having a stable identity is overrated

[aro-crows]

about:

20 something, they/them

queer as tropes

antifascist

audhd&

latest interests:

surviving capitalism

[loveridden1999]

the thing about phone in bed is that it's so awesome. almost makes you feel like betraying & destroying yourself for nothing isn't all so bad

[depressedcryptographer]

Asking for touch as an aspec is so weird like “hey, please touch me, but not in a sex/romance way, just in a human contact way. Interact with my body’s touchscreens. Punch me in the face or something. Please. I’ll take anything at this point.”

Edit: of course everyone here has blanket permission to tag this as Blorbo from their Shows. We love seeing representation, implicit or explicit.

[aro-crows]

the issue with oxytocin is that it keeps your friends close but it doesnt keep your enemies closer

[aro-crows]

author: sends characters through hell

me: okay i like where youre going with this

author: brings characters back out of hell

me: yessss this is everything i wanted

author: sends characters through deeper hell

me: oh come on now

[aro-crows]

twice in the past 24 hours have i kicked my feet giddily at a fictional platonic relationship

i think love might be real actually

[queer-as-city-folk]

Cooking is a good skill to have because competence is seen as hot

[aro-crows]

was gonna aropost as if it was a revalation and then remembered my blog name

having big yearning rn and introspection confirms it is platonic and not romantic

it sure seems a lot like romance in terms of the emotional territory

but people on tumblr who wax lyrical about the platonic relationships they treasure or crave in life are giving me assurance that my dreams of emotional intimacy can be platonic no matter how intense

platonic relationships would fix me

[aro-crows]

todays shower came with an extra large side of the horrors

[aro-crows]

so i go over to the tumblr app and what do i find out? what do i find out

there is no click on post

the feature does not exist, okay

so i decide, oh shit buddy, i gotta click a little lower

there's no click on post? you gotta be kidding me

i got years worth of click on post

[aro-crows]

yeah sure its sexy to find someone whose baggage matches yours

but yknow whats even more sexy?

finding someone who has their shit together in the ways you dont

its like fucking lamplight to a moth, that shits so compelling to chase

[aro-crows]

oh god, tumblr ui my darling, what did they do to you this time

[aro-crows]

reverently traces ur bones

[godspeedyoublackemperor]

[yeahokayillreblogthat]

yeah okay, ill reblog that

[aro-crows]

tell me youre fucked up without telling me youre fucked up

[aro-crows]

i still think that sim tank qua powerful sensory deprivation chamber qua hacky temporary break from existence was one of my better post ideas

[aro-crows]

i was gonna include self administered as an adjective but thats not quite accurate to the post. and honestly needing to ask a friend to send you to consensual purgatory is more scrumptious of a concept

[aro-crows]

i still think that sim tank qua powerful sensory deprivation chamber qua hacky temporary break from existence was one of my better post ideas