Masculinity isn't a standard to live up to. Its just a description of how men tend to naturally behave. The phrase "real man" signals that you are dealing with a transexualised mind
it's one of the many things that I think people overanalyze and place too much importance on. The way to solve this imaginary problem they've stirred up about masculinity is to shut the fuck up about it and just focus on real, every day concrete issues.














