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An Aro/Ace Safe Place!
@aroacesafeplaceforall
A place to talk about, learn about and hear about the Aroace spec community! Please ask or tell us anything!! MOD LIST Jamie uses any pronouns, but is masc leaning! They are Aegosexual/Romance-repulsed Aromantic! Noah Oats uses they/them pronouns and is aroace! Ray goes by any pronouns and cupioromantic and aegosexual! Fizz is agender, preferring to use they/them, and are a proud aegoaroace! Remember it's your box!!!
We’re here for all your Questions, Rants, Vents, and Confessions!
Ask box is always open and we’re always here for your asks!
We are here to educate, explain and help with anyone who needs it!
Stay safe, remember you are valid and it's your box!
LOVE U ALL YOU'RE VALID
Commonly asked questions!
Link to my Aro-spec post
Link to a post containing most Ace Spec identities
Asexual Wiki, Aromantic Wiki,
the Asexual Visibility and Education Network -Asexual resource
AUREA — the Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy
List of Aroace Spectrum resources
Amazing post by @styrofauxm "So...you're questioning if you are aromantic and/or asexual..."
The comments section link to a helpful article on how to educate/beat the acephobes
Meet the Mod team:
I’m Jay, I also go by Jamie! I’m gender queer and use any pronouns, but I sometimes swap to preferred pronouns, don’t be afraid to ask! I’m aegosexual-pansexual and a romance repulsed aromantic! I am neurotypical and the OG owner of this blog!
Hey people, my names Noah (or you can call me Nicola as that is a name I also go by :D) and I use they/them pronouns :) I have a long list of labels because I'm a complicated human being lol. I'm non-binary/genderqueer, lesbian/sapphic oriented aroace (I use both labels), with a handful of microlabels (greyromantic, aceflux, apothisexual and aegosexual). I have diagnosed ADHD, and I'm an INFP B)
My name is Ray! I go by any pronouns, and I’m an Agender Cogirl. I am cupioromantic and aegosexual (and many other things, just ask if you want to know!). I also have diagnosed autism, and I’m an ISFP.
Hiiiiii!!! I'm the new mod :3 I’m Fizzamess, you can call me Fizz. I’m agender and prefer using the pronouns “they/them” but I don't get mad if you call me any other pronoun. I’m a proud aegoaroace (aegoromantic and aegosexual) and I'm also caedsexual. I have OCD, lol
This user acknowledges that the land they stand on always was and always will be Aboriginal land. Sovereignty has never been ceded. This user recognises the past atrocities against Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples of this land and that Australia was founded on the genocide and dispossession of First Nations people.)
The Blogs
Thank you to @knowable-entity for drawing (most) of our profile pics!!
Banner art by @pride-flag-planets, thank you for letting us use it!
The forces:
A collection of multi member blogs dedicated to one country of aspecs… all against Denmark
Oh you have a problem with my rent lowering gun shots post (points about why you shouldn't follow me bc there's too many of you) and instead of you know, unfollowing me, like the point of the post, you boarder line accuse me of being a terf when the first line in the post is "fuck terfs"?
Okay get blocked lol, you were meant to unfollow if you had an issue, now you've been forced to fuck off.
context: points and comments, username of commenter censored as theyre not a bad person just someone who missed the point of the post and pissed me off when i haven't eaten in hours.
hot take: the phrase “there is no platonic explanation for that” fucking sucks, bc it not only hurts aromatic people, but also emphasizes the ‘friends can’t be too close’ this can either be rooted in homophobia or sexism
Proship is anti harassment, ship and let ship, don't like don't read don't interact, proship =/= incest, it means "i don't ship it but its fine if you ship it" its the original "don't yuck someones yum" (though im not sure of the timeline of those two sayings). I am proship; go wild and free.
Queer rights are not my top priority, ill help ofc, vote in favour of rights, march if needed, run this blog etc, but I'm not organising anything personally. my top priorities are women's rights and climate action.
Pro choice, if that wasn't fucking obvious. Until a baby is born I don't honestly care, if a pregnant person doesn't want it, it should be removed like a parasite. fairs fair. Breathing is the start of life not for religious reasons but for "fuck you thats why" reasons.
You don't have to be nice to be kind.
Just bc you don't understand it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist or isn't valid. I, and you, don't speak many languages, doesn't mean they're not spoken.
