M, G & Me: Chapter II - Surprises
Another thing I’ve said frequently over the years is, I don’t have fantasies; I live them. What was happening with M was definitely my ultimate fantasy come to life but it wasn’t because of him… it was all because of G.
G and I met on RealJock.com while I still lived in NYC and he lived in our now collective home of Atlanta. I messaged him because I thought he was hot but didn’t imagine that we’d ever meet. I’ve never been so happy to be wrong and our relationship has lasted for about 9 years now.
G is both the worst and the best boyfriend I have ever had. We are so much alike it’s scary and the differences we have are so vastly contrasting it’s volatile. He has taught me so much about patience, a person’s ability to change and what it means to stand tall.
Early on in our relationship he was jealous, controlling, possessive, stubborn and overly demanding. That coupled with a big personality caused a lot of tension when it bumped up against my own stubbornness and lack of patience. Two alphas constantly vying for control lead to some very volatile confrontations, even in public.
So imagine my surprise when he suggested we have an open relationship creating an opening for M to enter our lives for the first time for G but, oddly enough, the second time for me.