You're unbelievable.

Apparently, this is supposed to be contributing to rising PR credit. Absolutely ridiculous. For some reason, I'm supposed to allow you to pry into my life. This blog is in no way affiliated with SP, 4 Lions or any of the writers or creators of IPKKND or Arnav Singh Raizada. Catch me at @arnavsinghraizada

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Hi ASR. You are someone who is excellent at keeping feelings out of the professional space and as someone who was recently promoted and has subordinates now, I need advice on how to just be direct and assertive without worrying about hurting people's feelings or making them uncomfortable. What would you suggest should I do?

As a leader, you should be worried about making people uncomfortable. Leadership comes with power. Power comes with responsibility. Be very aware of that power and how to use effectively. A good leader makes room for others at the table.

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I believe all the questions about Aarav are inspired by this fanfic of him on Wattpad. It's pretty good so far and don't worry your son is a full grown adult in the book while you and Mrs. Raizada are middle-aged. Nani ji passed away unfortunately. You might like to read about your son's future. It's called "The Barriers Between Us." But I must warn you, the author has written about some intimate moments between your son and his girlfriend, so heads up Raizada. PS Your deewani from a distance <3

There is no world in which I would want to do this. None.

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Hello ASR!

First of all sorry for the barrage of weird questions about Aarav. I, unfortunately, had a question about Aarav as well. But it’s not about marrying your 17-18 years old son *visible shudders*

They say one can see reflection of their characteristics in their children. So I wanted to ask if you’d like to share some things Aarav picked up from you/Khushi or moments when he reflected either of you?

Best,

JWB

What a relief.

I think Aarav gets a lot of his practical nature from me - but he retains a capacity to be very thoughtful and sensitive, which I'm sure comes from Khushi far more than it could from me.

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Rules!

So considering the fact that I’ve had a lot of traffic recently, I thought I’d lay out an idea of some rules when interacting with my space. This is common etiquette I’d love if everyone could follow. If you choose not to abide by these boundaries, it’s up to me whether or not I answer your question(s) or simply block you from the space. I would hate to do that to anyone, so please let’s all keep this a healthy and fun space for all involved. 

1. Don’t send me your thoughts on the show or your analyses. This is not the space for those kinds of messages. 

2. Make sure you’re actually asking a question. I’m okay with people using this space as a place where they occasionally vent and would like to hear their favourite character say something back, but please don’t send me statements of fact or one-liners that don’t require any sort of engagement. Also, this is NOT an IM platform, don’t send me things like “what’s up” on a regular basis. I wont respond.

3. Do not try and pick fights with Arnav or send aggressive messages. While I understand they’re not aimed at me and that people have frustrations with the character, they’re emotionally taxing to respond to and take a lot of labour. Please don’t use this space to air your own vendettas against Arnav as a character. 

4. Don’t send asks pretending to be Khushi or Anjali or any other character. I don’t engage in roleplay with questions and haven’t since I started this blog many years ago. 

5. Try and be mindful of how many questions you’re sending in a short period. I completely understand that it can be exciting and fun to have a verbal sparring session of sorts, but it does take a lot of time to control the flow of messages and I can’t promise that I’ll get to them if it becomes too much for me. 

6. Be patient. Please don’t send me multiple follow up asks to discern whether I received your question. I have a lot to balance with school and work and volunteering, and I will get to it as soon as I am able. If you see that I’ve been actively answering questions and yours hasn’t appeared, shoot me an ask asking whether I received it and at that time I will let you know. 

7. Please don’t introduce your own HCs and fic ideas and want me to continue them. For example, I once received a message where someone was congratulating Arnav on Khushi’s pregnancy, something they wanted to see, but I can’t be expected to keep up with everyone’s canon continuations. Write a fic instead, I’d love to read your take on your idea! 

These are all I can think of, for now, I’ll update this if I think of more boundaries. Please be conscious of these and try to keep them in mind, that way we can keep a fun and safe space for both myself and all of you. Happy asking :) 

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But it matters to your family, so how do you think your wife and your family would react if he wanted to marry a Muslim woman?

I don’t care. How anyone feels is their own problem to deal with.

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But Mr. Raizada, Aarav is in love with me too. He's too afraid to tell you because he thinks you want him to marry Ambani's daughter and he doesn't want to let you down. :(

Oh, so you’re just straight up delusional then, huh?

