Local wine aunt with a personality disorder

Hello my little chemically imbalanced children. My name is Tia and i have aspd. Am i a mess? Hell yeah? Am i still cool sexy and funny? Absolutely. Drop a follow if you wanna pick the brain of a professionally diagnosed “”””””psychopth””””””

[depsidase]

[aspd-sriracha]

*incorrect buzzer sound* wrong! I do absolutely nothing except be heavily medicated while my mommy and daddy pay for everything 💅🏽

[darkshrimpemotions]

The thing is, until you get past the mindset of "justice=punishment" you will never be able to create lasting change. We have actual proof that punitive justice creates more crime and makes criminals more violent. We have actual proof that rehabilitation reduces crime and recidivism. But some of y'all are so stuck on this idea that the wrongdoer must be punished for justice to be done that you will choose sating your need for revenge over actually moving toward a better world every time. And that's sad!

[darkshrimpemotions]

Everyone in the notes saying punishment doesn't undo the bad thing: exactly! Punishment does not create or preserve healing, prevention, protection, fairness, or goodness. The only thing punishment does is satisfy a sadistic public desire for revenge and give us the illusion of control.

[aspd-sriracha]

As someone with aspd this is absolutely hilarious

[stinktube]

some loser: humans are innately selfish creatures

my psych book:

[khfanforall]

[aspd-sriracha]

“Empathy comes naturally”

[rapidpunches]

"SURVIVING"

[maroon-ram]

I love the message and artstyle but did they have to give the cute lovable gator depression? T^T carry on lil buddy, this too shall pass

[grimeclown]

The gator is the whole point. It's a stand-in for the author that has felt the need to suppress the aspects of themself that others find unappealing, their anger, their sadness, the things people find abrasive or just "weird" in order to make themself more digestible for the people around them because the alternative is to be alone. The gator is only "cute" and "lovable" because it was not allowed to be anything else.

[vodkadrownedincolumbine]

People with NPD and their attraction to the disabled/mentally ill/physically ill

As someone who when I was physically unwell had to live in supported living (not assisted!), I will say for absolute certain narcissists will deliberately trigger those with any kind of illness, disability etc. They do this especially often to those who are physically unable to communicate to let people know this is happening. I have seen horrors, and was tortured by a narcissist who continually deliberately induced autism-meltdowns (which do not come easily to me) and filmed them to make me look crazy. I have brain damage from it now. I was not helped no matter who I told.

More awareness needs to be raised in regards to this. Malignant narcissists in particular are monsters, especially as from experience they flock to psychiatric hospitals to work there.

See also: Tumblr NPD'S enjoy smearing anyone who speaks out so I pretty much expect it at this point, but it won't deter me from posting.

[aspd-sriracha]

Disabled person with npd here: nice ableism bud :)

[the-antisocial-chronicles]

“People with ASPD and NPD are unlikely to seek help”  If you were treated like you just murdered the therapist’s entire family in front of them every time you tried I don’t think you’d seek help either 

[ambivalentpsychopomp]

I have nothing to back this up but l'm 100% sure that the majority of abusive people labelled as “narcissists" or “psychopaths" are completely neurotypical

[manie-sans-delire-x]

If I’m gunna suffer anyways I might as well make it so I deserve it.

[antisocial-hatred]

you'll never convince me that empathy's a real thing, what happens is you see a person in a bad situation and imagine being in their place so you put yourself in a bad mood too, you're not "absorbing or sharing their emotions" you're just making their bad situation about you and assuming they feel the same way as your imaginary self in your imaginary scenario, and you may get it right sometimes but without any guarantee exactly because there's no actual connection between the two emotional states

edit: check the comments before replying thx

[antisocial-hatred]

"my ex was a narcissist!" and it's just a random dude who can't take accountability because patriarchy

[frogsforthefrogwar]

i just think they’re nice

[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

me when my personality disorder actually impacts my life and doesn’t just make me a cool manic pixie dream girl (i will have this realization twice a week)

[communitygardensystem]

where is the love for people who are manipulative by nature and are trying their best to fight it? we tell cluster Bs all the time that they're not inherently manipulative or toxic but what about those of us who are? some of us are inclined towards being toxic or manipulative by nature. some of us lack essential social functions like empathy and compassion, and it's not because we're evil, it's because repeated trauma degraded our brain's ability to perform those functions. it can be a constant, exhausting battle to not want to be cruel, but to have to fight your very nature to avoid cruelty. i think that those of us who have to carry that burden deserve love.

[nicepersondisorder]

sonic sez

[npdemu]

i got a b in personality disorders??? did i not study enough?

[homoneuroticist-deactivated2025]

how the world feels about cluster b

bpd: need me a bpd girl ahah mood swings hahaha crazy girls with daddy issues

npd: a narcissist is anyone who is mean to me ever and i sense them with my Empath Eyes

aspd: exclusively serial killers and psychopaths, they are so evil and terrible

hpd: what the fuck is that

[npdemu]

thank you for your constructive criticism. unfortunately, i have been sent into a rage which i will not mentally recover from for three years