Burn tiktok to the ground.
final gun shot:
Sometimes US americans need to shut the fuck up. Even the 'left wing' ones. USA left wing is australias centre right, so yeah, you don't know what the fuck is going on. Not everything is about you and I'm fucking sick of every situation, not matter what, being turned into a USA-issue. Australia bushfires? well actuall USA has fires! GLOBAL climate change? well USamerica is leading (its not its reallyreally not) the way in climate action! Like a sport? actually USamerica has a it better/more popular/more interesting/had it first!
just shut the fuck up.
anyway thats my gun shots, clear out!
edit: one more bc I love u
RPF needs to be done in private. I know, were human, we've ALWAYS done this. but its done in such a way that is just creepy and gross now that the internet exists. Speculate privately in group chats or private areas, discord for instance. Block the people youre shipping ffs, don't tag them, don't speculate in a gross-creepy way, don't try and get them to address it, don't approach them in public. KEEP IT PRIVATE AND AWAY from them. PLEASE.
Context I took off my shirt I was sitting in bed taking off my shirt to change clothing she jumped on my lap and was purring until I put on a shirt again and then she ran away. By the way you're not far off her name is baby kitten
I keep seeing a lot of hate in regards to the design of the new ace flag varient and i just gotta nod and smile about it because ofc everyone's entitled to their own opinions but i find it really pretty and it makes me really sad
Honestly just use whatever flag you want.
Personally, I'll be sticking to the OG purple flag, but the new one is fine I guess. The yellow could maybe be dimmed a bit — every version I see has like pale purple NEON YELLOW white, and it's really jarring imo. Also looks a bit like the pedo-flag when i first saw it, so thats not... great.
But seriously, if you like you like it, who cares! enjoy the flag, wave whatever one you want!
I’ve been so nervous lately to call myself aroace, cause I have a partner and don’t want to break up with him. (He knows I’m aroace dw) and like eunendjsnnsjskskks I wonder if I’m aroace enough
No such thing as aroace enough, hope that helps.
If you don’t want to break up; don’t. (As long as he also doesn’t want to break up lol, no hostage situations here!)
We’re here for all your Questions, Rants, Vents, and Confessions!
Ask box is always open and we’re always here for your asks!
We are here to educate, explain and help with anyone who needs it!
Stay safe, remember you are valid and it's your box!
LOVE U ALL YOU'RE VALID
Commonly asked questions!
Link to my Aro-spec post
Link to a post containing most Ace Spec identities
Asexual Wiki, Aromantic Wiki,
the Asexual Visibility and Education Network -Asexual resource
AUREA — the Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy
List of Aroace Spectrum resources
Amazing post by @styrofauxm "So...you're questioning if you are aromantic and/or asexual..."
The comments section link to a helpful article on how to educate/beat the acephobes
Meet the Mod team:
I’m Jay, I also go by Jamie! I’m gender queer and use any pronouns, but I sometimes swap to preferred pronouns, don’t be afraid to ask! I’m aegosexual-pansexual and a romance repulsed aromantic! I am neurotypical and the OG owner of this blog!
Hey people, my names Noah (or you can call me Nicola as that is a name I also go by :D) and I use they/them pronouns :) I have a long list of labels because I'm a complicated human being lol. I'm non-binary/genderqueer, lesbian/sapphic oriented aroace (I use both labels), with a handful of microlabels (greyromantic, aceflux, apothisexual and aegosexual). I have diagnosed ADHD, and I'm an INFP B)
My name is Ray! I go by any pronouns, and I’m an Agender Cogirl. I am cupioromantic and aegosexual (and many other things, just ask if you want to know!). I also have diagnosed autism, and I’m an ISFP.
Hiiiiii!!! I'm the new mod :3 I’m Fizzamess, you can call me Fizz. I’m agender and prefer using the pronouns “they/them” but I don't get mad if you call me any other pronoun. I’m a proud aegoaroace (aegoromantic and aegosexual) and I'm also caedsexual. I have OCD, lol
This user acknowledges that the land they stand on always was and always will be Aboriginal land. Sovereignty has never been ceded. This user recognises the past atrocities against Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples of this land and that Australia was founded on the genocide and dispossession of First Nations people.)
The Blogs
Thank you to @knowable-entity for drawing (most) of our profile pics!!
Banner art by @pride-flag-planets, thank you for letting us use it!
The forces:
A collection of multi member blogs dedicated to one country of aspecs… all against Denmark
