Ashantiland

22. student rn. natural hair. black queen 👑. intelligent & pretty. too honest for life 💙. approval neither required nor desired 👸🏾. IG: itsashantiland.

[lilreevs]

you’re the type of person i’d sit in a car with in the middle of the night just to cruise to good music

[blvckbabesupremacy]

It’s strange to have the shortest lived thing with a boy and to still be so caught up over it a month later.

It is strange to share such an instant and electric time then see each other practically every day and pretend it never happened. 

It’s strange that I knew him for such a short time and already felt more comfortable being myself with him than men I’ve known for years.

It is strange that this boy held me and felt me and understood me more than in relationships I had for two plus years. 

What’s not so strange is how there was someone he liked better and more. That has always been the same. 

[depresseddemise]

When you’re in the middle of sobbing and you start dissociating so you’re like “okay I’m done now” and turn into an emotionless zombie

[ashantiland-lookitup-blog]

Me everything I cry 💀

[thr0atmistress-deactivated20191]

[chickwittablog]

I feel Steve on this ✊🏾

[seblester]

[buzzfeedphoto]

[digg]

All the times that Prince reminded us that he is, in fact, a God among men.

[pocket-full-ofdreams]

[vogucci]

p6ssy 

[theorydictatespractice-deactiva]

what i’ve learned is that if you’re gonna engage in a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. someone who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not, and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. life is too short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in mind. the right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely free and accepted within your own skin. they won’t attempt to hinder your development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you into the arms of someone else. good lovers will desire to see your personal success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your decisions. stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the best for yourself. they don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can provide for them. and that is not love.

[guavasite]

this goes for friends as well

[ramirezcarc]

A$AP Ferg x Zoe Kravitz x A$AP Rocky 💯

[zodiacmind]

Zodiac Fears

[zodiacmind]

1. Aries: Separation/detachment. 2. Taurus: Change. 3. Gemini: Being alone. 4. Cancer: Feeling unloved. 5. Leo: Being ignored. 6. Virgo: Disorder. 7. Libra: Anything extremely unbalanced/making a wrong decision that’ll destroy their life. 8. Scorpio: Failure and inadequacy. 9. Sagittarius: Being controlled. 10. Capricorn: Being misunderstood and not being good enough. 11. Aquarius: Being locked in. 12. Pisces: Upsetting others and rejection.

More here 

[bewiubciueniocneoiheroihreoerfn]

[hismami]

minajnicki

[yourbigsisnissi]

Some guys are just so boring. Like all they have to offer is dick, a few good morning texts, and a boring conversation. And people settle for it because they are desperate to have someone. But life should be exciting and relationships should be fun and spontaneous and bring out the creativity in both people. Well that’s what it has to be for me. That’s a must. Wanting to experience a life of enjoyment together is a form of intimacy

[ashantiland-lookitup-blog]

Would you date an 18 year old?

Probably not because I'm 22 and I feel like we would be in totally different places in life, as well as mindset. I think about myself four years ago and I was way different than I am now.

[filmoments]

[scum2000]

If someone treats you like you are unimportant, it is a reflection of them and what they value out of relationships. It is not a reflection of you or your worth as person. You don’t have to prove your importance to other people.

[kushandwizdom]

I needed to see this

[slave2beauty]

[belle-rebel-x]

http://million-dollar-goals.tumblr.com/