If we could count down all the opinions of the world, you wouldnât be surprised, how many of them said life is hard and problems are complicated. Especially, if we come to really hard problems, then, of course, the solutions must be even more complicated. You see, this is how we are trained to see the world, this is how weâre thought, this is what our moms, our teachers, our schoolmates had thought us, and we finally believed it. This is just how it works, and that is just how itâs done. Please donât tell me itâs different, because I wonât believe you anyway, and also..youâre making me angry!
How surprised I was, when reading a book, yesterday. A book by Vadim Zeland, a Russian mystic, writer, esoteric. The bookâs called Reality Transurfing.
And he writes and explains there, just how easy it is for us, to loose our energy just because weâre used to think that way. Actually, as he writes, any hard problem have a really simply solution! The problem is not hidden in the facts, that the solution might be to hard to understand, but in the fact, that we have to FIND it âsomewhere on the surfaceâ. And finding easy solutions, when youâre so sure that there is only hard ones - oh, it can be impossible!Â
Some time ago I was working in a quite big cosmetics company, HQ located in Riga, Latvia. I was a trainer for the shop-assistant girls, teaching them, how to make your customer smile, buy more, tell about products, and also some psychology. You know, these quite expensive, fancy shops, where they smile to you as soon as you enter the shop, and are really friendly , and accept all your needs and wishes, and talk to you as an old friend.... Yeah.Â
When working there I really enjoyed my work, but also there was some really serious ( as I thought) questions, like- hey, girl, youâll soon be in your thirties, what did you do ON YOUR OWN, an what work can you manage YOURSELF, if excluding working for others all the time? And I didnât have an answer for a long time. I was tormenting myself with all these questions, like - I canât sit in the office all day and just make some alien ideas become alive all the time. I have my own ideas, why canât I just quit everything and start my own business?!
And actually... I quit. Afterwards some time with confusion, and doubts, and mess in my head, and uncertainty followed. What will I do now? On my own?! I couldnât find the one and only idea, however I was trying as crazy to choose the best idea of all, and try to start my business. Well, ... it didnât happen, because for me, making the decision was a hell of a problem. It was so hard and I was telling myself, all the time - listen, this problem is SO HARD, you MUST NOT make a mistake, you hear me?
And the right idea just didnât and didnât come to my side, and I become more and more depressed about this fact.
Just yesterday, when starting to read this book, I realized, how simple is the answer! Just start telling yourself new things, and your life will follow your thoughts. Because, as an old law says - whereâs your attention, thereâs your energy.
If you put all your attention to a thought to NOT fck all the things up, and NOT make any mistakes, then, surely - all you will do, will be giving more energy to these fear and doubts, you will be feeding them, unconsciously, and wondering, why nothing will move forward..
But if you choose to feed right thoughts and generate right energies - everything will fall into places just in a while.
So....letâs SURF into our own realities, my friends!! And become the fearless travelers to the oceans of our unconscious minds..and letâs surf into paradise, darlings!! :)Â