40: What do you wear to bed? 41: When was the first time you masturbated: 42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? 43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? 44: Have/would you ever have sex in public? 45: Have/would you ever had a threesome? 46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? 47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not? 48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not) 49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? 50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? 51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? 52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute? 53: Do you watch porn? 54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? 55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”? 56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair? 57: If you could give yourself head, would you? 58: Booty or Boobs? 59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) 60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do? 61: have you ever watched someone masturbate? 62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate? 63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed? 64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate) 65. What is your bra/penis size? 66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus? 67. When was the last time you masturbated? 68. When was the last time you had sex? 69. When was the last time you watched porn? 70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do? 71. Guys:Circumsized? 72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched? 73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched? 74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation? 75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr? 76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream? 77. Which wet dream was your favorite? 78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with? 79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with? 80. Favorite sexual position? 81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed? 82. Are you into any BDSM? 83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why? 84. Do you like dirty talk? 85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation? 86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what? 87. What kind of porn do you like to watch? 88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them? 89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them? 90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them? 91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial? 92. Ask whatever you want
I honestly get sad because I literally never get responses from these lol
Ask away! I hope to get some this time
Do It!ask Away
OOOOK, So you done tips on giving good head on guys. But what about on girls?? Sincerely, A bi girl 😜😉😂😂
Let’s set the Ambiance with
Nice & Slow by Usher *in the background*
CUNNILINGUS. (Cool ass word for Eating Pussy)
Cunnilingus is a performance art. It’s the process of making love to pussy with your mouth and tongue. Great way to make her feel admired and appreciated.
“78 percent of a woman’s pleasure is about yearning"
It’s a map to this that you should follow, you can always take a short cut, or dive face first in the pussy, but I heard somewhere “78 percent of a woman’s pleasure is about yearning” and that sounds true so I’m going to go with that. So build up anticipation
The Build Up
Forehead -Kiss that.
Nose - *I got your nose grab* (I’m joking, don’t do that unless she’s into goofy shit),
Lips (Face) - Bite & Kiss that (quick lil bite on the bottom one mixed with some slow kissing),
Neck - Kissing, Biting, Sucking
Boobs - Suck,Kiss snd Lick That (Should’ve done this since you first got her naked)
Belly Button - Kiss that too.
Inner Thigh - Bite, Lick, Kiss, Bite, Lick, Kiss
Pelvic Bone - Kiss
Pubic Bone - Kiss
Pussy is finger food.
My mother always told me “Cut your nails. girls wouldn’t let you touch them if your nails are long.” She was telling me this since I was a youth and I didn’t fully understand what she meant by this until I “Started touching girls.”
So Make sure yo nails short and clean, fam. because Pussy is finger food and you should be using your fingers often actually your hands in general.
The Lips
Use your tongue on her pussy lips. Split her inner and outer pussy lips and run your tongue around there then move on to the Clit.
Clitoris - (aka the most important and most neglected part of the vagina.)
Find her clit and start the show. The Clit is that small knob of pink flesh and you’ll find this at the top of the vagina. This is the headquarters of pleasure this is where you want to focus on. This is like the female version of a dick head, it causes them to Orgasm which is a big deal. Clits come in various shapes, sizes, and sensitivities. It’s like a lecture hall class of nerves. Start off soft and slow in the beginning, all clits are fond of that.Pay attention to her reactions. Slow down when she’s convulsing and don’t stop stop when she start Draking “oh my god, oh my god, I’m bout to cum this heaven” Rub the clit like you’re doing crossovers in 2k. (Gently)
You want to lick her clit like your shooting Free throws in NBA 2K. Up and Down and you can do side to side eventual you’ll want to do 360 motions. You should put the whole clit in your mouth without your teeth getting in the way, NEVER EVER USE TEETH.
“Lick her Pussy like you’re doing crossovers in 2K.”
G Spot
It’s at the roof of the Vagina. Get your Index and Middle finger in there and make like a come here motion in it. Start off slow then move faster.
What To Say?
Tell her how good she tastes.
How beautiful her pussy is.
How wet she is.
How good she smell.
Multitask
Now you do all the above in different combinations at the same time.
DON’T
DON’T BITE THE CLIT
DON’T TUG ON THE CLIT
DON’T BITE THE PUSSY
In All Actuality
You just have to get creative on the pussy and when you find something that works, keep at it.