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ASR, how would Khushi and your family react if Aarav wanted to marry a Muslim woman?

What the fuck is with all of you and Aarav? Why are all of you so invested in him? Religion means absolutely nothing to me, I physically could not care less.

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Arnav you're a sweetheart and I love how you keep reminding all those idiots that Aarav is your and Khushi's son, your first son who you love and cherish as your own. <3

Not as my own. He is my own.

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Mr. Raizada, I've been following your work for almost a decade now and as an upcoming businesswoman, I want to say that I'm a huge fan. Also, I'm in love with your son, Aarav. Will you be my father in law and then convince Mrs. Raizada too? Love - fingers crossed, your future daughter in law! <3

There is … so much happening here. Let’s start with “stay away from my son or I call the police.”

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Is there a something khushi does that makes u blush/ shy?

Not that I would ever confess to the internet.

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Hey ASR. How did you spend your time in the lockdown? Did you enjoy being 24/7 around Khushi and the kids?

Hello. As I’m sure it does for many other parents, it got old. Really quickly.

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Hi arnav, I really wanted khushi and lavanya to end up together instead of you and her. What’s your reaction to that?

It seems you’re looking for a certain one. Why don’t you tell me what you’d like?

[daechwitas]

let me be very clear that if you voted for donald trump or support him in any capacity you are not welcome here. my blog is not the place for you and i do not want you interacting with me. 

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Hi ASR. When was the last time you went full ASR on someone and why?

Hello. I don’t abide incompetency. A clerical omission resulted in the underpaying of an employee. Had the payroll consultant in question focused on their fucking job instead of catching a date for the evening, that wouldn’t have been the case. I’m sure you can connect the rest of the dots.

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hey asr!hope u r doing well!! here is my question how vome when u finally told khushi why u married her n she told u how shyam duped her n whole family,hadnot occur once in ur mind to ask anyone from her family??or payal the least if u hv doubt or r u afraid that khushi is ryt n whole burden of ur wrongdoings (marrying her forcefully)ll come to haunt u?n how is khushi's dad now ?has he recovered n told anyone that snake shyam was behind his condition n tried to kill him??

Hello. I was doing great until .. now.

I’m confused as to where you saw an impartial, unbiased source who didn’t have an ace in the game in any of the potential witnesses you’ve listed here.

I do plenty of mental gymnastics to avoid culpability, and I’m sure that was the case here to a certain extent too.

Shyam has been prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law, rest assured he will be rotting for a while. Now that the cause of the damage has been identified, treatment has taken a positive turn but neural damage is very slow to fix.

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Hi, Arnavji. How are you and Khushi ji doing? The family? I was wondering... You said you had three sons. Aarav, Angad (who's 9) and Arjun. But uh, since you guys got remarried in 2012, and the "3yrs later" thing was shown where you still had no kids, shouldn't Angad be like, uh, 5 or something? Correct me if I'm wrong and am losing out on some information here. (New to this Tumblr thing. Whoever created this, is wonderful! Was feeling a bit low and this absolutely cheered me up! Thank you!)

Hello! So this is actually something I’m going to answer. Ek Jashn means ... basically nothing to me. My own continuation had Angad as an oopsie baby who was conceived earlier than anticipated (like 2013) He’s not meant to be 9 though, I just had a brain lapse there. I literally can’t explain how that happened cause I do not understand it myself. He’s meant to be around 7ish.

To tell you the complete truth, I didn’t write any of it down and apparently basic math eludes me, which is great. So I will use this post as a stabilizer and establish that:

Aarav - 13 (again based off a faint recollection of him apparently being around 5 even though he looked waaaaaaaaay older. If that’s wrong then ... well... idk I don’t get paid for this LOL)

Angad - 7

Arjun - 4

Considering that Ek Jashn is I guess canon, you could definitely understand this blog to be canon divergent.

Thank you for your kind words! It started as me just being obsessed with Arnav and well I don’t think that’s changed overly much! I hope you continue to enjoy it here in this hellscape I have created.

TLDR: you didn’t miss information, I just can’t do basic math. He should be 7 because the blog is canon divergent! Thank you for pointing that out!

- Amrit

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Hey Arnav. I just wanted to ask if the will you signed making Anjali the sole beneficiary of all your properties still exists or you changed it since you have a family of your own now!

Hello. I have children now, I - no - of course, my will has been dramatically altered to reflect my family changes, yes.