My male followers will be interested to hear that I suddenly got an influx of PMs from interested women. Apparently someone posted about my blog on a feminist group somewhere. Whoever you are, thank you!
It’s now clear to me from talking to these women (all of whom have extremely vanilla tumblrs) that I haven’t sufficiently explained chastity play for the absolute beginner.
From a purely functional perspective the play is thus: One partner (most often a man) will wear a chastity device that prevents him from touching himself sexually, having sex and/or reaching orgasm. He hands the key to that device over to his partner (usually a woman) to hold and decide when he may be released.
No! That’s not all there is to it. The real action is in the brain, in the chemistry between the locked one and the keyholder, in the excitement of handing sexual power over to someone else to wield however they wish, in the inherent pleasure there is in unmet desire.
It shouldn’t. If done right there is no pain and minimal discomfort, other than the growing need for orgasmic release. However, finding the right device and the right fit can be tricky and often takes time.
Yes. Chastity play is consensually entered into by both parties. Once the game is afoot, the wearer forfeits the right to demand the key from the keyholder. The keyholder monitors the wearer and in case of health problems or some other emergency she will produce the keys. Otherwise she withholds them for as long as she wants.
How long does she keep in locked up?
That is entirely up to her. While experimenting with fit, a day or two at a time is plenty. Over time she will increase the duration of lockup from days to weeks. The ideal sentence of lockup is around three to four weeks.
What other forms does chastity play take?
Chastity play comes in many forms. It can be practiced solo or as a couple, enforced or not. The three most common forms are: 1) Device chastity, 2) On-your-honor chastity, 3) Hypnotic chastity. You can read more about them here.
There certainly can be if you wish. Ultimately the keyholder is empowered to “encourage” any behavior she wishes and “discourage” behavior she disapproves of simply by controlling access to the keys. Cleaner houses, more date nights, back rubs, foot rubs, less cursing and more respectful and insightful conversation are all common benefits that any keyholder can reasonably expect.
Quite the opposite, actually. Chastity play can be very addicting to both the wearer and the keyholder.
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